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Never cum from oral!?
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over a year ago
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I find it hard to cum from oral!
It’s one of my biggest fantasies as well but i very rarely cum from it!
Iv probably had 6 bjs where Iv been able to cum and Iv had to put a little effort in myself to get there!
It’s not an uncommon thing so I wouldn’t worry about it!
My biggest problem was I was in a relationship for 12 years where I was told to never ever cum in her mouth so I drummed that in to my head!
Then when I met someone who loved having cum in her mouth she would get frustrated that she couldn’t make me climax! I just had to get over the not being able to cum. Still struggle today!
Open to women to try and help with it though  |
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This one comes up quite often 
Seems very common, I have a few times but only at the start of play. During a good session & going for the 2nd or 3rd load, then it's not going to happen - still fun trying tho |
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over a year ago
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"Ch3wy rarely cums from oral, but then that could just be my technique & he is very particular  we both seem to enjoy the trying though X"
Only one person has ever made me cum through oral , no naming names  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ch3wy rarely cums from oral, but then that could just be my technique & he is very particular we both seem to enjoy the trying though X
Only one person has ever made me cum through oral , no naming names x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ch3wy rarely cums from oral, but then that could just be my technique & he is very particular we both seem to enjoy the trying though X
Only one person has ever made me cum through oral , no naming names x
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And I still think about it ... a lot |
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I used to be the same never came from oral till i was 43. But my girlfriend is amazing at oral. Only person I came with.
It takes someone with talent and someone you can relax with.
It's similar for women that can't come its a mental block and need to be able to relax. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never ever cum from oral. Many guys have tried. It I usually cum pretty quickly obcE a guy has his cock inside me. I think this is pretty outside the norm for a female! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never ever cum from oral. Many guys have tried. It I usually cum pretty quickly obcE a guy has his cock inside me. I think this is pretty outside the norm for a female!"
Every time I've gone down on a woman I've always made sure she cums before I come back up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could cum from oral. I just think my body's not built that way.
I do quite enjoy the sensation but much prefer a rock hard cock inside me if I'm honest lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could cum from oral. I just think my body's not built that way.
I do quite enjoy the sensation but much prefer a rock hard cock inside me if I'm honest lol"
The good bit always comes after the warm up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have never ever cum from oral. Many guys have tried. It I usually cum pretty quickly obcE a guy has his cock inside me. I think this is pretty outside the norm for a female!"
Yeah I find this more common than, same goes for me i can be a 5 minute wonder on some occasions when inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a good sloppy bj
Always leave a nice load in there mouths but after a good face fucking aha
They love it deep pounding there throat then .. ........ .... pow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i ALWAYS suck to completion. And I’m willing to defend that statement if anyone wants to put me to the test "
Now that I understand, once ever I failed to get a guy to cum, the problem usually is stopping them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The amount of private mails iv received in regards to this post has been outstanding... but if I don’t respond to you, I probably don’t want you to suck my cock. No offence intended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of private mails iv received in regards to this post has been outstanding... but if I don’t respond to you, I probably don’t want you to suck my cock. No offence intended"
Just for the record, I haven't messaged any offers and I'm not offering either  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The amount of private mails iv received in regards to this post has been outstanding... but if I don’t respond to you, I probably don’t want you to suck my cock. No offence intended
Just for the record, I haven't messaged any offers and I'm not offering either "
There’s nothing wrong with offering it’s just the persistent pestering that some people do when you don’t respond. |
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"Ch3wy rarely cums from oral, but then that could just be my technique & he is very particular we both seem to enjoy the trying though X
Only one person has ever made me cum through oral , no naming names x "
Ermmm....beat me to it.
Just saying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy climaxing from oral and also enjoy satisfying a woman with my tongue too.
It can take me a while sometimes to get there though but thankfully I’ve had sexual partners who had determination haha! I have failed a few times but usually it’s after already climaxing through having sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah I've cum from oral a few times. It's tough though.
No I mean I have NEVER cum from oral.. don’t find it difficult just doesn’t happen "
Does it at least feel really really good? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah I've cum from oral a few times. It's tough though.
No I mean I have NEVER cum from oral.. don’t find it difficult just doesn’t happen
Does it at least feel really really good?"
Reasonably, like iv felt as if iv almost got there but never quite happens that feeling just prolongs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So glad this topic have come up & it's just a man thing "most can't" as I do feel sometimes a failure as a woman with this x"
You wouldn’t feel a failure with me I have cum plenty of times from oral but a tickle of my balls or a finger on the G spot has helped things along nicely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a 50/50 whether I cum from oral.
