I have to agree with you, in the last four days ive been let down twice by two different women. If i say i'll meet then i will meet.....its so frustrating , i actually changed my plans to meet on Sunday and then she never turned up, didnt even have the decency to tell me..... |
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"Ive never known so many time waisters on 1 site .. why the hell message if you have no intentions of meeting .. its pathetic  "
Exactly, wouldn't let you down. x |
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It does seem to be a lot worse from what we read in the forums.
We take a very strict approach to organising a meet, and I'm sure that on many occasions we have put people off by being too demanding about swapping numbers, addresses and other details.
However, it works, we have never had a "no show" in 10 years.
It does take a little of the spontaneity out of swinging, but at least we know we will have fun if we make arrangements lol.
We find people who make the effort to go to socials, clubs, and parties, tend to be the most reliable, so we tend to meet most at one of those, even if it's only to have a chat and "test the waters" so to speak... and then organise something a bit more intimate at another date.  |
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"It's why we now only meet at clubs or parties, we don't have the time nor patience to work through the game playing X"
Was only a social .. messaged after the time to meet asking me to wait longer .. not into messing about but wasn't a wasted day got to have a bit of retail therapy.. just what the credit card needed lol to off load some money  |
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"It does seem to be a lot worse from what we read in the forums.
We take a very strict approach to organising a meet, and I'm sure that on many occasions we have put people off by being too demanding about swapping numbers, addresses and other details.
However, it works, we have never had a "no show" in 10 years.
It does take a little of the spontaneity out of swinging, but at least we know we will have fun if we make arrangements lol.
We find people who make the effort to go to socials, clubs, and parties, tend to be the most reliable, so we tend to meet most at one of those, even if it's only to have a chat and "test the waters" so to speak... and then organise something a bit more intimate at another date. "
Makes sence xx |
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"I think it's the rock n hard place scenario op...you girls have crazy amount if choice so your bound to come accross the odd dick..not the good kind btw pms!!..goodluck  "
Trouble is its not the odf Dick there r loads on this site, we work on the basis, Verification's say it all, check their Veri's, then check the ppl that sent them, hard work, but it works x |
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"I think it's the rock n hard place scenario op...you girls have crazy amount if choice so your bound to come accross the odd dick..not the good kind btw pms!!..goodluck "
We do have a crazy choice of guys and this is what annoys me the most .. some guys moan they dont get meets but when given the opportunity they piss about .... thank you |
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"Ive never known so many time waisters on 1 site .. why the hell message if you have no intentions of meeting .. its pathetic  "
Whats the faces for ?.. ur not 1 of them |
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"It does seem to be a lot worse from what we read in the forums.
We take a very strict approach to organising a meet, and I'm sure that on many occasions we have put people off by being too demanding about swapping numbers, addresses and other details.
However, it works, we have never had a "no show" in 10 years.
It does take a little of the spontaneity out of swinging, but at least we know we will have fun if we make arrangements lol.
We find people who make the effort to go to socials, clubs, and parties, tend to be the most reliable, so we tend to meet most at one of those, even if it's only to have a chat and "test the waters" so to speak... and then organise something a bit more intimate at another date. "
I find it hard to believe ypur demanding lol 
Ive been on the site for over 3 years and in that 3 years ive seen a rapid decline in the site .. not just with meets but the attitude in people .. the level of hate in the forums .. i used to read the forums and have a bit of a giggle with the banter that used to go on but now all they want to do it bitch and cause arguements .. shame really x |
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"Ive never known so many time waisters on 1 site .. why the hell message if you have no intentions of meeting .. its pathetic
Daft ass doesn't know what he missed out on "
Thanks sugar .. his loss |
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"It does seem to be a lot worse from what we read in the forums.
We take a very strict approach to organising a meet, and I'm sure that on many occasions we have put people off by being too demanding about swapping numbers, addresses and other details.
However, it works, we have never had a "no show" in 10 years.
It does take a little of the spontaneity out of swinging, but at least we know we will have fun if we make arrangements lol.
We find people who make the effort to go to socials, clubs, and parties, tend to be the most reliable, so we tend to meet most at one of those, even if it's only to have a chat and "test the waters" so to speak... and then organise something a bit more intimate at another date.
I find it hard to believe ypur demanding lol
Ive been on the site for over 3 years and in that 3 years ive seen a rapid decline in the site .. not just with meets but the attitude in people .. the level of hate in the forums .. i used to read the forums and have a bit of a giggle with the banter that used to go on but now all they want to do it bitch and cause arguements .. shame really x"
Did someone say banter?? XX  |
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"Ive never known so many time waisters on 1 site .. why the hell message if you have no intentions of meeting .. its pathetic "
I know that feeling the amount times talk for hours ready to meet then all of sudden something comes up lol |
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"It does seem to be a lot worse from what we read in the forums.
We take a very strict approach to organising a meet, and I'm sure that on many occasions we have put people off by being too demanding about swapping numbers, addresses and other details.
However, it works, we have never had a "no show" in 10 years.
It does take a little of the spontaneity out of swinging, but at least we know we will have fun if we make arrangements lol.
We find people who make the effort to go to socials, clubs, and parties, tend to be the most reliable, so we tend to meet most at one of those, even if it's only to have a chat and "test the waters" so to speak... and then organise something a bit more intimate at another date.
I find it hard to believe ypur demanding lol
Ive been on the site for over 3 years and in that 3 years ive seen a rapid decline in the site .. not just with meets but the attitude in people .. the level of hate in the forums .. i used to read the forums and have a bit of a giggle with the banter that used to go on but now all they want to do it bitch and cause arguements .. shame really x
Did someone say banter?? XX "
Haha u header xx |
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Not sure if it's because of my lack of veri's but I get a lot of conversations that start well and stop once it comes to actually arranging a social meet.
Chicken and egg situation with the veri's I guess. |
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"Ive never known so many time waisters on 1 site .. why the hell message if you have no intentions of meeting .. its pathetic "
These days I'm lucky if I even get a reply to a message once a week, going back 5 - 6 years this site was the best thing around. Now it's extremely frustrating for all and sadly takes the fun out of it |
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