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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is anyone else becoming a little un-nerved as swinging seems to be becoming more mainstream?
Just recently, there seems to be an influx of people from close to home joining the site, and also wanting to attend clubs etc.
I cant help but feel swinging is becoming unhidden. Too much so. Is anyone else feeling the same ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree there is nothing wrong with swinging itself. However, over the past few weeks, i have heard of and spoken to people who are using the site and clubs as a quick leg over.
To then go on and start throwing about names  hardly a good thing when we all need discretion |
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Swinging has been around since the 16th century, it has had many incarnations.
Like everything else it sometimes goes through fad increases in popularity.
As a society we are becoming more liberal and therefore it's coming out of the closet, so to speak.
As for those using clubs and fab for a "quick leg over" that is their choice,different strokes for different folks.
I don't remember being issued a book of swinging rules and regulations telling me what is not allowed, if you don't like these types then just avoid them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose that the internet has made finding swinging partners much easier but yes I have noticed a marked change too in the last 10 years. While an increase in interest amongst the wider population would appear to be welcome there has been a deterioration in manners and attitude but that might just be society generally or just a sign I'm getting older. It is also apparent to me that more and more folk are adopting the moral high ground than previously, publicly or privately passing judgement whether it is deserved or not is unwelcome to the recipient. The saying goes that if you dont have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all but it appears that vitriol and an increase in just outright unpleasantness towards other other people has become acceptable behavior.
Sex brings out the best and worst in mankind, I guess that is a constant at least.
Will I leave fab because of it? No, I won't be going that far!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone even swing any more it seems it's always socials going on ever week and not many couples meeting where we live if we look who is near by its all single men think it's time to find a site that couple doeey for fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is not about avoiding them.
To be honest, call it cowardly, it probably is... the prospect of being 'outed' terrfies me!!
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this i agree with! too much publicity can be a bad thing regarding this site as some will use it to out and hurt people. |
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"It is not about avoiding them.
To be honest, call it cowardly, it probably is... the prospect of being 'outed' terrfies me!!
X "
The fact that we are all "deviants" by the moral majorities standards means there is always a little risk, and lets me honest, it's the thrill of the 'forbidden' that makes it all the more exciting.
Usual common sense rules apply, careful who you meet and never show your face and your genitals in the same photo or your face and someone else's genitals come to think of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help "
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?"
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out..."
Everyone has to start somewhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out...
Everyone has to start somewhere "
Yeah that's true.. don't matter what I say u will come back with something else so may aswell give up now hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out...
Everyone has to start somewhere
Yeah that's true.. don't matter what I say u will come back with something else so may aswell give up now hahaha "
Just though what you said sounded a bit offputting to anyone who was new or who may have liked to attend your planned event
But reading back it seems like a personal issue between you and the OP so I shall keep well out |
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There have been a few incidents lately where people have been outed to family members which is shocking to say the least.
Little act that came into power recently called The Revenge Porn Act. People should remember this before deciding to out another. It can carry a custodial sentoof up to 3 years!
And yes fake profiles are made and you may think they can't be traced but they can to the ip address and you will be found out. If the police found enough evidence of malicious intent they will prosecute.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out...
Everyone has to start somewhere
Yeah that's true.. don't matter what I say u will come back with something else so may aswell give up now hahaha
Just though what you said sounded a bit offputting to anyone who was new or who may have liked to attend your planned event
But reading back it seems like a personal issue between you and the OP so I shall keep well out "
If u knew me I'm the most friendly welcoming person u will meet an I wouldn't want to put off people trying these things, it's not a personal issue with her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out...
Everyone has to start somewhere
Yeah that's true.. don't matter what I say u will come back with something else so may aswell give up now hahaha
Just though what you said sounded a bit offputting to anyone who was new or who may have liked to attend your planned event
But reading back it seems like a personal issue between you and the OP so I shall keep well out
If u knew me I'm the most friendly welcoming person u will meet an I wouldn't want to put off people trying these things, it's not a personal issue with her "
I know you and you are one of the nicest more amazing people on here with a giant caring heart and love ya to bits  |
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"Porn revenge is posting pics or videos of some one on Internet or other means to show what someone has done not telling people what you are doing "
That's what some people have had on here recently. Their pics shown to family members via other social media |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Porn revenge is posting pics or videos of some one on Internet or other means to show what someone has done not telling people what you are doing
That's what some people have had on here recently. Their pics shown to family members via other social media "
Any malicious act videos pics can be deemed as revenge porn, I've had it done to me An police have spoken to them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u don't want people to know what your doing or don't like the thought of being outed don't fetch a vanilla person who isn't into the swinging scene to a swingers club... maybe that will help
I thought everyone was welcomed at clubs, even those new to or unfamiliar with the scene?
