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I was 20 my first time, it was vanilla. For the next 22 yrs it was all the same. I didnt know what squirting was and I never got wet. Anal was forbidden lol.
That all changed at 42. These last 7 yrs have been mind blowing. I only wish id discovered great sex in my 20s and 30s. Now in my late 40s Im having so much fun  |
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I don't think it's sexy gets better with age for me it's finding the right sexual partner "your match" & then sex becomes awesome finally found my match x |
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"I don't think it's sexy gets better with age for me it's finding the right sexual partner "your match" & then sex becomes awesome finally found my match x"
sex even bloody autocorrect x
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"All my best fucks have been with younger men. On the whole I have found older men a disappointment.
That’s ageist  and there are always exceptions to the rule"
Na mate just the over 30s don't do it for me soz  |
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I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.  |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too. "
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
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"We are like fine wines we just get better with age ??"
Thats how I feel lol, only wish I had my youthfull body and boobs that stayed up like they did back then lol Not that I had big boobs then, they grew when I became a mother lol |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
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Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though, |
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"We are like fine wines we just get better with age ??
Thats how I feel lol, only wish I had my youthfull body and boobs that stayed up like they did back then lol Not that I had big boobs then, they grew when I became a mother lol"
F@#k off! You are as stunning now, probably even more so, as written I first met you 12 years ago! xxx |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though, "
I agree. I also find younger men have a better attitude towards women and less of a sense of entitlement. I think that is probably a generational thing though |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though, "
No backlash, just don't pigeon hole all of us in the same bracket  |
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"We are like fine wines we just get better with age ??
Thats how I feel lol, only wish I had my youthfull body and boobs that stayed up like they did back then lol Not that I had big boobs then, they grew when I became a mother lol
F@#k off! You are as stunning now, probably even more so, as written I first met you 12 years ago! xxx"
My boobs pointed more north back then my toy boy lover  |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though,
I agree. I also find younger men have a better attitude towards women and less of a sense of entitlement. I think that is probably a generational thing though "
Now tbh i do find older men more mature, ive had more let down from younger men but still attracted to them lol |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though,
No backlash, just don't pigeon hole all of us in the same bracket "
I should have added the ones who message me let themselves go. But your right, its not all men xx |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though,
No backlash, just don't pigeon hole all of us in the same bracket
I should have added the ones who message me let themselves go. But your right, its not all men xx "
I think that is because a lot of men from the older generation just feel women are there to please them so don't believe they have the need to look after themselves and make themselves look attractive to women. Younger men understand women are on here because they enjoy sex, not to please men. I think societies attitudes towards women and sex have changed and mens have changed with it |
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It was in bed and it just got me thinking thst what if my body just didnt work back in my younger days like it does now. I barely played with myself back then. Now im also horny lol
I only knew missionary, bdsm was unknown to me either. I was married before and he was vanilla, id buy fun valentines kinky fun gifts but it wasn't for him. I was 26 then. Ive lost alot of years. Now I love having fun and my body responds so much better x |
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We have been together for 30 years, when we was young we had a good sex life but pretty vanilla.
Along came the kids and our responsibilities was solely aimed at them and thankfully it seemed to have worked as we have two beautiful kids that we're extremely proud of.
The kids flew the nest and we became grown up teenagers again but a lot more wiser and a lot more confident.. now days we do tons of concerts and with an empty house we basically can fuck where we want when we want and with whom we want so yes our sex is better and a lot more daring but we'd say that's down to circumstances. |
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"We have been together for 30 years, when we was young we had a good sex life but pretty vanilla.
Along came the kids and our responsibilities was solely aimed at them and thankfully it seemed to have worked as we have two beautiful kids that we're extremely proud of.
The kids flew the nest and we became grown up teenagers again but a lot more wiser and a lot more confident.. now days we do tons of concerts and with an empty house we basically can fuck where we want when we want and with whom we want so yes our sex is better and a lot more daring but we'd say that's down to circumstances. "
30 yrs is awesome, its definitely got easier for us as our kids are getting older, trouble is they dont go out, xbox crazy so we cant bring anyone back for fun , we have to leave the house to play lollol |
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"We have been together for 30 years, when we was young we had a good sex life but pretty vanilla.
Along came the kids and our responsibilities was solely aimed at them and thankfully it seemed to have worked as we have two beautiful kids that we're extremely proud of.
The kids flew the nest and we became grown up teenagers again but a lot more wiser and a lot more confident.. now days we do tons of concerts and with an empty house we basically can fuck where we want when we want and with whom we want so yes our sex is better and a lot more daring but we'd say that's down to circumstances.
30 yrs is awesome, its definitely got easier for us as our kids are getting older, trouble is they dont go out, xbox crazy so we cant bring anyone back for fun , we have to leave the house to play lollol"
Bloody kids 
We have had people back at the house but decided it's our personal space so stopped accommodating.. you'll miss those kids when they've gone. X |
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"We have been together for 30 years, when we was young we had a good sex life but pretty vanilla.
Along came the kids and our responsibilities was solely aimed at them and thankfully it seemed to have worked as we have two beautiful kids that we're extremely proud of.
The kids flew the nest and we became grown up teenagers again but a lot more wiser and a lot more confident.. now days we do tons of concerts and with an empty house we basically can fuck where we want when we want and with whom we want so yes our sex is better and a lot more daring but we'd say that's down to circumstances.
