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Just plain rudeness
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why would a person do this....
Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Name an shame thats simply fucking ignorant "
Honestly I have thought about it. But I’m a better person . His just been blocked.. (cheeky fucker asked me to leave him a good verification!)
....four hours we spent together banter/sex/talking/laughing.... and off he fucked!! leaving me in the hotel. Having to hand the keys in, Alone when we arrived together . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it was just sex not a date
Juat becoz it was a sex meet doesnt mean u need to treat people like that.."
Indeed.... I would never be so rude.
Not like I was no one asking for another meet... he was. Also just for the record I’m not on a swinging site for dates!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say it's defo not nice but have u actually asked him to explain???? maybe he went for a fag and accidently "sharted" and legged it home??? lol but that's Just one of many reasons if he actually has one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s rude. I remember end of 2017 a one off guy who I’d just fucked but he wasn’t keen to sleep over, said he was getting some rennie from his car and then fucked off! Funnier thing is that every couple of months since he’ll ask to meet again, it’s like yeah right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol |
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"Why would a person do this....
Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."
Sounds like he was hiding something, asshole |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive  "
It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol"
After about 15 minutes I text him, (have you got lost)no reply
Then I rang phone off
I what’s ap (which has been read)
Saying bang out of order and a outrageous thing to do...RUDE |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd say it's defo not nice but have u actually asked him to explain???? maybe he went for a fag and accidently "sharted" and legged it home??? lol but that's Just one of many reasons if he actually has one."
Maybe that’s the way he gets his kicks |
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The difficulty you have is applying what are deemed normal and polite social protocols to an environment where to many these are not important. The chap was undoubtedly driven by desire and lust to meet you, his normal social filters clouded by ravishing you. However post tryst he may be filled with guilt because he has lied to someone where he is, not told a significant other. Maybe outside he saw someone who could compromise him at work if he was pulling a sickie? I wouldn’t over analyse it, it’s clearly upset you but just perhaps accept ‘he might be a bit odd’ lol and you are well shot of him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just to ask cause no-one has yet but have u asked him why???? or just block straight away??? if he has no excuse I completely agree with the rest on here but know one has asked that question has of yet lol
After about 15 minutes I text him, (have you got lost)no reply
Then I rang phone off
I what’s ap (which has been read)
Saying bang out of order and a outrageous thing to do...RUDE"
ah well defo bang out of order. if he wasn't interested anymore then a simple sorry would have been something |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Name an shame thats simply fucking ignorant
Honestly I have thought about it. But I’m a better person . His just been blocked.. (cheeky fucker asked me to leave him a good verification!)
....four hours we spent together banter/sex/talking/laughing.... and off he fucked!! leaving me in the hotel. Having to hand the keys in, Alone when we arrived together ."
It’s no wonder there’s so much negativity towards us males on the site- sheer arrogant ignorance. Deserves to be named.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would a person do this....
Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."
Complete cockwomble. It may be a about fun and having NSA sex, but that is disrespectful and twatty behaviour. I'm glad you blocked him OP. Just a pity you found out after the sex and not before. Sounds like someone who got his rocks off, then buggered off once he got what he wanted. There's no excuse for behaving in a disrespectful manner. People who think that is an acceptable way to behave, because it's fab, is not someone i want any association with. I personally would not name and shame, but i would PM my female friends to give them a heads up of the type of man he is, just in case he got in touch with them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why would a person do this....
Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy.
Complete cockwomble. It may be a about fun and having NSA sex, but that is disrespectful and twatty behaviour. I'm glad you blocked him OP. Just a pity you found out after the sex and not before. Sounds like someone who got his rocks off, then buggered off once he got what he wanted. There's no excuse for behaving in a disrespectful manner. People who think that is an acceptable way to behave, because it's fab, is not someone i want any association with. I personally would not name and shame, but i would PM my female friends to give them a heads up of the type of man he is, just in case he got in touch with them.
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I’m happy to share with inbox but I’m not putting it out for all to see. We shared some personal talks over the time we were texting and talking... and I would never discuss any of it.. I was shocked by his behaviour.. and angry at the time I’m over it now.
Was a little hurt as we had chatted for some time before hand.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The difficulty you have is applying what are deemed normal and polite social protocols to an environment where to many these are not important. The chap was undoubtedly driven by desire and lust to meet you, his normal social filters clouded by ravishing you. However post tryst he may be filled with guilt because he has lied to someone where he is, not told a significant other. Maybe outside he saw someone who could compromise him at work if he was pulling a sickie? I wouldn’t over analyse it, it’s clearly upset you but just perhaps accept ‘he might be a bit odd’ lol and you are well shot of him! "
Yes anything is possible but he had my number and a simple text would of been ok..
Or at least a reply to mine! |
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"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive
It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself "
Ahhh you did say it was your shopping which I did wonder about.
Anyway, no point wasting another joule of energy over the matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You probably shouldn't have sent him to do your weekly shop though, unless he was particularly submissive
It wasn’t my shopping he went for.... he went for himself
Ahhh you did say it was your shopping which I did wonder about.
Anyway, no point wasting another joule of energy over the matter. "
The OP had already corrected herself further down the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got what he wanted, empty balls. "
Very much this. A lot of women seem to think men on Fab are after more than what they really are. He got what he wanted, he left.  |
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"Why would a person do this....
Meet in a hotel, have the most amazing sex go to shop for my supplies... come back enjoy more time. Say your going outside for a fag... and not come back!! Not even a text ! Not even a thanks ! Not even a buy."
WOW Max... I'm speechless! Respect costs absolutely nothing to give.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He got what he wanted, empty balls.
Very much this. A lot of women seem to think men on Fab are after more than what they really are. He got what he wanted, he left. "
Oh believe me love .... I’m not after anything other then what I’m here for....
(but respect.cost nothing) The cheeky sod has since text after another meet!
But I have better things to do... washing my hair! |
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