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In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx | |||
"I've been getting this feeling as I'm quite strong myself. Think a break may be needed " You maybe be right hun x | |||
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"I've been getting this feeling as I'm quite strong myself. Think a break may be needed You maybe be right hun x" Get it all the time hun | |||
"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx "See things like that is what makes us lose confidence. I mean I was supposed to have a meet sunday no messages nothing, then he gives me an excuse then puts up a verification from that night  its hard to not lose confidence xx | |||
"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx
See things like that is what makes us lose confidence. I mean I was supposed to have a meet sunday no messages nothing, then he gives me an excuse then puts up a verification from that night its hard to not lose confidence xx"No it ms not good hun | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx"There is some mad moments in life I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like | |||
"I've been getting this feeling as I'm quite strong myself. Think a break may be needed You maybe be right hun x" Perhaps he was married and knew you so panicked? Rude but not because of you x | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx
There is some mad moments in life I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like " | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx
There is some mad moments in life I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like
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"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx
There is some mad moments in life I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like
Silly you ok hun
"I will be fine, this site is quite a head fuck sometimes | |||
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"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx
There is some mad moments in life I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like
Silly you ok hun
I will be fine, this site is quite a head fuck sometimes "Inbox me | |||
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"You need a thick skin for this site that's for sure. I'm sure everyone on this site has had a knock back at some time or another. Just move on and find someone more compatible, have loads of fun and your knock back will be well and truly forgotten about. X" That is very true, I definitely have brushed myself off but its still a little crack for my confidence, I suppose it's sometimes expected on a site like this  | |||
"You need a thick skin for this site that's for sure. I'm sure everyone on this site has had a knock back at some time or another. Just move on and find someone more compatible, have loads of fun and your knock back will be well and truly forgotten about. X That is very true, I definitely have brushed myself off but its still a little crack for my confidence, I suppose it's sometimes expected on a site like this "Silly inbox me ?????? | |||
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"I know some will say it doesnt affect them and to be strong and not give a toot. Sadly myself and others from what I can see are not all like that. Anxiety and nerves all contribute. Ive always said I wish I was the type to not care. I should have been a narcosist lol" Very true I believe it will affect anyone no matter how strong they are. Yes nerves and anxiety are a part of this whole way of life to, it's just hard not to care sometimes | |||
"I know some will say it doesnt affect them and to be strong and not give a toot. Sadly myself and others from what I can see are not all like that. Anxiety and nerves all contribute. Ive always said I wish I was the type to not care. I should have been a narcosist lol" We just look at it that not everyone is for everyone.. we have rejected loads and been rejected ourselves.. it's not nice but it's the nature of the site I'm afraid. | |||
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"Hun - don’t get deflated hold your head up they’re not worth your thought or attention . You’re better than that truly . Been there done that and you know what when you see that they’re meeting and fucking just anything makes you feel you know what you’re an arsehole ! Onward up and upward lovely xxx " Thanks hun I appreciate that | |||
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"Hun - don’t get deflated hold your head up they’re not worth your thought or attention . You’re better than that truly . Been there done that and you know what when you see that they’re meeting and fucking just anything makes you feel you know what you’re an arsehole ! Onward up and upward lovely xxx Thanks hun I appreciate that ". You’re welcome lovely just think they lower their standards you don’t xxx | |||
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"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx "Unfortunately I get this a lot on here. | |||
"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. " I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me | |||
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"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me" | |||
"Ok, to Silly and all u other lovely ladies and some guys, no one has the right to knock your confidence or put u down in any way, one thing my dad taught me is believe in your self and treat ppl as they treat u, so if they dont chat to u fuck em, they not like u fuck em, if they ignore u fuck em there loss not yours i taught my kids same thing,my kids say some times im a big head lol, but it got me through in my younger yrs, so every day dont hide pass the mirror, look into it and say,"I am a beautiful person inside as well as outside, if u have a problem with that fuck off", i still do this, I dont lack confidence these days but helps topping it up, so chin up, be strong be lucky, mr x" I admire you, that is such a good attitude to have | |||
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"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me" Hun you’re gorgeous inside and out it’s their loss not yours - you know I had that too I m usually guarded what an arsehole he turned out to be - any hole is a goal with him - he Had a jealous ex who disliked me and put a spanner in the works he believed her over me . ( even though I proved it was her all along ) I m a better person without his made up dramas and his very messed up lifestyle . X | |||