Yeah but if they are interested in that sort of thing not get taken coz it's a night out...
Everyone has to start somewhere
Yeah that's true.. don't matter what I say u will come back with something else so may aswell give up now hahaha
Just though what you said sounded a bit offputting to anyone who was new or who may have liked to attend your planned event
But reading back it seems like a personal issue between you and the OP so I shall keep well out
If u knew me I'm the most friendly welcoming person u will meet an I wouldn't want to put off people trying these things, it's not a personal issue with her "
I have no doubt you're lovely
Just your post came across as offputting. I haven't criticised your personality at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We was out the other weekend and there was a few young boy sitting opposite us and the one was telling his friends he was on here and saying about the women and couples wife he was fucking people like him shouldn't be allowed on here |
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The term swinging or wife swopping is mainly aimed at couples for obvious reasons, now some couples think its easy go in a club fuck some ones wife cool the problem is when the see another guy fucking his wife or vice versa, if its not for u it is not going to work, we r a special kind ppl that is ok with this even a turn on as it is for me lol, now the single their r some great huys out there, but most just use it as a quick fuck, thats y when rejected all hell lets loose and they just dont get it, its not a fuck site, its where like minded ppl get together enjoy each others company then if all goes well, Bingo fun fun fun lol. |
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"The term swinging or wife swopping is mainly aimed at couples for obvious reasons, now some couples think its easy go in a club fuck some ones wife cool the problem is when the see another guy fucking his wife or vice versa, if its not for u it is not going to work, we r a special kind ppl that is ok with this even a turn on as it is for me lol, now the single their r some great huys out there, but most just use it as a quick fuck, thats y when rejected all hell lets loose and they just dont get it, its not a fuck site, its where like minded ppl get together enjoy each others company then if all goes well, Bingo fun fun fun lol. "
Exactly this! |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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"Porn revenge is posting pics or videos of some one on Internet or other means to show what someone has done not telling people what you are doing
That's what some people have had on here recently. Their pics shown to family members via other social media "
I had this done to me recently. Someone on here sent my profile, pics and verifications to my daughter. Luckily for me my daughter knew I was on here. She didn't need the details sent to her though  |
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"Porn revenge is posting pics or videos of some one on Internet or other means to show what someone has done not telling people what you are doing
That's what some people have had on here recently. Their pics shown to family members via other social media
I had this done to me recently. Someone on here sent my profile, pics and verifications to my daughter. Luckily for me my daughter knew I was on here. She didn't need the details sent to her though "
It does make me wonder why someone would do this, really makes me wonder what they get out of it. Some seriously sad people in the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Porn revenge is posting pics or videos of some one on Internet or other means to show what someone has done not telling people what you are doing
That's what some people have had on here recently. Their pics shown to family members via other social media
I had this done to me recently. Someone on here sent my profile, pics and verifications to my daughter. Luckily for me my daughter knew I was on here. She didn't need the details sent to her though
It does make me wonder why someone would do this, really makes me wonder what they get out of it. Some seriously sad people in the world. "
It is a little worrying , And though, we are doing no wrong , it isn't something you go shouting from the rooftops .. maybe due to the label? Or societal view or whatever, I know it would be frowned upon within my employment and quite frankly it's nobody else's business . I don't understand why somebody would do this either.. x |
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But why do something so nasty and vindictive to someone simply because you got turned down? Would they give a similar reaction if a girl turned them down in a pub or a nightclub? Definitely not. I just love keyboard wankers. |
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The problem is not that it's becoming "mainstream" but that it's attracting more nobs be wannabes 
You'll occasionally see it at clubs, but it's not that frequent if the clubs themselves have a good "door" policy
It's on the sites / social media where you'll find more disruption as it's so much easier to create a profile, hide behind a keyboard, and be vindictive.
It's just as prevalent here as it is on POF or any other app
I've found that socials and club meets are more successful because people that put themselves out, and make the effort to attend in person are more likely to be "genuine" be interested in this "lifestyle" |
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