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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone I hope it’s ok to ask questions, but you all seem fairly knowledgeable regarding the club scene. I have always been interested in the club scene and Im a fairly confident guy but the club scene scares me slightly as I’m also very private about my private life.
How do you all deal with being recognised ?
Is a club say in Bristol a better choice than one close to home for a first time?
Is it better to go alone or to find someone “female “ to go with?
Your thoughts would be welcome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being worried about others knowing that your on here is a bit silly really.
If both of you are at a club your both there for the same reason so why worry ?
As for choice of location, use your local club and support it.
However your experience of the club may empower you to try others further afield.
You won't know till you try  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We understand the nervousness you have, probably most people feel that way first time they venture to a club or even an organised social event.
We prefer visiting a club further afield for a few reasons, less chance of those awkward moments when you see someone you know, more options for meeting 'new' people and we prefer the environment of club's further away to nearer home.
Hope this helps a little
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I've met people from my hometown in my local club. Like above said you're there for the same reason. They can't out you for being there without outing themselves. If they try to talk to you about swinging away from fab just politely remind them that that is your private life and you don't want to discuss it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went for years on my own as you will find you will make friends the more you go.
Asking for some company first off is a waste of time.
Grow a set of balls and go to a club. You won't regret it ! |
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"I went for years on my own as you will find you will make friends the more you go.
Asking for some company first off is a waste of time.
Grow a set of balls and go to a club. You won't regret it !"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve bumped into an old school teacher at a social and one of my mums best friends.
Conversation has never been ‘What’re you doing here?’ Because it was obvious.
Discretion is key, we fly the occasional message back and forth about attendance to events but that’s it.
Sex and how you choose to go about it isn’t an issue.
How you view things maybe is.
Open your mind a bit more.
Don’t worry what others think. |
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