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I Think Some People Have Missed The Point..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me or are there others on the same page as me?!
I'm referring to those people who use this site just for sex and think everyone else is.. I don't know about others here, but I am also looking for friendship, people to chill with and the like, without having to just bang each other all the time...
The amount of inboxes I've had just saying "fuck me now" (yes, us guys get it too) is unreal.. And really sad.. It's like as if that's all they want to do, sleep with as many people as they can.. 
They then get shitty with YOU and then move on to their next hopeful fuck.. Grinds my gears!! |
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Unfortunately many people do think the site is called Instashag, and not Fabswingers 
People might argue that singletons aren't really swingers, but if like to think that I am, and as part of that the social side is as important as getting my leg over, in between or some other contortions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im the original SWINGLE doesn't mean I shag anybody etc., I do with some lol but have made the most amazing friends on here that I see quite a lot just to catch up. We all use fab for different aspects of life. As long as we all have fun and are not hurting anyone go for it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never get this problem  "
Lucky you! - I'm regularly having to delete messages and block people because they seem to think I'm here to shag anything and everything! |
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The answer, is in the name
"fab swingers" a site for swingers to meet like wise ppl singles or couples on socials first if thats your prefference and go from there or go have fun, and freindships start from that, it's not a social site. |
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"I never get this problem
Lucky you! - I'm regularly having to delete messages and block people because they seem to think I'm here to shag anything and everything! "
Thats the problem with fab these days,to many single chancers who ruin it for the genuine singles . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never get this problem
Lucky you! - I'm regularly having to delete messages and block people because they seem to think I'm here to shag anything and everything!
Thats the problem with fab these days,to many single chancers who ruin it for the genuine singles ."
Too many just looking for a quicky.. As per the social side, I think that is just as important as the rest of the stuff that goes on here..
As I've said, not everyone is looking to shag as much as possible.. I bide my time also in arranging a "fun" meet as I want to ensure I spend my time with a sound person and not someone who is just in it to get banged left, right and centre.. Some people enjoy that.. I don't... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes a refreshing change to see this topic coming from a man it's usually us women complaining about this one, however I do think you're in the minority. I don't think many man here get fuck me now messages, judging from the many threads & updates they post I don't think they even get messages. Do like us ladies & block, delete, move on X |
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"It makes a refreshing change to see this topic coming from a man it's usually us women complaining about this one, however I do think you're in the minority. I don't think many man here get fuck me now messages, judging from the many threads & updates they post I don't think they even get messages. Do like us ladies & block, delete, move on X"
Minority!! I think he's 'ELITE  |
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By *eswillMan
over a year ago
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"It makes a refreshing change to see this topic coming from a man it's usually us women complaining about this one, however I do think you're in the minority. I don't think many man here get fuck me now messages, judging from the many threads & updates they post I don't think they even get messages. Do like us ladies & block, delete, move on X
Minority!! I think he's 'ELITE "
I think he forgot to said the messages were from men.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use the site as they see fit, if they want to try and shag as many people they can in a month then it's up to them.
If they want to send mail saying that want to fuck you up the arse with a 10 inch strapon then it's up to them.
If they want to meet at the many socials that are held and talk to other perverted deviants, you guessed it it's up to them.
Complaining about what you find unacceptable is up to you. The forums are here to raise a topic and discuss, debate.
Whether or not people want to contribute and give a shit is up to them.
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"It makes a refreshing change to see this topic coming from a man it's usually us women complaining about this one, however I do think you're in the minority. I don't think many man here get fuck me now messages, judging from the many threads & updates they post I don't think they even get messages. Do like us ladies & block, delete, move on X
Minority!! I think he's 'ELITE I think he forgot to said the messages were from men. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or are there others on the same page as me?!
I'm referring to those people who use this site just for sex and think everyone else is.. I don't know about others here, but I am also looking for friendship, people to chill with and the like, without having to just bang each other all the time...
The amount of inboxes I've had just saying "fuck me now" (yes, us guys get it too) is unreal.. And really sad.. It's like as if that's all they want to do, sleep with as many people as they can..
They then get shitty with YOU and then move on to their next hopeful fuck.. Grinds my gears!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are there others on the same page as me?!
I'm referring to those people who use this site just for sex and think everyone else is.. I don't know about others here, but I am also looking for friendship, people to chill with and the like, without having to just bang each other all the time...
Deluded.com
The amount of inboxes I've had just saying "fuck me now" (yes, us guys get it too) is unreal.. And really sad.. It's like as if that's all they want to do, sleep with as many people as they can..
They then get shitty with YOU and then move on to their next hopeful fuck.. Grinds my gears!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People use the site as they see fit, if they want to try and shag as many people they can in a month then it's up to them.
If they want to send mail saying that want to fuck you up the arse with a 10 inch strapon then it's up to them.
If they want to meet at the many socials that are held and talk to other perverted deviants, you guessed it it's up to them.
Complaining about what you find unacceptable is up to you. The forums are here to raise a topic and discuss, debate.
Whether or not people want to contribute and give a shit is up to them.
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If I want to start a thread about this topic, yup, you guessed it, it's up to me
If I get inboxes from overweight, 50 odd year old guys who are probably on some form of register and be offended by that, it's up to me..
Whether or not people give a shit is up to them..
Either way, if you are a younger guy, I'm sure at some point you have had pretty much the same problem..
This probably explains why my block list is so extensive.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People use the site as they see fit, if they want to try and shag as many people they can in a month then it's up to them.
