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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not an expert but this was the easiest explanation I found.
"Cuckolding" or "cucking" is when a man and his partner derive sexual pleasure from the woman having sex with men who are not her partner.
Very often, her partner is "forced" to watch his wife or partner being unfaithful.
It's a fetish that, like many others, is formed in a masochistic love being humiliated.
In that way, cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a catch all term, for what is usually a relationship in which the female has the higher sex drive.
See FLR AND HOT WIFE.
Think my wife and myself have tried most aspects of cuckold of cuckoldery It works for us ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a good discussion on the various definitions of cuckold, hotwife, stag & vixen etc in this thread by people who are in the lifestyle. It is interesting to see other people's opinions which vary even when they are one and the same.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not an expert but this was the easiest explanation I found.
"Cuckolding" or "cucking" is when a man and his partner derive sexual pleasure from the woman having sex with men who are not her partner.
Very often, her partner is "forced" to watch his wife or partner being unfaithful.
It's a fetish that, like many others, is formed in a masochistic love being humiliated.
In that way, cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world.
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Hell NO! "BDSM" has NOTHING to do with cuckolding sex, with some it is possible that "Dom/Sub" might be part of the energy source but with most it's about one partner wanting and able to fuck more than the other, whereas maybe the other isn't always up for shagging . . so, as a couple, they simply use guys to satisfy the need for fucking.
With many we have met who do this - as we do - almost all agree that it's very much part of a strong relationship . . and it's easy fun too!
. . but "BDSM"? These days far too many peeps think because they've watched that dribble 50 shades that they know know what even more "letters" mean!  |
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"Im not an expert but this was the easiest explanation I found.
"Cuckolding" or "cucking" is when a man and his partner derive sexual pleasure from the woman having sex with men who are not her partner.
Very often, her partner is "forced" to watch his wife or partner being unfaithful.
It's a fetish that, like many others, is formed in a masochistic love being humiliated.
In that way, cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world.
Hell NO! "BDSM" has NOTHING to do with cuckolding sex, with some it is possible that "Dom/Sub" might be part of the energy source but with most it's about one partner wanting and able to fuck more than the other, whereas maybe the other isn't always up for shagging . . so, as a couple, they simply use guys to satisfy the need for fucking.
With many we have met who do this - as we do - almost all agree that it's very much part of a strong relationship . . and it's easy fun too!
. . but "BDSM"? These days far too many peeps think because they've watched that dribble 50 shades that they know know what even more "letters" mean! "
Summed up perfectly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep, partly right in that BDSM has little do with it in our experience. I can get equal pleasure from watching, knowing my man is pleasuring another, as I do from him pleasuring me. If we're about to have a break in our meets, holidays etc, the memory of watching a good session lasts a lot longer than my experiencing it. I love to watch him do to others exactly what they need & what he does to me, I cum & gush just from the watching, but it does need to be someone I'm bonded with X |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"Im not an expert but this was the easiest explanation I found.
"Cuckolding" or "cucking" is when a man and his partner derive sexual pleasure from the woman having sex with men who are not her partner.
Very often, her partner is "forced" to watch his wife or partner being unfaithful.
It's a fetish that, like many others, is formed in a masochistic love being humiliated.
In that way, cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world.
Hell NO! "BDSM" has NOTHING to do with cuckolding sex, with some it is possible that "Dom/Sub" might be part of the energy source but with most it's about one partner wanting and able to fuck more than the other, whereas maybe the other isn't always up for shagging . . so, as a couple, they simply use guys to satisfy the need for fucking.
With many we have met who do this - as we do - almost all agree that it's very much part of a strong relationship . . and it's easy fun too!
. . but "BDSM"? These days far too many peeps think because they've watched that dribble 50 shades that they know know what even more "letters" mean! "
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Far too many people on here play at BDSM because they read 50 shades and think they know what it means. Without a true understanding of the impact it has one people. |
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Vanilla freinds of ours said about 50 shades, said it was absolutely shocking but did turn her on , lol, tbh and i think most would agree it was crap, mrs couldnt even get into the book,borring she said lol, otoh she reads books that make her come under her breath on a plane to GC lol, but it is what u want it to be , but many ppl do not understand the concept of this way of life, what ever the letters may be  |
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There can be a fine line between Cuckold and Hotwife.
I'm not 'forced' to watch, I positively love to! It turns her on to know that I am turned on watching which just spurs everything on!
Essentially it's all about having fun! |
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It's one thing to one couple and another to a different couple and it doesn't really matter.
I LOVE watching the Mrs enjoying herself with others and although neither of us are into the more extreme side of things like me being humiliated etc we both love the fact that watching her with others turns me on and she likes being watched by me knowing she's turning me on. Great fun.
Sometimes I join in others I don't.
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By *urse123Couple
over a year ago
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"It's one thing to one couple and another to a different couple and it doesn't really matter.
I LOVE watching the Mrs enjoying herself with others and although neither of us are into the more extreme side of things like me being humiliated etc we both love the fact that watching her with others turns me on and she likes being watched by me knowing she's turning me on. Great fun.
Sometimes I join in others I don't.
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"There can be a fine line between Cuckold and Hotwife.
I'm not 'forced' to watch, I positively love to! It turns her on to know that I am turned on watching which just spurs everything on!
Essentially it's all about having fun!"
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"It's one thing to one couple and another to a different couple and it doesn't really matter.
I LOVE watching the Mrs enjoying herself with others and although neither of us are into the more extreme side of things like me being humiliated etc we both love the fact that watching her with others turns me on and she likes being watched by me knowing she's turning me on. Great fun.
Sometimes I join in others I don't.
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"Id love a cuckold relationship. The jealousy drives me wild with lust
If there's jealousy involved that's not cuckold, that's unhealthy X"
Well im not submissive.
When watching my ex partner get fucked, it would make me very jealous where i cant wait to have my turn. Makes me crave her badly. |
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