"Just a quetion.....I know some fems lie about their age but do guy's lie about their age too ? "
I considered it when I first joined, as people were always telling me I didn't look anywhere near my age.. then I thought 'what's the point?' - if you start off with a lie, you're setting yourself up for problems and/or embarrassment at some point, aren't you?
That said, I will very soon hit 50, and I fear that I will then drop outside some people's search filters.. should I stretch my 49th year out for another few months? (say, 36?) |
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over a year ago
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we are what we are, if you like us for who we are, then great. if you dont like us for who we are, then we have saved ourselves a lot of grief.
so all details on our profile are the truth, and if we turned up to a meet and found someone 10yrs older than they claim, we would leave. we believe in honesty and if you cant be open in this lifestyle, then your screwed...
this way of life should be about honesty and openness |
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over a year ago
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God yes. There's a couple on here we met years ago anf neither of them have gotten any older plus they have the same profile pics.
Really can't understand the reason to lie. Your only going topiss off the people your trying to meet. |
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over a year ago
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ive never lied as most say dnt see point ,but i know loads that do men and women but laughable as it is too knock 5 or 10 yrs off and still look old as feck really need get a grip lol |
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"ive never lied as most say dnt see point ,but i know loads that do men and women but laughable as it is too knock 5 or 10 yrs off and still look old as feck really need get a grip lol "
Spot on. As you get older your swinging friends get older with you so theres no need to lie and try to attract the younger crowd.
Even funnier when people lie about age and use old pics because it's a double wammy when you see them in the flesh.
Down goes the pretend age and the standards go down as well lol |
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i think the age restriction on some profiled cause some people to tell little white lies lol. Those of us in our late 30s still feel same as when we was early 20s, although the 20 yr olds here would not agree lol. Everyone is entitled to whatever limits and restrictiond they want, of course, but age is just a number |
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over a year ago
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Does it really matter. We have seen couples who say they are 40 but look 70 and couples who are 50 but look in their mid 30's. Age is not important. A persons personality, manner, intelligence, figure and looks are far more important. |
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over a year ago
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I don't mind someone lying about there age as long as they are over 18 most lie because thats how they feel inside or how they want to be seen. they are still the same person you been chatting to and having a laugh with online. what i don't like is when they lie about there gender. |
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Not sure why people lie about there age.I know a few on here who do and it just makes me wonder what they got to hide and what else they may be lying about. Prehaps thats just the old cynic in me. |
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"Not sure why people lie about there age.I know a few on here who do and it just makes me wonder what they got to hide and what else they may be lying about. Prehaps thats just the old cynic in me."
i've considered lying about my age because alot of people wont play with someone under 25.. but decided not to because im an honest person and its their loss.. but i guess some people lie about their age to make themselves fit into the majority of peoples margins.. and some lie just to make themselves feel good
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