But definitely cum 100% when skull fucking "
Omg what an expression, I'm chuckling away trying to imagine how you even have sex with a skeleton.....hahaha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say I would take it personally, I love giving, its my favourite thing, I would feel like I was losing it if he didn't cum for me, I love a mouth explosion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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 yeah not as many women are as welcoming nor as giving as you are! Which is a shame, so many give up early. But even the ones who don’t it just seems to be a prolonged process that doesn’t end up giving in the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think with a lot of men it might be anxiety from an expectation they have to cum that have to cum or any other of a thousand possibilities. They sit or lie there with nothing else to do but think and try their best to oblige, the longer it goes n the worse it gets.
I don't think anyone should feel a failure because they couldn't make a man cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say I would take it personally, I love giving, its my favourite thing, I would feel like I was losing it if he didn't cum for me, I love a mouth explosion "
A mouth explosion I wouldn’t mind providing one of those  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think with a lot of men it might be anxiety from an expectation they have to cum that have to cum or any other of a thousand possibilities. They sit or lie there with nothing else to do but think and try their best to oblige, the longer it goes n the worse it gets.
I don't think anyone should feel a failure because they couldn't make a man cum"
I think it's the same for some women too. A little sensory play helps with me. Either a pillow over my head or a blindfold. It really takes away the anxiety and allows the sensation to take over, rather than my brain, which is usually going a mile a minute |
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"I have to say I would take it personally, I love giving, its my favourite thing, I would feel like I was losing it if he didn't cum for me, I love a mouth explosion
A mouth explosion I wouldn’t mind providing one of those "
She could be talking about vomit... just saying... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back 
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit  "
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded "
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl "
Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl
Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think with a lot of men it might be anxiety from an expectation they have to cum that have to cum or any other of a thousand possibilities. They sit or lie there with nothing else to do but think and try their best to oblige, the longer it goes n the worse it gets.
I don't think anyone should feel a failure because they couldn't make a man cum
I think it's the same for some women too. A little sensory play helps with me. Either a pillow over my head or a blindfold. It really takes away the anxiety and allows the sensation to take over, rather than my brain, which is usually going a mile a minute "
I would love to get my hands on you! How far away are you? Sigh, ah well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl
Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
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To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think with a lot of men it might be anxiety from an expectation they have to cum that have to cum or any other of a thousand possibilities. They sit or lie there with nothing else to do but think and try their best to oblige, the longer it goes n the worse it gets.
I don't think anyone should feel a failure because they couldn't make a man cum
I think it's the same for some women too. A little sensory play helps with me. Either a pillow over my head or a blindfold. It really takes away the anxiety and allows the sensation to take over, rather than my brain, which is usually going a mile a minute
I would love to get my hands on you! How far away are you? Sigh, ah well "
Was it the pillow over the face that did it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time "
Or be more cunning you should shout fancy a flash and when he comes out saying hell yeah that’s when you launch the kebab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time
Or be more cunning you should shout fancy a flash and when he comes out saying hell yeah that’s when you launch the kebab "
Hahaha I read that so wrong! I need to go back to charm school |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time
Or be more cunning you should shout fancy a flash and when he comes out saying hell yeah that’s when you launch the kebab
Hahaha I read that so wrong! I need to go back to charm school "
You seem to have a unique charm of your own... please don’t change it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl
Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time "
Hungover today,kebab on the front door did the trick. Fk you and your nuggets come and get them! Wait nuggets dipped in my nans gravy. Reckon I could opens food chain with chicken and gravy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It all depends on the lady. My ex was bloody amazing at it. She literally could suck a golf ball thorough a garden hose and without fail she would suck the life out of you via your cock. That's when I was 17 I'm now 34 and haven't come across a lady half as good but I'm told they are out there
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By (user no longer on site)
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She could be talking about vomit... just saying...
Yuk I take it back
Oh I'm sorry. Did I ruin the fantasy?
Just a little bit
I should add that to my profile 'fantasy wrecker'. My inbox will be flooded
It might keep away the wrong sort
But I like a cheeky girl
Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time
Hungover today,kebab on the front door did the trick. Fk you and your nuggets come and get them! Wait nuggets dipped in my nans gravy. Reckon I could opens food chain with chicken and gravy?"
Oooh I like the sound of that! I'll bring a box when you invite me to your nans for sunday lunch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've only cum twice from oral. Both occasions with a different person. To make it worse, I can't cum after oral either, no matter what until I have a break. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol....
...most Cum back for seconds and more...."
I used to come with a guarantee until I met Ch3wy, I no longer stress about whether I can or can't now & just relax into the job in mouth & enjoy |
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Be careful with her, she just drove past my house and launched a kebab at my front door.
To be fair, I asked him to get chicken nuggets. Just a pity he managed to duck into his house, before I threw it. I really need to work on my response time "
Well now I'm just hungry... |
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