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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

how to make this site fun once again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A lot of people have fun on here

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

there are. but it's changed so much. people would actually chat and find out more. these days it seems there are alot of rude people. I know we all have a certain type, but no need for being up own arse, pardon the punt.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Knowing what you want & don't want doesn't make you up your own arse, it makes. us discerning. I'm certainly not here to chat with people I have no wish to know

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

I totally understand where you are coming from. just seeing what reaction I get from people. don't want to offend anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it xx easy when u know how

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

I just love the banter on times.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there are. but it's changed so much. people would actually chat and find out more. these days it seems there are alot of rude people. I know we all have a certain type, but no need for being up own arse, pardon the punt. "

Same as Peachy I'm afraid

I know what I'm looking for (when I'm looking) and am not here to humour those who don't interest me. That isn't rude or up your own arse

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

maybe a bit harsh about being up the own arse thing. but it don't half create a action . it seems it can be taken the wrong way. I do apologise never meant for this to happen. maybe my sense of humour as changed over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Times do change and I suppose changing with them is the best way to keep having fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Noones taken offence

Your post just came across as a bit whiney

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No offence taken I was simply responding, for me a sense of entitlement knocks me cold, it's almost as off putting as desperation & up there with whining. But then I'm on the very shallow side tbh X

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

thanks all. what a knob I must look. just came out wrong. will think about what a write next time.

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

wish i could delete this now ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry about it, you asked a question.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold


"how to make this site fun once again. "

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety "

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some "

People get offended?

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By *ild_oatsMan  over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously....

Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you.

Unless your aim is to stir up controversy....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously....

Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you.

Unless your aim is to stir up controversy....

"

Best bet is not to post at all....just incase

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some

People get offended?

"

Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days

People looking for something to take offence to

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some

People get offended?

Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days

People looking for something to take offence to"

this and what Peachy said

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously....

Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you.

Unless your aim is to stir up controversy....

"

Problem is people ask for an opinion or advice but don't like the answer when it is given if it goes against the expectation of the answer they wanted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously....

Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you.

Unless your aim is to stir up controversy....

Problem is people ask for an opinion or advice but don't like the answer when it is given if it goes against the expectation of the answer they wanted "

This is the problem Snow

A lot of people ask for an opinion and if it isn't the same as theirs go off in a tantrum

They seem to forget that the forums are open for anyone to post whatever they like within the forum rules

The fun and banter element went a long time ago as those of us who always enjoyed that part of it have given the fuck up due to being outnumbered these days by the miserable, over sensitive and easilly outraged who lurk around to pounce on anyone having a bit of fun and try and turn themselves into a fucking victim.

Life's far too short for that shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a miserable prude etc etc.

However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ah you're hungry again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc.

However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive. "

It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning..

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc.

However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive.

It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning.. "

If only moaning burnt calories it would be great

Well certain moaning does

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

That first was supposed to be a

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc.

However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive.

It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning..

If only moaning burnt calories it would be great

Well certain moaning does "

Wouldn't it just

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some

People get offended?

Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days

People looking for something to take offence to

this and what Peachy said"

Ffs Snow don't agree they'll have me in a bloody clique with you now

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"how to make this site fun once again.

We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....

Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter

It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics

Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety

Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence

It gets a bit boring

So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some

People get offended?

Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days

People looking for something to take offence to

this and what Peachy said

Ffs Snow don't agree they'll have me in a bloody clique with you now "

Hahaha

Ya wanna be in my gang my gang my gang

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By *milySpectreWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff

I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

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By *milySpectreWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff

And I can't believe the pack of self awareness that goes into complaining that all people do is moan, when you brought it up in the first place.. Come on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site."

I've met many younger people from the site, believe me there's plenty about X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had a little ponder on that & you know what, I'm truly not vain enough to think anyone gives a shit about my thoughts or views on anything, but as a human being it is actually nice to be able to express a view when one is sought, I can't even apologise if it's not the right one but I can generally guarantee it's my one X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This kind of thin skin has even got a name now. Snowflake due to how fragile people's feelings are. By all means post on forums and accept that people will agree with you and others won't.

Let's not turn the forums into a safe space

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site."

