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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a Dom/Sub couple we like the idea of pure humiliation of a lady whilst sub is tied and gagged to watch. A lady who enjoys being humiliated, degraded, chocked, slappped, ragged around, and having their boundaries pushed. Lots of fantasists but no takers. Do these ladies really exist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it happens but there has to be an awful lot of trust involved"
totally agree with the trust aspect. Even with just light bdsm id want to have at least met and discussed boundaries before hand. If that is what is intended OP. Please disregard my comment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all takes discussion but the comment about boundaries pushed is (unless discussed at length) extremely unsafe and has the potential to be detrimental not only the lady but yourself as well. The whole reason why BDSM works is communication and safety. |
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The idea was thrown into the pot, as we had enquiries and like any type of play boundaries, expectations, limitations and several meets with contracts and to discuss health issues and any other issues that would need to be made clear before any play commenced. Just after peoples thoughts and if they have experienced it and maybe have suggestions. |
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As someone who isn’t naturally dominant Personally I don’t feel comfortable in that sort of situation until all parties have met and spoken openly and specifically about limits and boundaries .
But once everyone is familiar and comfortable with each other and the ref blows the whistle to signal kick off I find the whole experience massively sexually stimulating both physically and mentally whether it’s me or someone else in control.
And then when the full time whistle goes it’s back to discussing the weather or Brexit or Love Island and shit like that. |
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