How essential is it to you on a meet?
Are you like a Koala bear who eats, shoots and leaves?
Or do you enjoy the breathing space between horizontal jogging, filling it with a good chat?
I'd have to say I'm the latter. |
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"I'd pick the 2nd choice any day , I love a good chat a cuppa and possibley a little cwtch, koalas don't get a 2nd meet ever x"
Im the same and i will only ever give a basic veri then to, i know its a sex site and all but a girl likes to feel special and not just used  i dont know if the other girls agree with this |
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"I'd pick the 2nd choice any day , I love a good chat a cuppa and possibley a little cwtch, koalas don't get a 2nd meet ever x
Im the same and i will only ever give a basic veri then to, i know its a sex site and all but a girl likes to feel special and not just used i dont know if the other girls agree with this"
I'm with you on this one x |
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"I'd pick the 2nd choice any day , I love a good chat a cuppa and possibley a little cwtch, koalas don't get a 2nd meet ever x
Im the same and i will only ever give a basic veri then to, i know its a sex site and all but a girl likes to feel special and not just used i dont know if the other girls agree with this
I'm with you on this one x"
Glad im not alone!!! Dont get me wrong i love a good hard kinky fuck, but i also love the 'after care' |
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I like both because it's dependent on my mood & needs at the time. Some guys are good for fuck n go & I wouldn't really want to chat, others I enjoy the company. I'm happy to be clear what I'm looking for when I'm looking X |
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"My spidey senses are telling me that the men of fab don't give a shit either way  "
Nope, the chat is usually fake & it goes in one ear & out the other. It's therefore largely over rated X |
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"You've got to stay and have a chat or a cuppa. People aren't pieces of meat. Its good to compliment on what they were good at too"
Having a chat over a cuppa is a little different to pillow talk & the intimacy that implies. I can do that social bit, but the pillow talk always feels contrived X |
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"You've got to stay and have a chat or a cuppa. People aren't pieces of meat. Its good to compliment on what they were good at too
Having a chat over a cuppa is a little different to pillow talk & the intimacy that implies. I can do that social bit, but the pillow talk always feels contrived X"
What's the difference if you're talking about the same type of things? Genuine question. |
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"You've got to stay and have a chat or a cuppa. People aren't pieces of meat. Its good to compliment on what they were good at too
Having a chat over a cuppa is a little different to pillow talk & the intimacy that implies. I can do that social bit, but the pillow talk always feels contrived X
What's the difference if you're talking about the same type of things? Genuine question. "
I can only comment from my experience but the bedroom/pillow aspect tends to lead men down a certain path of conversation, almost like they're required to be 'intimate', 'sharing' in some way. Sofa chat over a coffee has a different subtext. |
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"You've got to stay and have a chat or a cuppa. People aren't pieces of meat. Its good to compliment on what they were good at too
Having a chat over a cuppa is a little different to pillow talk & the intimacy that implies. I can do that social bit, but the pillow talk always feels contrived X
What's the difference if you're talking about the same type of things? Genuine question.
I can only comment from my experience but the bedroom/pillow aspect tends to lead men down a certain path of conversation, almost like they're required to be 'intimate', 'sharing' in some way. Sofa chat over a coffee has a different subtext. "
Thanks, I can see that. I'd probably talk about the same type of things (i.e. anything and everything) wherever I was. Probably an indication of my one dimensionality |
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"You've got to stay and have a chat or a cuppa. People aren't pieces of meat. Its good to compliment on what they were good at too
Having a chat over a cuppa is a little different to pillow talk & the intimacy that implies. I can do that social bit, but the pillow talk always feels contrived X
What's the difference if you're talking about the same type of things? Genuine question.
I can only comment from my experience but the bedroom/pillow aspect tends to lead men down a certain path of conversation, almost like they're required to be 'intimate', 'sharing' in some way. Sofa chat over a coffee has a different subtext.
Thanks, I can see that. I'd probably talk about the same type of things (i.e. anything and everything) wherever I was. Probably an indication of my one dimensionality "
Which matches my own simple one dimensionality. But not everyone is that way, layers upon layers of meaningingless stuff X |
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