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over a year ago
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I've been speaking to a girl for a while who's in demand and also has a FB. She was keen at first, then cooled and then ultimately agreed to meet, not only one-to-one but with her FB too. It all sounded great, we arranged it between us and then... BAM! Blocked. Anyone else had this done to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx"
Can I ask, did you contact these people who verified her before you got blocked to see if she was real? |
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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago
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"I've been speaking to a girl for a while who's in demand and also has a FB. She was keen at first, then cooled and then ultimately agreed to meet, not only one-to-one but with her FB too. It all sounded great, we arranged it between us and then... BAM! Blocked. Anyone else had this done to them?"
Again ppl will block for no reason and in all honesty do they need one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe so. If that's the case, why not have the decency to say so. Surely it's not much to expect from someone who was previously happy to chat?
It might not be face to face, but it's annoying that people don't apply the same common courtesy on here they would in real life - that goes for guys and girls before I'm accused of ripping into girls |
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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago
From a quiet corner in Porth |
"Maybe so. If that's the case, why not have the decency to say so. Surely it's not much to expect from someone who was previously happy to chat?
It might not be face to face, but it's annoying that people don't apply the same common courtesy on here they would in real life - that goes for guys and girls before I'm accused of ripping into girls"
Never mind dude win some loose some life's a box of chocolates lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe so. If that's the case, why not have the decency to say so. Surely it's not much to expect from someone who was previously happy to chat?
It might not be face to face, but it's annoying that people don't apply the same common courtesy on here they would in real life - that goes for guys and girls before I'm accused of ripping into girls
Never mind dude win some loose some life's a box of chocolates lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe so. If that's the case, why not have the decency to say so. Surely it's not much to expect from someone who was previously happy to chat?
It might not be face to face, but it's annoying that people don't apply the same common courtesy on here they would in real life - that goes for guys and girls before I'm accused of ripping into girls"
It's the Internet...... People owe you nothing on here and you owe them nothing in return, until you actually meet you are strangers on a website with no gravity in either party's world. Even then after meeting you will still be strangers in all probability.
It happens all the time, happened to me the other day and 2 days later was standing a few feet away from them at a social, you just have to chalk it up for what it is and forget about it.
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As a single guy just keep it for the real world as less work n less drama lol keep this place as an add on take it as it comes !!-you sound like a good guy so keep on looking,the ones for you will show themselves in time I'm sure!!--goodluck fella  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone can block anyone for any reason or no reason at all
You just have to suck it up and move on
You don't help yourself by dwelling over the "what ifs" |
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"It happens to everyone pal
Some more than others lol"
You might have been lucky they have cancelled on you. They could have been stalkers lol. It has happened to me. You see their shadow at every turn you take.  
I had really good unexpected meets which resulted from spontaneous exchange of messages, but honestly I prefer a social and face to face meet before anything further. Do not take fab to personally, as someone already advised, take it as an add on. You will find good genuine people here. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone can block anyone for any reason or no reason at all
You just have to suck it up and move on
You don't help yourself by dwelling over the "what ifs""
True I guess. Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It happens to everyone pal
Some more than others lol
You might have been lucky they have cancelled on you. They could have been stalkers lol. It has happened to me. You see their shadow at every turn you take.
I had really good unexpected meets which resulted from spontaneous exchange of messages, but honestly I prefer a social and face to face meet before anything further. Do not take fab to personally, as someone already advised, take it as an add on. You will find good genuine people here. Good luck "
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx"
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?"
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know what you mean you chat loads with someone you think the person must be genuine no one going to waste that much time being fake. I was suppose to meet someone before. they said meet them outside somewhere. I waited they text say be there in 2 min so I am waiting no one turns up they text me say I didn't turn up and I wasted there time. I try phoning as soon as they text they don't answer. I sent them a pic of me standing where we suppose to meet they just cut all contact then. |
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?"
