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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So... I’ve always thought I was a dominant male and given my senior job and general lifestyle, I would say I was a dominant male.
But when it comes to the sex or foreplay, I love nothing more than being submissive and taken control of.
I suppose I can play both ways really but as I get older, I prefer being a submissive.
So what do women prefer in the bedroom, a dominant male or a sub that you can control and use for your own pleasure?
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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No two women are the same.
So there’s no answer to your question really. It depends on the woman.
Personally I can’t stand a submissive man.
I need someone who will take control and has no issues doing so. Finding that guy, who doesn’t abuse the power and act like an asshole isn’t easy. But they are out there.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No two women are the same.
So there’s no answer to your question really. It depends on the woman.
Personally I can’t stand a submissive man.
I need someone who will take control and has no issues doing so. Finding that guy, who doesn’t abuse the power and act like an asshole isn’t easy. But they are out there. "
I think knowing the role of dominant and sub gives you the advantage of knowing what both types of people want which removes that abuse of power. Being dominant to me is not just satisfying your own needs which is what a lot of people think it is. Without seeing it from the other side you will never truly know what submissive wants. |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"No two women are the same.
So there’s no answer to your question really. It depends on the woman.
Personally I can’t stand a submissive man.
I need someone who will take control and has no issues doing so. Finding that guy, who doesn’t abuse the power and act like an asshole isn’t easy. But they are out there.
I think knowing the role of dominant and sub gives you the advantage of knowing what both types of people want which removes that abuse of power. Being dominant to me is not just satisfying your own needs which is what a lot of people think it is. Without seeing it from the other side you will never truly know what submissive wants."
I don’t agree. Because it seems like you’re saying a Dom can’t truly know what a submissive wants if they haven’t played that role themselves.
Personally I have attempted to Domme and it’s not for me. I don’t enjoy it, it actually turns me off. So despite trying it, I’d have no idea what dominant people want or get out of that role because I don’t get anything out of it myself.
Communication is all you need to be able to truly understand what your Dom/me or sub wants in any particular situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not into men who switch or who are submissive. I only play with men who are 100% Dominant. I love total control taken away from me during play.
Everyone's different, that's mine preference x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No two women are the same.
So there’s no answer to your question really. It depends on the woman.
Personally I can’t stand a submissive man.
I need someone who will take control and has no issues doing so. Finding that guy, who doesn’t abuse the power and act like an asshole isn’t easy. But they are out there.
I think knowing the role of dominant and sub gives you the advantage of knowing what both types of people want which removes that abuse of power. Being dominant to me is not just satisfying your own needs which is what a lot of people think it is. Without seeing it from the other side you will never truly know what submissive wants.
I don’t agree. Because it seems like you’re saying a Dom can’t truly know what a submissive wants if they haven’t played that role themselves.
Personally I have attempted to Domme and it’s not for me. I don’t enjoy it, it actually turns me off. So despite trying it, I’d have no idea what dominant people want or get out of that role because I don’t get anything out of it myself.
Communication is all you need to be able to truly understand what your Dom/me or sub wants in any particular situation. "
I'm like you I've tried it & it doesn't work for me, but I do know what I like in the bedroom & I'm confident enough to ask for it. Some guys take that as dominance, which is a totally different thing to confidence. I am a sexually confident woman who prefers the attentions of a Dominant man X |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"No two women are the same.
So there’s no answer to your question really. It depends on the woman.
Personally I can’t stand a submissive man.
I need someone who will take control and has no issues doing so. Finding that guy, who doesn’t abuse the power and act like an asshole isn’t easy. But they are out there.
I think knowing the role of dominant and sub gives you the advantage of knowing what both types of people want which removes that abuse of power. Being dominant to me is not just satisfying your own needs which is what a lot of people think it is. Without seeing it from the other side you will never truly know what submissive wants.
I don’t agree. Because it seems like you’re saying a Dom can’t truly know what a submissive wants if they haven’t played that role themselves.
Personally I have attempted to Domme and it’s not for me. I don’t enjoy it, it actually turns me off. So despite trying it, I’d have no idea what dominant people want or get out of that role because I don’t get anything out of it myself.
Communication is all you need to be able to truly understand what your Dom/me or sub wants in any particular situation.
I'm like you I've tried it & it doesn't work for me, but I do know what I like in the bedroom & I'm confident enough to ask for it. Some guys take that as dominance, which is a totally different thing to confidence. I am a sexually confident woman who prefers the attentions of a Dominant man X"
That’s pretty much how I’d describe myself as well. Guys who play at being Dom can’t understand that I still get a say in things and that saying how I like something isn’t me trying to take over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve not really had the full on experience either way but I would say I normally prefer a more dominant man. However, I remember a couple of experiences with two guys who are very dominant mans man type guys in real life, where I very much enjoyed being the one in charge. So for me it depends on the guy and the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve not really had the full on experience either way but I would say I normally prefer a more dominant man. However, I remember a couple of experiences with two guys who are very dominant mans man type guys in real life, where I very much enjoyed being the one in charge. So for me it depends on the guy and the situation. "
I agree, I think it’s very much depending on what situation you are in, who knows what can happen when everyone is on the same level and inhibitions are left at the door;) |
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