If they want to send mail saying that want to fuck you up the arse with a 10 inch strapon then it's up to them.
If they want to meet at the many socials that are held and talk to other perverted deviants, you guessed it it's up to them.
Complaining about what you find unacceptable is up to you. The forums are here to raise a topic and discuss, debate.
Whether or not people want to contribute and give a shit is up to them.
If I want to start a thread about this topic, yup, you guessed it, it's up to me
If I get inboxes from overweight, 50 odd year old guys who are probably on some form of register and be offended by that, it's up to me..
Whether or not people give a shit is up to them..
Either way, if you are a younger guy, I'm sure at some point you have had pretty much the same problem..
This probably explains why my block list is so extensive.. "
How old are you?? Out of curiosity?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I understand what he is on about Even us old fookers get messages from guys wanting to fuck , suck rim, etc, (never women lol) its says none of that on my profile and a polite no only makes the messages get worse until I just block them. I keep single males on my profile because I have met a few at socials and we warn each other of the arseholes and discuss the reasons some single women and couples like to run us single blokes down lol?? We are all here for fun but like life we are not all looking to shag everyone we meet.... |
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"I think I understand what he is on about Even us old fookers get messages from guys wanting to fuck , suck rim, etc, (never women lol) its says none of that on my profile and a polite no only makes the messages get worse until I just block them. I keep single males on my profile because I have met a few at socials and we warn each other of the arseholes and discuss the reasons some single women and couples like to run us single blokes down lol?? We are all here for fun but like life we are not all looking to shag everyone we meet...."
That's what filters are for!!  |
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"People use the site as they see fit, if they want to try and shag as many people they can in a month then it's up to them.
If they want to send mail saying that want to fuck you up the arse with a 10 inch strapon then it's up to them.
If they want to meet at the many socials that are held and talk to other perverted deviants, you guessed it it's up to them.
Complaining about what you find unacceptable is up to you. The forums are here to raise a topic and discuss, debate.
Whether or not people want to contribute and give a shit is up to them.
If I want to start a thread about this topic, yup, you guessed it, it's up to me
If I get inboxes from overweight, 50 odd year old guys who are probably on some form of register and be offended by that, it's up to me..
Whether or not people give a shit is up to them..
Either way, if you are a younger guy, I'm sure at some point you have had pretty much the same problem..
This probably explains why my block list is so extensive.. "
I use filters |
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"I think I understand what he is on about Even us old fookers get messages from guys wanting to fuck , suck rim, etc, (never women lol) its says none of that on my profile and a polite no only makes the messages get worse until I just block them. I keep single males on my profile because I have met a few at socials and we warn each other of the arseholes and discuss the reasons some single women and couples like to run us single blokes down lol?? We are all here for fun but like life we are not all looking to shag everyone we meet...."
If you have a few single guys who you are friends with...rgats what the "friends " button is for |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"It makes a refreshing change to see this topic coming from a man it's usually us women complaining about this one, however I do think you're in the minority. I don't think many man here get fuck me now messages, judging from the many threads & updates they post I don't think they even get messages. Do like us ladies & block, delete, move on X
Minority!! I think he's 'ELITE I think he forgot to said the messages were from men.
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As your profile states you're also looking for men so it's hardly surprising you've received this type of mail from men.
I receive plenty of messages from women, but not once with that type of content, and frankly don't think I ever will.
You've now experienced what women constantly gripe about on fab. Follow above advise |
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People haven't missed the point as there are more than one type of person using fab
Some want sex and go, others will want regular meets with the same person
Live and let live as long as they don't bother me
I'm more concerned with fake and scam profiles tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People haven't missed the point as there are more than one type of person using fab
Some want sex and go, others will want regular meets with the same person
Live and let live as long as they don't bother me
I'm more concerned with fake and scam profiles tbh"
As with many things in life things that started out with a purpose " swinging "were cpls who swapped partners in either a 4some or group.yes it has changed /evolved but this is because people who what to change things for their own benefit change it.
It is what it is but we disagree with the comment that some are here to meet the same person. that is definitely not swinging no matter what you say its dating.
we go to a naturist resort and the conditions for entry are you MUST be naked but as said above people walk around with shorts or sarongs or bikinis all stating its their personal choice. but its not is it because they went to a naturist resort.
the same applies to fab singles looking to meet just one other person is not a swinger. |
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"People haven't missed the point as there are more than one type of person using fab
Some want sex and go, others will want regular meets with the same person
Live and let live as long as they don't bother me
I'm more concerned with fake and scam profiles tbh
As with many things in life things that started out with a purpose " swinging "were cpls who swapped partners in either a 4some or group.yes it has changed /evolved but this is because people who what to change things for their own benefit change it.
It is what it is but we disagree with the comment that some are here to meet the same person. that is definitely not swinging no matter what you say its dating.
we go to a naturist resort and the conditions for entry are you MUST be naked but as said above people walk around with shorts or sarongs or bikinis all stating its their personal choice. but its not is it because they went to a naturist resort.
the same applies to fab singles looking to meet just one other person is not a swinger."
I would say it is if they want to meet one person regularly and then evolve into a couple that meet others.
Re the naturist resort that's poor management,
I've not read fabs rules but pretty sure it doesn't exclude women or guys who want to meet one partner and then swing as a couple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i agree its poor management in the naturist but it proves my point that without defined rules people will do what they want and think its justified .
as far as the one on one thing thats not swinging is it if they decide to swing at a later date then that is swinging.
so maybe plenty of 0 for meeting one on one then move on to swinging |
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