She was getting off on it xx |
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over a year ago
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others"
I do. Totally. She was enjoying the thrill xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others
I do. Totally. She was enjoying the thrill xx"
Can't have been enjoying it that much if she reached for the block button |
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Yup a guy asks a question then out come tha sly digs---FFs it was a simple question as in the real world this would be very strange behaviour..keep on trucking op you'll come across many more crazies here--never expect anything only view I have is if she wasn't happy or changed mind all she had to do was say in my view
Goodluck to ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't lose any sleep over it mate. Unfortunately the ratio of men to women on here gives them a massive head and they think they're the best thing since sliced bread when in reality if you saw them in a club they'd be a solid 4/10 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others
I do. Totally. She was enjoying the thrill xx
Can't have been enjoying it that much if she reached for the block button"
Jeez thanks. How to make a guy feel good xx |
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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago
From a quiet corner in Porth |
"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others
I do. Totally. She was enjoying the thrill xx
I don't give a toss what Any one says but ppl Wil block for no reason at all simples, it's they're right to do what they want and if folk disagree how naive are they lol
Can't have been enjoying it that much if she reached for the block button"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't lose any sleep over it mate. Unfortunately the ratio of men to women on here gives them a massive head and they think they're the best thing since sliced bread when in reality if you saw them in a club they'd be a solid 4/10"
Not all.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently not. I've spoken to other people who've met her and verified her and they say she's genuine xx
Maybe she was annoyed/upset that you were discussing her with people she had previously met?
Some people have no consideration or respect for the privacy or discretion of others
I do. Totally. She was enjoying the thrill xx
Can't have been enjoying it that much if she reached for the block button Jeez thanks. How to make a guy feel good xx"
I'm being realistic
She blocked you
Don't really understand how I am meant to make you feel good about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't lose any sleep over it mate. Unfortunately the ratio of men to women on here gives them a massive head and they think they're the best thing since sliced bread when in reality if you saw them in a club they'd be a solid 4/10"
And the reason some women get like that is because of the desperate guys who lavish them with unrealistic attention and will tell them absolutely anything if it means they get to empty their balls into/over someone.
Fab is totally non reflective of the real world  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't lose any sleep over it mate. Unfortunately the ratio of men to women on here gives them a massive head and they think they're the best thing since sliced bread when in reality if you saw them in a club they'd be a solid 4/10
And the reason some women get like that is because of the desperate guys who lavish them with unrealistic attention and will tell them absolutely anything if it means they get to empty their balls into/over someone.
Fab is totally non reflective of the real world "
Just totally disillusioned with it apart from a few really nice women here who actually make the effort xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just totally disillusioned with it apart from a few really nice women here who actually make the effort xx"
It sounds like you have been placing a little bit too much emphasis on the end result rather than the journey along the way. That and that you have been taking the whole thing a little bit too personally and using it as your primary source of happiness in this area of your life.
If you have other means of making your life happy then do those things, take enjoyment in other things and use Fab only to enhance your life, not be an integral part of it. If you find yourself judging yourself and your sense of self worth by how many views or messages you get, or how many meets you have or how long in between, you are going about it the wrong way and not enjoying the site.
Of course this is all my subjective opinion, I don't know you or the lady or other people in question, I could be way off the mark. But don't dwell on it, the more you do that the worse it will be. There are hundreds of other women on this site in your local area, see if you can strike up a conversation with any one of them and I am sure that you will quickly forget about this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't lose any sleep over it mate. Unfortunately the ratio of men to women on here gives them a massive head and they think they're the best thing since sliced bread when in reality if you saw them in a club they'd be a solid 4/10
And the reason some women get like that is because of the desperate guys who lavish them with unrealistic attention and will tell them absolutely anything if it means they get to empty their balls into/over someone.
Fab is totally non reflective of the real world "
Spot on X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with this, it’s important to see this site as lightly as is possible. There is so much more to life than what goes on here.
The advice you give makes complete sense. |
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