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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can’t be the only person to be put off by this surely?
I’ve just come across a fairly new couple’s profile declaring that first night in Chams was a success. Yet they’ve posted photos from there?!?!
What the actual fuck?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it actually from inside Chams? "
Yup. Sex swings. Play furniture. St Andrews cross.
Very distinctive Chams Newport decor and a status declaring first night at Chams was a success.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know cameras aren't allowed but its a shame. Id love pics of myself taken on all the bdsm furniture . I can also understand peoples worries incase their faces were caught in the photo. That's a terrifying thought then. 
In one club there was a room where you take photos. Others stayed outside till it was clear to enter x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s not so much the pictures themselves as to the fact if they’re willing to flaunt rules of club ie no phones past changing room what other rules are they going to break? How can you trust they haven’t taken more photos that they haven’t posted? Say from smoking area? Or through two way mirror? Or other people in dungeon areas.
I’d love photos of my sessions at Chams, Angels, Secrets etc especially after being in full sub mode complete with rope harness at Angels. But it’s against the rules.... |
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I can see the pros and cons to this but quite frankly Chams would lose a lot of loyal customers including ourselves if photos were allowed in there.
The scene has shown me that you really cannot trust anybody and we go there for adult time without fear of pictures being taken.
Definitely report to Kez when ya go next
Mrs
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This is really bad news. We wouldn't go to any clubs if people were taking pics left right and centre. I get that you'd want pics of yourself in certain scenarios but rules are rules and they are there for a reason i.e so that everyone feels safe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can see the pros and cons to this but quite frankly Chams would lose a lot of loyal customers including ourselves if photos were allowed in there.
The scene has shown me that you really cannot trust anybody and we go there for adult time without fear of pictures being taken.
Definitely report to Kez when ya go next
Mrs
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Exactly will be telling Kez definitely! |
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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago
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If they are a new couple why do we just message them politely and tell them the rules of the swinging scene, maybe they don’t know as they are newbies.
I remember when we were new I wanted photos everywhere but our new friends told us where and why which helped!
I have tried to look for them and photos but can’t find anything, I would send them a message otherwise.
Mrs DM
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are a new couple why do we just message them politely and tell them the rules of the swinging scene, maybe they don’t know as they are newbies.
I remember when we were new I wanted photos everywhere but our new friends told us where and why which helped!
I have tried to look for them and photos but can’t find anything, I would send them a message otherwise.
Mrs DM
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They just might not have had the rules explained as it could of been there first club visit, as we all no the rules that cameras and phones r a no no, they should be contacted and asked to take them off fab, but if they have been told then they dont give a shit and should be banned. |
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"We paid our first visit on Friday. Were told on that anyone with a phone/camera in the club gets banned for life, which we found re-assuring."
So looks like they new and did it any way so as Chams said should be banned, so name and shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty it wouldn’t surprise me if the rules weren’t explained to them, especially if Kez wasn’t the one to book them in or they went with a regular visitor/s where the staff assumed they would know the rules. Rules are rules as they say, however personally we see no issue as long as it’s only them that are in the photos, but understand the concerns of the possibility of them taking pics elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We booked in with kez as did 2 other couples , the rules were explained to each couple as keys and towels were handed over! I think that a complete abuse of trust to knowingly take your phone out of the locker rooms and take photos of anything or anyone ! Mrs |
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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago
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Well if we can have the name of the couple we can tell them and ask them to remove their photos!
There really is no point in getting upset or cross or trying to shoot them down, let’s explain to them how we feel as a community or alternatively send admin their name so that they are banned for a bit and whoever has Kez number or if they phone Chams they can explain.
We were all new once, I really think this couple just didn’t know!
Mrs DM
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see an issue in a locked room, but an open room I'd be reporting them to Kez or other staff on that night.
we've visited many clubs all over the UK and they are all very strict on their policy of pictures and privacy . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't agree with phones being used at any sort of party or club. I was noticed in the background of a picture at a social event which caused uncomfortable issues with work. Fortunately it wasn't during a playing meet as I have identifiable tattoos and scars. I just denied that it was me and fortunately it was just a side shot of my head. I'd definitely report it to kez as its against the rules, period. |
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"I can’t be the only person to be put off by this surely?
I’ve just come across a fairly new couple’s profile declaring that first night in Chams was a success. Yet they’ve posted photos from there?!?!
What the actual fuck?!"
It would seem only Kgirl noticed these pics, and knows who they might be, please notify them or Kez or Chams, maybe they were just to exited to get in and werent realy listening who knows, but those pics need to be removed for all our sakes, im sure we have all cocked up some time in this life, i have  |
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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago
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Hi all
I have sent them a message let’s hope they respect our lifestyle and the etiquette of our community. As above said I am sure we have all done something in this lifestyle that has been frowned upon, we certainly have but we also all learn from our mistakes quickly!