"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. Perhaps it just made her feel cheap doing cam it's not for everyone myself I wouldn't do it don't take it personally but women can change their minds at any given time x Shit happens though and I'm used to the rejection as anyone who saw me d*unk in the upstairs O'Neils in the 00s will attest to " | |||
"Ok, to Silly and all u other lovely ladies and some guys, no one has the right to knock your confidence or put u down in any way, one thing my dad taught me is believe in your self and treat ppl as they treat u, so if they dont chat to u fuck em, they not like u fuck em, if they ignore u fuck em there loss not yours i taught my kids same thing,my kids say some times im a big head lol, but it got me through in my younger yrs, so every day dont hide pass the mirror, look into it and say,"I am a beautiful person inside as well as outside, if u have a problem with that fuck off", i still do this, I dont lack confidence these days but helps topping it up, so chin up, be strong be lucky, mr x I admire you, that is such a good attitude to have "Dont admire me, admire your self, love your self before others, be strong, be u , try it, works for me. | |||
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"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me" Hey hun you ok xx | |||
"Ok, to Silly and all u other lovely ladies and some guys, no one has the right to knock your confidence or put u down in any way, one thing my dad taught me is believe in your self and treat ppl as they treat u, so if they dont chat to u fuck em, they not like u fuck em, if they ignore u fuck em there loss not yours i taught my kids same thing,my kids say some times im a big head lol, but it got me through in my younger yrs, so every day dont hide pass the mirror, look into it and say,"I am a beautiful person inside as well as outside, if u have a problem with that fuck off", i still do this, I dont lack confidence these days but helps topping it up, so chin up, be strong be lucky, mr x" Very true and wise words x | |||
"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me Hun you’re gorgeous inside and out it’s their loss not yours - you know I had that too I m usually guarded what an arsehole he turned out to be - any hole is a goal with him - he Had a jealous ex who disliked me and put a spanner in the works he believed her over me . ( even though I proved it was her all along ) I m a better person without his made up dramas and his very messed up lifestyle . X " Thank you hun. And yes I remember. It's them that loses out in the long run x | |||
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"I cammed with someone this past week, someone I've met in the past and we both seemed to enjoy it. But the next day she messages to say she's not into this kind of thing anymore and is concentrating on club meets etc. I do believe her but there's 1% of doubt in me that makes me think it's a rejection of myself. I had something similar 2 weeks ago but actually after playing. Said it was nothing I'd done but one minute was fine the next he's not interested! Hard not to feel used in all honesty. But how I see it it's his loss not mine. I wouldn't treat someone like that. Says more about him than me Hun you’re gorgeous inside and out it’s their loss not yours - you know I had that too I m usually guarded what an arsehole he turned out to be - any hole is a goal with him - he Had a jealous ex who disliked me and put a spanner in the works he believed her over me . ( even though I proved it was her all along ) I m a better person without his made up dramas and his very messed up lifestyle . X Thank you hun. And yes I remember. It's them that loses out in the long run x" Loads of love xx | |||
"Happens to me all the time, I could have messages complimenting me and I just don’t feel it. But we’re all beautiful in our own way x" Very true hun  | |||
"Happens to me all the time, I could have messages complimenting me and I just don’t feel it. But we’re all beautiful in our own way x Very true hun "Ignore anyone who makes you feel differently about yourself. For every person that knocks your confidence there’s someone right behind them ready to pick you up | |||
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"Happens to me all the time, I could have messages complimenting me and I just don’t feel it. But we’re all beautiful in our own way x Very true hun
Ignore anyone who makes you feel differently about yourself. For every person that knocks your confidence there’s someone right behind them ready to pick you up "Thank you hun, you think that too, you are gorgeous x | |||
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"Having knock backs is part of life on here but remember it's their loss not yours ! I have read many threads over the years from people being rejected and have given the same advice. Rise above it and remember your better than them ! You have lots more fun ahead of you!" So true hun | |||
"Happens to me all the time, I could have messages complimenting me and I just don’t feel it. But we’re all beautiful in our own way x Very true hun
Ignore anyone who makes you feel differently about yourself. For every person that knocks your confidence there’s someone right behind them ready to pick you up
Thank you hun, you think that too, you are gorgeous x"So are you lovely x | |||
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"Happens to me all the time, I could have messages complimenting me and I just don’t feel it. But we’re all beautiful in our own way x" | |||
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"Loads of times. Been made to feel too fat, too old, too ugly- had my breasts criticised on a status (apparently only big breasts are attractive) and had a woman ignore a message on our couples profile then message Mr to arrange to fuck him! Tbh I’m not arsed she didn’t find me attractive, more that she had no respect for my feelings, like I’m worthless xx Major confidence knock " That is just nasty, and from a woman, well your the lucky one u have the fella she hasnt got. | |||
