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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looking to have a small house gathering.. soon..
I have 1 planned this month and is full..
If all goes well we will be doing another.
Any one had any experience. Good or bad ?
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never go by the thread 100 males could show interest, 20 could be invited & you might see 2 on the night. In 8 years here I've yet to see a male heavy event or party X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came to one of your parties back last year with friends of ours but had to leave early due to friends had to go gutted was looking forward to staying longer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Expect a 30/40% turn out rate. People will cancel the day before or just not show unless you’ve got trusted regulars turning up.
Speak to people on the phone first, if they won’t take this step then you know they won’t show.
Set the ground rules at the start when everyone has arrived
Good luck and hope it all goes well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Expect a 30/40% turn out rate. People will cancel the day before or just not show unless you’ve got trusted regulars turning up.
Speak to people on the phone first, if they won’t take this step then you know they won’t show.
Set the ground rules at the start when everyone has arrived
Good luck and hope it all goes well "
We 100% will never speak on the phone but we do turn up hmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Expect a 30/40% turn out rate. People will cancel the day before or just not show unless you’ve got trusted regulars turning up.
Speak to people on the phone first, if they won’t take this step then you know they won’t show.
Set the ground rules at the start when everyone has arrived
Good luck and hope it all goes well
We 100% will never speak on the phone but we do turn up hmmmmm"
I can only speak from experience and this approach tends to work well for me.
However do appreciate that not everyone is prepared to share contact numbers and are genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's ok, I'm on the phone all day so it leaves me with almost a phobia in my personal life, but we get your point X"
Totally understandable and I can relate to that. I’ve had awkward contact at unexpected times when giving out my number
There are other methods. Kik cam can be relatively effective but usually it freezes a lot.
I’ve learned to speak with both m and f in a couple because there’s so many men pretending. Rest assured I can see you’re a genuine mf couple |
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