Enjoy fab!
Mrs DM
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are a new couple why do we just message them politely and tell them the rules of the swinging scene, maybe they don’t know as they are newbies.
I remember when we were new I wanted photos everywhere but our new friends told us where and why which helped!
I have tried to look for them and photos but can’t find anything, I would send them a message otherwise.
Mrs DM
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Good point just tell them |
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Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future 
Xx |
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"Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future
Xx "
Hi both I think your very brave and honourable coming forward. Its never easy on these forums to admit mistakes. If it was my club id never ban you. We all make mess up. We are human afterall. Hope you both get to keep attending Chams and have many incredible times ahead of you both xx Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future
Xx "
Thanks for coming and apologising, can see how you could have made that error. Hope you can also see why people were nervous however. Hope it all pans out ok! |
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"Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future
Xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future
Xx "
Well done you for posting tbh you're not the only ones who use phones there. Well done also to the kind person who messaged you, it is hard to remember everything when you're new & excited. Happy fabbing X |
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"Hi everyone.
It's our profile.
We are extremely sorry and can assure you we took 5 photos whilst inside (3 of J and 2 of myself) and they were taken just before we left. We had an amazing time and if we had known we would never of taken them. We were so nervous when we went and maybe he did tell us we couldn't use our phones but with the nerves (and excitement) we obviously didn't take it in. I assumed we wasn't allowed photos of others but didn't know we couldn't have any of us. I was actually sat in the bar messaging people on here and wasn't told by anyone I couldn't use my phone. We genuinely don't want to upset anyone and I have deleted the photos. We are very new to this and don't really know the do's and dont's yet. I appreciate the lovely lady who messaged us to explain. I must admit I am abit upset and embarrassed that this post is on here though as like our profile suggests we are very new to this I would hate to think we would be banned from Chams as we had such a great time. Please accept our genuine and sincere apologises and know that this will never happen again.
I hope to meet some of you in Chams in the near future
Xx "
For u guys to appologise on here being newbies and first time at Chams shows good character and decent ppl, I for one would like to oppologise for my out burst as im sure u understand, any that said, put it dont on the not to do list, and please no phone at any club including the bar lol,and get your sevles back to Chams soon and enjoy, xx |
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We feel for that poor couple.
They are new & instead of publicly humiliating them by making a thread about tbem on a open forum you could of quiet easily just took 2 minutes to message them directly!!!
And it takes a lot of guts to come on to a forum and apologise so well done you.
Hopefully this won't put you off attending chams in the future.  |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"We feel for that poor couple.
They are new & instead of publicly humiliating them by making a thread about tbem on a open forum you could of quiet easily just took 2 minutes to message them directly!!!
And it takes a lot of guts to come on to a forum and apologise so well done you.
Hopefully this won't put you off attending chams in the future. "
This.....if the op knew who they were why not message instead of making drama... |
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Phone's are banned unfortunately this is ignored by many who go to chams and know the rules. I'll be honest and say its sadly females I see the most walking around with them. This was this poor couples first time, they've apologized for their mistake hopefully this won't stop them from returning to the club soon. |
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We know, we use to go most friday and saturday nights, would be heaving with hot sexy cpls that wanted to meet and play, ftidays seem to be hit and miss these days but try to go, as its our own local club. |
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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago
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"A fantastic club but unfortunately we lost faith in the place ages ago."
so glad I don't go anymore,i would be livid if I saw or heard about after that someone was taking pics in there
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Huge credit to the couple for ‘fessing up.
We’ve all been new and nervous once (long time ago in my case!) and I can see how you could get over excited and want to grab some pics on the play equipment.
Very different doing that when on your own from taking photos of people behind their back.
It’s clear the young couple will learn from their mistake and hopefully will be back swinging (camera & phone free) very soon!
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Thankyou all for your messages. Last night I was about to throw in the towel after reading this post but after coming back on tonight and reading all the supportive messages we have had on this post and via private messages we are now putting it down to a learning curve and are definitely not giving up We are excited to become a full blown part of the community and we certainly won't be taking any pictures EVER AGAIN!! Now we have got our first Chams night done we feel the next time we attend we will be more confident and a lot less nervous. I can assure you we will be listening to every word the gentleman says to us on arrival.  we hope to see you all soon and happy fab'ing. Love C and J xxxx |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"Thankyou all for your messages. Last night I was about to throw in the towel after reading this post but after coming back on tonight and reading all the supportive messages we have had on this post and via private messages we are now putting it down to a learning curve and are definitely not giving up We are excited to become a full blown part of the community and we certainly won't be taking any pictures EVER AGAIN!! Now we have got our first Chams night done we feel the next time we attend we will be more confident and a lot less nervous. I can assure you we will be listening to every word the gentleman says to us on arrival. we hope to see you all soon and happy fab'ing. Love C and J xxxx "
Well done both and happy fabbing. Good luck xx |
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