"Loads of times. Been made to feel too fat, too old, too ugly- had my breasts criticised on a status (apparently only big breasts are attractive) and had a woman ignore a message on our couples profile then message Mr to arrange to fuck him! Tbh I’m not arsed she didn’t find me attractive, more that she had no respect for my feelings, like I’m worthless xx Major confidence knock That is just nasty, and from a woman, well your the lucky one u have the fella she hasnt got." Thank you x some people have no respect and it speaks volumes about the lack of respect they have for themselves too. I don’t understand people who hurt others for kicks or an ego boost. Luckily they’re not the norm. Now I don’t care so much, as one persons fat is another persons curvaceous- I don’t need someone led by their genitals to tell me my worth, they just can’t see it xx | |||
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"So many hot people on this thread, nobody should be feeling down about themselves here, I'd snog you all! Apart from you men, you can f-off, grow some balls and take the rejection "He was just kidding guys. He likes to joke around. BJ's for all | |||
"Loads of times. Been made to feel too fat, too old, too ugly- had my breasts criticised on a status (apparently only big breasts are attractive) and had a woman ignore a message on our couples profile then message Mr to arrange to fuck him! Tbh I’m not arsed she didn’t find me attractive, more that she had no respect for my feelings, like I’m worthless xx Major confidence knock That is just nasty, and from a woman, well your the lucky one u have the fella she hasnt got. Thank you x some people have no respect and it speaks volumes about the lack of respect they have for themselves too. I don’t understand people who hurt others for kicks or an ego boost. Luckily they’re not the norm. Now I don’t care so much, as one persons fat is another persons curvaceous- I don’t need someone led by their genitals to tell me my worth, they just can’t see it xx "This.. We all have different tastes and views and not one person is attractive to everyone .. I've had knockbacks too, but mostly due to comparing myself .. When I'm feeling a little insecure, I get dolled up, pour a gin and get out with the girls! No men involved .. you don't need them to put value on the way you look etc x | |||
"So many hot people on this thread, nobody should be feeling down about themselves here, I'd snog you all! Apart from you men, you can f-off, grow some balls and take the rejection
He was just kidding guys. He likes to joke around. BJ's for all "Reminds me of my first blow job. Had 6 pints and 5 vodkas to celebrate. Still didn't get rid of the taste  | |||
" Reminds me of my first blow job. Had 6 pints and 5 vodkas to celebrate. Still didn't get rid of the taste "I'm gonna use this one
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"My first ever planned meet on Fab stood me up. I remember thinking Fab was a bad idea as maybe i was too old. How wrong i was. Since then i have been stood up again and had plenty meets cancelled but i just dust myself down and hold my head high as am now well aware that for every idiot there are 1000 saints." I don't think any of us are saints  but in some ways fab is like most dating sites. I think all of us who have been stood up, may have stood up people in the past, whether here or in other areas of life
All we can do is take it on the chin and move on. It's not the end of the world x | |||
"My first ever planned meet on Fab stood me up. I remember thinking Fab was a bad idea as maybe i was too old. How wrong i was. Since then i have been stood up again and had plenty meets cancelled but i just dust myself down and hold my head high as am now well aware that for every idiot there are 1000 saints. I don't think any of us are saints but in some ways fab is like most dating sites. I think all of us who have been stood up, may have stood up people in the past, whether here or in other areas of life
All we can do is take it on the chin and move on. It's not the end of the world x" | |||
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"You need a thick skin for this site that's for sure. I'm sure everyone on this site has had a knock back at some time or another. Just move on and find someone more compatible, have loads of fun and your knock back will be well and truly forgotten about. X" This, it can feel relentless at times so I don't engage in it anymore, no more chatting online, no more 1:1 meets. Its far too complicated so I just enjoy at clubs or parties, it suits me better & no bullshit; face to face you both see what you're getting in that moment X | |||
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"Silly there will always be arseholes that get off by upsetting others. There are plenty of people on here that appreciate how good you look and how naughty you can be. I always look forward to seeing your new pictures. Unfortunately I’m out of your age range but hope you cheer up and get back to having fun. " Thank you xx | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx
There is some mad moments in life
I'm just overcoming many from years ago but aslong as you got family or friends your all good people get jealous and try to make you feel bad f**k them live how you like
Silly you ok hun
I will be fine, this site is quite a head fuck sometimes "It sure is a head fuck | |||
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"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx"Remember your getting lots of nice attention from numerous people don’t let that one selfish insecure twat spoil your buzz . X | |||
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"True hun ?? just gets annoying every so often. As I said head fuck "I know what u mean but don’t allow it to happen , your a strong , sexy independent woman. They are the ones with the problem not u . And I have heard it be said that men find confidence more sexy than anything | |||
"True hun ?? just gets annoying every so often. As I said head fuck
I know what u mean but don’t allow it to happen , your a strong , sexy independent woman. They are the ones with the problem not u . And I have heard it be said that men find confidence more sexy than anything " | |||
"True hun ?? just gets annoying every so often. As I said head fuck
I know what u mean but don’t allow it to happen , your a strong , sexy independent woman. They are the ones with the problem not u . And I have heard it be said that men find confidence more sexy than anything
