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"Is it possible for a man to love 2 women At the same time! sorry it it sounds stupid but just trying to understand a mans mind "
if it bloody autocorrect
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As the husband of this couple I would definitely say no, love is unconditional for me, we play with other people which is fun but our love is solely for us.. |
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My reply won't apply to all men, nor all women, but polyamory is a thing yes. It is possible for both sexes to love more than one other person. Just be aware that some people will use it as an excuse for poor behaviour and negativity in a relationship dynamic as a justification for their lack of moral fibre.
I myself believe that I have the capacity to love more than one woman, but when one is difficult enough to find then I seriously doubt that I will ever have the opportunity to develop as a person with two!  |
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"As the husband of this couple I would definitely say no, love is unconditional for me, we play with other people which is fun but our love is solely for us.."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My reply won't apply to all men, nor all women, but polyamory is a thing yes. It is possible for both sexes to love more than one other person. Just be aware that some people will use it as an excuse for poor behaviour and negativity in a relationship dynamic as a justification for their lack of moral fibre.
I myself believe that I have the capacity to love more than one woman, but when one is difficult enough to find then I seriously doubt that I will ever have the opportunity to develop as a person with two! "
I’m sure you will find your 1 one day x |
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"Is it possible for a man to love 2 women At the same time! sorry it it sounds stupid but just trying to understand a mans mind "
I could never love anyone more than I love my wife.
So it's a no from me  |
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We think it is but then we have never been exclusive in the 8 years we've been in a relationship. I feel loved everyday & I like to think Ch3wy feels loved back X |
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"I love my Mrs and I always will. But I still love other women who have been in my life. I always want more though. Maybe it's the way some people's brains are wired. Can't settle. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We think it is but then we have never been exclusive in the 8 years we've been in a relationship. I feel loved everyday & I like to think Ch3wy feels loved back X"
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"Is it possible for a man to love 2 women At the same time! sorry it it sounds stupid but just trying to understand a mans mind
I could never love anyone more than I love my wife.
So it's a no from me "
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First you need to to define love.
Seems a few people think love is what you do for one person. Where most people love their, parents, children as well as their partner, which love is strongest?, In what way?.
Or can we say safely say, lots of different types of love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I think it is possible for men. Women I don't think so you could be right there about a woman x"
I was in love with my husband of 21 yrs and my gf of 3 yrs so yes it's possible for a women as well x
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It's possible for both a man AND a woman to love two people at the same time. I was in a poly relationship for 10 years, 8 of which we lived together. So 100% it is possible. Those saying no, just because you're not "wired that way" doesn't mean to say it's not true of others!
The beauty of things, is that we as a human race are all different. Every one of us. I could literally write a book on this stuff...but I'll stop there otherwise I will go on and on!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's possible for both a man AND a woman to love two people at the same time. I was in a poly relationship for 10 years, 8 of which we lived together. So 100% it is possible. Those saying no, just because you're not "wired that way" doesn't mean to say it's not true of others!
The beauty of things, is that we as a human race are all different. Every one of us. I could literally write a book on this stuff...but I'll stop there otherwise I will go on and on!!
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...fuck me...I wrote something serious for once! "
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For sure... of course you can! you have a different love for each person. Pretty much the same as loving each or your kids, a different love and you love different things about them. You can fall in love with another partner for different reasons. I personally don't see a problem with it but on fab people can had some weird misconceptions and judge other by their own standards (which can be pretty damn low in some cases). |
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"For sure... of course you can! you have a different love for each person. Pretty much the same as loving each or your kids, a different love and you love different things about them. You can fall in love with another partner for different reasons. I personally don't see a problem with it but on fab people can had some weird misconceptions and judge other by their own standards (which can be pretty damn low in some cases)."
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It's nice to see an interesting thread. It's nice to see the different opinions. I'm female and I know u asked for a mans perspective but I couldn't love anyone like I love my partner. I do think lust and other things can feel like love. But then people on here are saying yes and it worked for them. I think if all parties know and are in agreement that it's possible. I dont think having an affair for example is quite the same. I think its lust then and not love for either woman really. This is a tough one xxmiss |
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"It's nice to see an interesting thread. It's nice to see the different opinions. I'm female and I know u asked for a mans perspective but I couldn't love anyone like I love my partner. I do think lust and other things can feel like love. But then people on here are saying yes and it worked for them. I think if all parties know and are in agreement that it's possible. I dont think having an affair for example is quite the same. I think its lust then and not love for either woman really. This is a tough one xxmiss "
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