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Lots of reasons why a verification isn't visible. The person who wrote it may no longer be on site. The profiles may have issues since and one or both has blocked (this hides the Veri). Another might be that the receiver doesn't like the phrasing or the content. They are unsolicited after all. It might be because a single guy has left a Veri when the couple for example state they are only looking for women. This scenario is likely when a club or social meet by chance has occurred.
There are lots of reasons. |
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"Lots of reasons why a verification isn't visible. The person who wrote it may no longer be on site. The profiles may have issues since and one or both has blocked (this hides the Veri). Another might be that the receiver doesn't like the phrasing or the content. They are unsolicited after all. It might be because a single guy has left a Veri when the couple for example state they are only looking for women. This scenario is likely when a club or social meet by chance has occurred.
There are lots of reasons. "
Perfectly explained xx |
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"Lots of reasons why a verification isn't visible. The person who wrote it may no longer be on site. The profiles may have issues since and one or both has blocked (this hides the Veri). Another might be that the receiver doesn't like the phrasing or the content. They are unsolicited after all. It might be because a single guy has left a Veri when the couple for example state they are only looking for women. This scenario is likely when a club or social meet by chance has occurred.
There are lots of reasons. "
Also, if the veri inadvertantly (or otherwise) gives clues that could reveal the identities of the person being verified.
"Met Terry and June for a lovely social at the Hand & Bracket in East Cheam. Very genuine couple. Veryinterestin hearing about Terry's job in the Rolls Royce accounts department." |
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"I only show mine from the last year or so. As I've been here a while, people don't need to see the old ones lol  "
I do this too. Show the more recent ones. I've had shit for having all my verifications showing or the verification count. Apparently nearly 6 years of verifications and mostly socials which my profile states still classes me as a slag!! |
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"I only show mine from the last year or so. As I've been here a while, people don't need to see the old ones lol
I do this too. Show the more recent ones. I've had shit for having all my verifications showing or the verification count. Apparently nearly 6 years of verifications and mostly socials which my profile states still classes me as a slag!! "
I've also been questioned why I've 34 varies in 4 months. Nearly all are from friends but it's still been picked up. I've hidden everything now lol |
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"Why would anyone hide a verification? "
People use their profiles how they see fit and some like to be discreet.
It could be argued that you have put no effort into your profile as its a one liner. No effort in your profile equals no effort in a meet in some peoples eyes.
Yes my profile is short as well but it explains what Im after....nothing. |
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"I only show mine from the last year or so. As I've been here a while, people don't need to see the old ones lol
I do this too. Show the more recent ones. I've had shit for having all my verifications showing or the verification count. Apparently nearly 6 years of verifications and mostly socials which my profile states still classes me as a slag!!
I've also been questioned why I've 34 varies in 4 months. Nearly all are from friends but it's still been picked up. I've hidden everything now lol "
We've had a few "interesting" chats about the amount of veries we have, but when I point out they cover 9 years, and a lot are from socials and other events, some people are cool, others just don't get it and think we are at it every week, and nothing you will say can change their minds... its a useful filter lol! |
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All I never understand is when guys leave veris such as--she had a tight pussy or she took it hard in the ass and the like---just say they had a great time---but hey we're all different I guess!!--it's nice to read someone's a good person--it's not check-a-fuck.com pms  |
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"I only show mine from the last year or so. As I've been here a while, people don't need to see the old ones lol
I do this too. Show the more recent ones. I've had shit for having all my verifications showing or the verification count. Apparently nearly 6 years of verifications and mostly socials which my profile states still classes me as a slag!! "
Yooooooh shlagggg!!
I told u before people are just jealous that’s why they use pointless words! Plus who cares what people who don’t matter think of you! Fuck them and there useless opinions
Ps Veri’s I just leave mine on show like, everything else on this site each to there own |
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I've had hassle off women in the past for "pissing on their patch" so to speak so choose not to show my verifications. Saves upsetting others or getting caught up in their drama. Unfortunately some ladies struggle to grasp the concept of NSA sex and get jealous and nasty   |
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"I've had hassle off women in the past for "pissing on their patch" so to speak so choose not to show my verifications. Saves upsetting others or getting caught up in their drama. Unfortunately some ladies struggle to grasp the concept of NSA sex and get jealous and nasty "
Wow. Thought school was harsh. Didnt realised this happened #hatedrama #ignorethehaters Mwah xxx |
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"Lots of reasons why a verification isn't visible. The person who wrote it may no longer be on site. The profiles may have issues since and one or both has blocked (this hides the Veri). Another might be that the receiver doesn't like the phrasing or the content. They are unsolicited after all. It might be because a single guy has left a Veri when the couple for example state they are only looking for women. This scenario is likely when a club or social meet by chance has occurred.
There are lots of reasons. "
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Verifications should be about showing that the member is a real person and proof that other members have met them, regardless of whether it’s a sex meet or a social one. It often reads like someone’s sexual history, which can be off putting to many. We don’t need to know what went on or who it was with, just that it was another verified member they/we met, to confirm the basics, that the person is real.
I don’t show all of my verifications for this reason. It also gives the other person privacy from others making assumptions, especially if the guy is not as straight as his/their profile states, which is fine with me, as long as it’s not behind their partner’s back. |
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