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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get frustrated when people don't take the time to read your profile? Or is it me being a moany bugger? Haha"
Not at all. Your profile exists so it can convey to people what you like and what you're looking for. Unfortunately many people have the attention span of a goldfish and will message without bothering to read. Just the way it is.
Great profile btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we get a bit annoyed with guys not reading our profile and messaging us. We always take the time to read people’s profiles , that’s what they’re there for..... sorry to hijack your tread but we always get annoyed by people who don’t have anything on their profiles haha 
Fussy buggers aren’t we  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hallelujah, I'm glad I'm not alone!
It literally takes a couple of minutes to read a person's profile and you get all the information you need to know if you should proceed to messaging them or not.
It's the second thing I do when I view a person's profile. Of course we're all guilty of having a cheeky perv first of all  |
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"Anyone else get frustrated when people don't take the time to read your profile? Or is it me being a moany bugger? Haha"
Your profile is too short too read in the morning with my coffee and croissant. Will stick to financial times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's certainly not a complicated profile, be strong the guy's tend to be too lazy to read, that or they just don't care where they dump it so they bulk message any female looking profile. Your profile is your shop window & if a guy really has interest & meets your requirements their message will link to your needs X |
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"Anyone else get frustrated when people don't take the time to read your profile? Or is it me being a moany bugger? Haha"
It's majorly annoying.
We are inundated daily with messages and winks from people who, if they bothered to read our profile would realise it's a waste of time contacting us because they're not what we're looking for.
We've been very clear on our profile, so there's no excuse. It's just laziness. We read profiles really carefully before we contact anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get frustrated when people don't take the time to read your profile? Or is it me being a moany bugger? Haha
It's majorly annoying.
We are inundated daily with messages and winks from people who, if they bothered to read our profile would realise it's a waste of time contacting us because they're not what we're looking for.
We've been very clear on our profile, so there's no excuse. It's just laziness. We read profiles really carefully before we contact anyone."
You have been very clear with your profile. Can’t believe I’ve not seen it before. I just need to grow a bigger monster and I’m match all your requirements. Just. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the quality of the photos if they are a 3 or over (I'm still working on the ranking algorithm) then it's generally worth a pun to send a random crap mail
I'm sure I'm doing something right I had a reply the other day it said "Fuck off" which is an improvement on nothing |
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"Anyone else get frustrated when people don't take the time to read your profile? Or is it me being a moany bugger? Haha"
I did a small experiment:
I have read your profile, put RUGBY in the message, attached my picture, however i haven't received one of your pics in return as you stated in your profile? Conclusion: reading the profile was not necessarily.
I will keep reading my financial times at least I get up to date info. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it’s just guys that don’t read profiles as the amount of men that message me asking to play when I’m very clear on my profile that ain’t my thing
Maybe men are more visual creatures and go by looks alone, where as if the used their head more they have better luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately when cock in hand the ability to read is depleted..men cannot multitask this is a proven fact of life ....it's flattering to have attention but annoying it's not personal as we are just another pic on the wank fodder list. |
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"Unfortunately when cock in hand the ability to read is depleted..men cannot multitask this is a proven fact of life ....it's flattering to have attention but annoying it's not personal as we are just another pic on the wank fodder list."
A proven fact eh? I've Googled but can't find any evidence to support this 'proven fact'. Perhaps you can point me in the right direction as it sounds fascinating  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lowrider...it also state's in my profile that if you don't get a reply from me then take it as a polite no thank you. Sorry but I get that many messages I genuinely haven't got the time to reply to everyone (also stated on my profile) |
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"Unfortunately when cock in hand the ability to read is depleted..men cannot multitask this is a proven fact of life ....it's flattering to have attention but annoying it's not personal as we are just another pic on the wank fodder list.
A proven fact eh? I've Googled but can't find any evidence to support this 'proven fact'. Perhaps you can point me in the right direction as it sounds fascinating "
I would like to see those proven facts as well.  |
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"Lowrider...it also state's in my profile that if you don't get a reply from me then take it as a polite no thank you. Sorry but I get that many messages I genuinely haven't got the time to reply to everyone (also stated on my profile)"
As you say, you haven't got enough time to reply to every one. You can't expect everyone to have time to read your profile either. Nothing personal here. It is what it is. I personally do not have time to message every profile I would potentially like. It takes time to fully analyse if it is really worth contacting someone. And after investing that time to find out, as in example my message to you, it was a waste of my time. And yours probably I believe.
Lifelong experience has confirmed many times: the interpretation of texts and messages is not always as it has been intended. Face to face is the better way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did a small experiment:
I have read your profile, put RUGBY in the message, attached my picture, however i haven't received one of your pics in return as you stated in your profile? Conclusion: reading the profile was not necessarily. "
I have done this countless times, jumping through hoops and nothing I was especially nice too.
Regardless of whether people expect a reply or not if there are stipulations to reading a eulogy then at least have the same courtesy and reply with a thanks but no thanks.
Ultimately you do not have to reply or even acknowledge the person and if they ignore your your no thank you there's always the block button. But if you are expecting the respect you deserve then return it.
@lowrider
What happend is said persons probably looked at your profile thought fuck reading that, I'll perv instead on seeing the bare back photos thought fuck that and youre now on an ever growing block list
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Totally agree with lowrider , 99 times out of 100 if you read the whole profile and play by the rules you don't get a reply not even a polite no thanks ... fab is not a good source of fun for a single man... the well known swiping app however ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think what you want but at least I'm honest in what I've wrote in my profile. More often than not when I reply to people I'm then faced with a "why?" I shouldn't have to justify my reasons to anyone. We all can't be everyone's cup of tea and that is a fact of life. But I take a look at the profiles of the people that don't read mine and I've not found one that state's "I can't be arsed or don't have time to read profiles"
Right or wrong at least I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rugby
Right. I read your profile. Can i have the two minutes i wasted back please? I am out of your age range ?!?! Lol
* This post is entirely humorous in nature or intent |
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Personally I think fab has such an uptight tone to it these days, I've been on here and swinging on various sites for 10 years and I swear back then it was just so much more fun. At least chams and other clubs still have a good vibe mind  |
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"Think what you want but at least I'm honest in what I've wrote in my profile. More often than not when I reply to people I'm then faced with a "why?" I shouldn't have to justify my reasons to anyone. We all can't be everyone's cup of tea and that is a fact of life. But I take a look at the profiles of the people that don't read mine and I've not found one that state's "I can't be arsed or don't have time to read profiles"
Right or wrong at least I'm honest."
There is no argument here if you are honest or not. Or whether you should not be choosy and should try to please everyone. We will never be able to please everyone, no matter how hard we are trying to. My reply was to your initial question in this post. Just to remind, you asked why people (male part I assume lol) do not read your profile. Hence I did a small experiment to provide you some evidence before I have replied here.
To be honest I do not suffer from lack of attention and I am not seeking for one either. That post was interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always found the OP to very honest and polite when we’ve messaged each other
If as you say low rider “not Short of attention” why are you bothered about getting attention from the OP? As clearly with such a great profile your inundated
If that’s the case please start another forum page and teach us your skilful ways |
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"I have always found the OP to very honest and polite when we’ve messaged each other
If as you say low rider “not Short of attention” why are you bothered about getting attention from the OP? As clearly with such a great profile your inundated
If that’s the case please start another forum page and teach us your skilful ways "
Who said I was bothered? Please re-read my posts here. Have a good evening. |
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Come on ! If your going to message is at least use normal words instead of wt u up 2 