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold


"This kind of thin skin has even got a name now. Snowflake due to how fragile people's feelings are. By all means post on forums and accept that people will agree with you and others won't.

Let's not turn the forums into a safe space "

Can we have a forum panic room?

Then we could retreat in there whenever want and lock the doors?

preferably with a comfy bed, Internet access and a steady supply of condoms, lube and sustenance

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By *ack girlWoman  over a year ago

bridgend


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

"

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

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By *amo2121Man  over a year ago

swansea


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

"

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile "

Yup, there's the solution, ban people from posting, the forums will be a better place then

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By *amo2121Man  over a year ago

swansea

Yup and we will all be far happier lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think there should be a limited number of replies and posts an individual puts on the forums per month.

This would make people think twice about using up their quota.

They ( the posts) are all variations on the same theme anyway written by the same half dozen or so boring individual attention seekers who have too much to say for themselves.....They know who they are..and will reveal themselves to us all when they respond to my comments.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile "

I agree there

I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion

Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less

It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously

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By *amo2121Man  over a year ago

swansea


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile

I agree there

I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion

Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less

It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously "

It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.

I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x

Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.

Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People can be banned from posting in the forums by a forum moderator.

However due to the amount of posts it's just easier for the thread to be shut down rather than troll through the individual posts and make an estimated guess on who's saying what about who.

Sometimes it's just not that clear who is being obusive or misbehaving in an individual thread so that's why there is the report option in each individual post.

The moderators do a great job that's thankless that makes the forums a great place for open debate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile

I agree there

I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion

Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less

It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously

It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.

I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x

Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.

Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x"

Apology accepted but not needed

We can all be cunts as much as the next person

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By *amo2121Man  over a year ago

swansea


"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site.

"...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..."

So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we?

I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls.

Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt.

Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look.

The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters.

Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts..

The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile

I agree there

I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion

Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less

It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously

It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.

I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x

Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.

Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x

Apology accepted but not needed

We can all be cunts as much as the next person "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.

I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x

Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.

Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x"

Are you implying that there are groups of people who are friends in the South Wales scene who might be seen to club together on the forums? Nooooo

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By *eral SexMan  over a year ago

Port Talbot

I'm surprised we get on as well as we do actually; given that the thing we have in common is a heightened set of sexual desires, rather than any working, regional, generational, or hobby overlap. There are huge variations in our lives, backgrounds, opinions and vanilla lives so clashes are inevitable. I think the socials undoubtedly help to bond us, but by and large we avoid the tearing splits and factionalism that some fab forums experience.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People can be banned from posting in the forums by a forum moderator.

However due to the amount of posts it's just easier for the thread to be shut down rather than troll through the individual posts and make an estimated guess on who's saying what about who.

Sometimes it's just not that clear who is being obusive or misbehaving in an individual thread so that's why there is the report option in each individual post.

The moderators do a great job that's thankless that makes the forums a great place for open debate."

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By *he Big Five OhhMan  over a year ago

bristol

I agree that there are less people who will hold a convo for pleasantries but if that means you need to change to fit in then I say..

No way.. I’m me .. warts( not literally ) and all

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By *ullon2017 OP   Man  over a year ago

Caerphilly

I only asked a question. didn't actually think it would get this kind of reaction. if you don't like the question, don't answer to it. still every one is entitled to have a opinion. but i can see that the fun as gone and some guys can't handle being corrected lol.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold


"I only asked a question. didn't actually think it would get this kind of reaction. if you don't like the question, don't answer to it. still every one is entitled to have a opinion. but i can see that the fun as gone and some guys can't handle being corrected lol. "

If you ask a question then anyone is entitled to respond, whether you like the answer or not, that's the point of questions, but for everyone to agree

We're all entitled to our opinions, and to express them as long as they're not offensive.

However, what would YOU like to see or do that might make the place "fun again"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Still lots of fun to be had, we're not struggling X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm having more fun now than I've ever had x

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By *rgasmicFunCouple  over a year ago

Gwent

Lots of fun sexy ppl on here and even more yet to meet, just been ill the past bloody month or so but back real soon to catch up lol, but it does seem to be some of the guys that have issues on here ???

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