30 yrs is awesome, its definitely got easier for us as our kids are getting older, trouble is they dont go out, xbox crazy so we cant bring anyone back for fun , we have to leave the house to play lollol
Bloody kids
We have had people back at the house but decided it's our personal space so stopped accommodating.. you'll miss those kids when they've gone. X"
I will definitely miss them, tbh we hardly ever accommodate even when weve had the chance. Only friends come back here. Easier to go to clubs to meet or other homes x |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
Hope I dont get back lash for this next comment from men but younger men look after themselves more. Older men I find let themselves go. Im just not attracted to that sadly. I do love dad bods though,
I agree. I also find younger men have a better attitude towards women and less of a sense of entitlement. I think that is probably a generational thing though "
I so agree with you x |
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Its more about how my own body has changed then who ive played with i think overall.
I didn't own a skirt and stockings were disgusting in my younger days. Now I dont own trousers. So as much as im heavier I actually feel sexier and more feminine. I was a tomboy in my 20s, that didn't help lol |
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I've found more time, to develop the curiosity, more awareness of the full capabilities of my body and the desire to share pleasure has increased dramatically,pushing the boundaries and increasing orgasmicity. Its so much better when not rushed.. I love to see my partners experience new levels of pleasure, through greater variety,that comes over time.
It was less varied when younger and having the pressure of life.. |
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"I've found more time, to develop the curiosity, more awareness of the full capabilities of my body and the desire to share pleasure has increased dramatically,pushing the boundaries and increasing orgasmicity. Its so much better when not rushed.. I love to see my partners experience new levels of pleasure, through greater variety,that comes over time.
It was less varied when younger and having the pressure of life.. "
That's definitely true my friend, i had no variety when I was younger, the men i met were as inexperienced as me so in truth it really does get better with age as as you gain more experience xx |
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"For me it's about trying new things and knowing what I want"
Exactly, i didnt have a clue what I wanted when i was young. I had a kinky streak in me but back then i know i wasnt ready to try it all. Bdsm didnt cross my path either till in my 40s xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The sex I have now is the best I've ever had.
I put this down to not being afraid to try something new, feeling liberated enough to discuss what I want/like and vice versa, and learning to love my body. |
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"I'm hoping my sex life gets better when I'm older.. Because it's non existant now, so can't get much worse for me lol. "
Attend all the socials that are happening in this area, there's a few every month. You will get to meet lovely woman this way x |
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I know I've got better as I've got older.
If I knew what I now know when I was 21..... 
Have I let myself go a bit getting older... Yeah, I have.
I can't compete with 20yr olds physique wise, mostly because I cba to do the whole gym thing again, I find it boring and tedious.
But I can compete with the younger lot experience wise...
Don't work hard, work smart  |
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I have to say definitely. I'm having much better sex in my 30s compared to my 20s. I know what gets me off and I'm confident enough to tell people what's needed or if something isn't working. I'm confident with my body and relax more - having fun and being open to experimenting. |
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"I liked older men in my 20s , they were more experienced, now i alway go for younger, no idea why. Attraction I think. Think for me its not just the parnters I now meet but it is me too, im more sexual. I didn't own sex toys in my 20s either lol, ive a kit bag full now lol. I feel like my body feels things now it never use too.
I just find older guys try too hard and can be a bit cringy
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im with you on this, I used to love older men in my twenties but not anymore. Bring in the young good looking rugby players!! |
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For me (miss) sex has 100%, gotten better with age! I also had no clue what squirting was . It's also about the position we are in at this time in our lives. It's so hard when the kids are small. They are teens now so it's a little easier. Although we don't tend to accommodate much we bought a motorhome so we can sneak off lol. Personally I find the younger men more lazy and inexperienced! Not all obviously.
Hubby is 10 years older than me and we've been together 17 years. I think it does come down to attitude though. I always make sure to please everyone but in return I too like a grafter xxmiss |
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For me in my younger years it was definitely a case of quantity over quality.
I definitely can't go as many times in a night as I used to, but it's of a better quality now, unrushed, confident and more diverse. |
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The best sex I've had has always been with older women...ten to fifteen years older than me has always seemed to work out very nicely, throughout my life, although there have been one or two women of my own age and just a couple of years older who have been wonderful lovers too. So long as there's a connection there, its always been wonderful, but I'm reaching an age now where most of the women older than me seem to be more interested in other pastimes sadly...though I'm hoping there are still ladies out there who still want to enjoy life's wonderful pleasures...message me if you'd like to grow old disgracefully with a smile on your face, and lets talk |
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35 yrs or so(fuck lol)i use to work the doors in pubs and clubs in Bristol and had weman coming at me of all ages and have to say the older married ones were the more experienced as u would imagine and more fun as they knew what to do. As they have always done, but the older lady now looks after her self more these days with nice clean and shaven tanned bodies and they spend more time in gyms these day, and now they can squirt and gush all over the place and have a better attitude towards sex as for guys they also r more experienced than the younger guys but age is a bastard for all of us, twice ad hard to lose waite but a few do do it but as long as u r healthy clean reasonably fit, so what we will all get there, life IS short enjoy what ever your age xx |
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"I was 20 my first time, it was vanilla. For the next 22 yrs it was all the same. I didnt know what squirting was and I never got wet. Anal was forbidden lol.
That all changed at 42. These last 7 yrs have been mind blowing. I only wish id discovered great sex in my 20s and 30s. Now in my late 40s Im having so much fun "
Hi you two. Agree with all.
Be interesting to know what the catalyst for change was for many here?
For us we were new as a couple & I think we'd both decided that this time we were going to kick back & have fun -say it it like it is. We are comfortable enough with each other to be honest about what we like, and inquisitive enough to find out what the other half likes & fantasises about....and then brave enough to try it! Something we wouldn't have been 30 years ago. |
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