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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So oooooooo when messaging ppl and having a chat,all going good then u all agree to exchange face pics, obviously someone sends first, if you don't like what u see, you send a polite no thank you message but is that then end of it or is it polite to still send yr pic? I'm thinking if you see their pic first and don't like wot u see then no need to send yrs surely. ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many on here that polite tbh,there's a lot of ignorant people that won't Answere ....be straight with people,saves confusion and a lot of nagging from undesirable people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say sorry not my type and sadly i block as get abuse if I dont. I ask on my profile to send a pic when messaging me and if i message first I always send my face straight away x |
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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago
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I usually attach one to my first message. If I don't get a reply I know it's a non-starter. I then use the private notes to remind me that they didn't reply. Saves time and effort in accidentally repeat-messaging people who've already made it clear they're not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought whoever's made first contact, should send a pic first.
But if I receive one and they aren't to my taste, then I think it's fair to say theres no obligation to send one back.
After all you're about to say no, so reaction isn't always easy to predict, so I'd rather they dont have my picture!! |
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If I've been sent a pic then I always send one back even if it's accompanied by a polite "no thankyou".
The reason for this is fair play. I've recognised the person before and still sent a pic reiterating the discretion I expect and always give.
There is nothing worse than not knowing if you've been recognised.
Pics in my view should always be sent both ways. It's rude not to.
I don't think pics should be asked for if intention to send one back isn't part of the deal.
An accompanying "no thank you" still holds weight in my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just reading this back and it's no surprise that the majority of men are saying yes to sending one in return as it's the polite method and women saying the opposite but yet men are judged to be the rude ones here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Exactly my worry if I sent a pic n I'm recognised just a reply of sry we know u is enough instead of nothing even a not my type thanx is better than nothing cos left wondering what I did wrong lol |
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"So oooooooo when messaging ppl and having a chat,all going good then u all agree to exchange face pics, obviously someone sends first, if you don't like what u see, you send a polite no thank you message but is that then end of it or is it polite to still send yr pic? I'm thinking if you see their pic first and don't like wot u see then no need to send yrs surely. ... "
Definitely no need to send yours if there's no attraction.
To be fair I think both parties should count 3-2-1 then press send together so you both get to perve each other  |
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"Just reading this back and it's no surprise that the majority of men are saying yes to sending one in return as it's the polite method and women saying the opposite but yet men are judged to be the rude ones here? "
I thought I'd get at least someone to agree with me lol.
Maybe it's because you are a man of your word.
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"Just reading this back and it's no surprise that the majority of men are saying yes to sending one in return as it's the polite method and women saying the opposite but yet men are judged to be the rude ones here? "
I thought I'd get at least someone to agree with me lol.
Maybe it's because you are a man of your word.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in a rare position where I don't need to send a face pic, because mine is available on my profile as I DGAF who sees it or not....
It might explain why 99.9% of my messages go unnoticed, but hey ho..... Can't win them all..... But at least people know that I am genuine if nothing else. And, those who do give me the privilege of chatting tend to feel more comfortable and volunteer their pics anyway. |
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