"I Mr, love weman with confidence, i love seing weman bosses and in power, and makes me laugh when we have a new woman director turn up and watching all the blokes beneath her running around like headless chickens shit scare of then lol, and to add to there pain i always try and chat to them and tell her u have frightened all the little ones, lol,and a woman with confidence is so horney for us guys | |||
"True hun ?? just gets annoying every so often. As I said head fuck
I know what u mean but don’t allow it to happen , your a strong , sexy independent woman. They are the ones with the problem not u . And I have heard it be said that men find confidence more sexy than anything
I Mr, love weman with confidence, i love seing weman bosses and in power, and makes me laugh when we have a new woman director turn up and watching all the blokes beneath her running around like headless chickens shit scare of then lol, and to add to there pain i always try and chat to them and tell her u have frightened all the little ones, lol,and a woman with confidence is so horney for us guys"Oh I still have my confidence but this site does tend to just knock it every so often but I am glad that there are so many nice people on here. Makes me smile | |||
"True hun ?? just gets annoying every so often. As I said head fuck
I know what u mean but don’t allow it to happen , your a strong , sexy independent woman. They are the ones with the problem not u . And I have heard it be said that men find confidence more sexy than anything
I Mr, love weman with confidence, i love seing weman bosses and in power, and makes me laugh when we have a new woman director turn up and watching all the blokes beneath her running around like headless chickens shit scare of then lol, and to add to there pain i always try and chat to them and tell her u have frightened all the little ones, lol,and a woman with confidence is so horney for us guys
Oh I still have my confidence but this site does tend to just knock it every so often but I am glad that there are so many nice people on here. Makes me smile "Those who tend to knock ppl down Are just bullies that have sad lives, our little life style community are happy ppl with a zest for life and fun, so when some one pisses u off, send them a smiley face, if i know some one dont like me i always say good morning or hello it hurts them more to say the same back and smile at them lol | |||
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"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx "Hey Feisty Wolf Long time no see! Sorry to hear of your troubles with meets , I would add you but you block single M lol Hope your hit rate improves lovely girl X | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx"I'm getting this now,only rejoined just over a week ago & already feeling shitty...mainly down to one person x | |||
"Do any other girls suffer.with this. I mean one minute you are enjoying all the attention and the next minute some one makes you feel like shit or a mug. I am pretty strong but this site certainly bashes you not in a goid way either Xx"Don't think this is just the girls that have this problem. Look how many rejections all the single males have to get. | |||
"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx "With all due respect a lot of women on here do the exact same to us guys but it seems that we just get labelled and told that’s what this site is like suck it up | |||
"I know exactly what you mean, a man chatted to me the other day then sent a face pic. He was lovely. I sent one back and nothing. 2 days later I messaged to check if he was interested and he didnt have the guts to tell me. He blocked me. I was gutted and it really affected me. I hate sending my face as it is. Ive not sent anymore of myself. That really took all my confidence . I understand we cant all like each other but to block without saying I wasnt for them made me feel terrible
In my head I think how bad eas my face to get that reaction xx
With all due respect a lot of women on here do the exact same to us guys but it seems that we just get labelled and told that’s what this site is like suck it up "Actually, you're showing no respect with those last three words 
Yes, it is the method that is "recommended", block and move on, and it happens mostly to guys, because so many of us apparently get abusive when told no ...
But for many people a polite reply, saying no thanks, and then blocking would be better | |||
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"For me it's just a matter of courtesy which goes both ways. Whether or not it is a male messaging a couple or a couple messaging a male it really only takes 2 seconds to say 'thanks for the interest but not for me' or something similar. That shouldn't be treated as rejection just acknowledgement that sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. But not receiving any reply at all it is just downright rude in my book given how quickly it takes to type a response." Two seconds for you perhaps. When you get a lot of messages, that 2 seconds turns into admin work. I make it clear with my age range that I'm not interested. If people out of that age range message regardless, that's on them, not me. My filters are only soft, because i enjoy the forums and want some to have the ability to message if they choose to do so, that are not friends or those I've not interacted with before, in a friendly capacity | |||
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"Yes that's a fair shout regarding loads of unsolicited messages. Nonetheless if you have a thread going with anyone I still think a polite ending is the way to go rather than just silence and being left hanging without a climax. After all no one likes that whether male or female! " But then that would indicate that both were talking in regards to a meet. Sometimes it can just be friendly chatter and taper off. To then message to say the chemistry wasn't there, can open you up to someone saying "i wasnt asking to meet anyway!" Then get called up yourself. Ive had it happen. | |||
"Yes that's a fair shout regarding loads of unsolicited messages. Nonetheless if you have a thread going with anyone I still think a polite ending is the way to go rather than just silence and being left hanging without a climax. After all no one likes that whether male or female! " In regards to the potential to meet though, i do agree with you | |||
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