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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on here a few months now and think I’m finally settling in!
I was wondering what lessons you have learnt since joining Fab. Whether from meets (good or bad experiences) or if you have learnt anything about your self or about other people? From chatting/web camming. Or anything else I may have missed out! |
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I have learnt: not to trust people and be as naive as I once was; to become more confident; that I am very picky; that I am even more sexual than I thought I was; and discovering I'm bisexual. Am sure there are more! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I have learnt: not to trust people and be as naive as I once was; to become more confident; that I am very picky; that I am even more sexual than I thought I was; and discovering I'm bisexual. Am sure there are more! "
I've discovered from chatting to people on fab just how many different facets and ways of expressing sexuality there are  from what i've seen, women are far more genuine with their profiles than men are. And of course, the massive proportion of single men vs everyone else!
Also discovered how much I enjoy chatting with people here and exchanging perspectives on all things sexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believe nothing, trust noone.
I went through a very difficult experience at the end of last year due to (in hindsight, foolishly) believing the dangerous lies of a man I thought I could trust.
I will never make that mistake again
Always look after number 1  |
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I have learnt.....
If a photo looks too good to be true, it usually is! Reverse image is a great friend.
Always meet in public first. Easier to walk away if there is no click.
Older men are as bad as younger guys, in being time wasters.
Guys who ask, what you are going to wear for a meet and want to know exactly what you are going to do. Are only using it for wank material and don't intend meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some things I've learned:
There's no reason for me not to be more confident in myself with women outside of this site.
Some people send some really weird messages to women and couples.
If you're not too serious on here you'll probably do better.
I can cum multiple times and stay hard. |
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Trusting is hard work on here. Some are worth it, some not in a month of Sunday's
Their are some fantastic people to meet on here. Some that if rather forget sharpish.
Forums can be more entertaining than the soaps.
There are more lessons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have learnt to take everything with a pinch of salt .. that trust needs to be built and to stay away from drama ..
Also, that what i want out of a 'vanilla' relationship might be a little more than before i found fab!
And that i clearly have one of those faces that make women want to hit the block button for some reason  |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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I learnt that someone saying they're interested in meeting you and actually wanting to meet you are two very very different things.
The forums are a good way to find people you DON'T want to ever meet.
There are too many ways for guys to ask for sex. |
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"I learnt that someone saying they're interested in meeting you and actually wanting to meet you are two very very different things.
The forums are a good way to find people you DON'T want to ever meet.
There are too many ways for guys to ask for sex."
That first paragraph is part of the first lesson I learnt...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance 
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!  |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!! "
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have learnt to stay well out of the limelight after seeing so much drama within this scene.
Also the majority of people we have come across are decent folk but like real life it has it's fair share of idiots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only been on here a short while but we have learnt that Chams is the best place to meet people! (and before you jump on us for not including socials, we haven't been to one yet but are going to the Newport one Oct 7th). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"
Are there really women like that on here?? |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"
To quote those wise men... Barry and Paul...
Oh dear,
Oh dear oh dear!  |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!
To quote those wise men... Barry and Paul...
Oh dear,
Oh dear oh dear! "
Barry and Paul would be a refreshing site!!! |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!
Are there really women like that on here?? "
Tons!!! |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!
Are there really women like that on here??
Tons!!!"
Yeah, they don't outnumber the bitter guys who don't get any though  |
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!
Are there really women like that on here??
Tons!!!
Yeah, they don't outnumber the bitter guys who don't get any though "
No....they out weigh them by a mile!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive learnt that for a lot of guys on Fab any hole is a goal. They dont even want to see what you look like before you agree to meet them.
As long as you have a pulse they are up for it.
Its a good job Im very fussy  |
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over a year ago
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Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant. |
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant."
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!"
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter. |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter. "
I'm sure some are just genuinely busy ha ha - guys or girls |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.
I'm sure some are just genuinely busy ha ha - guys or girls "
Oh, I am not judging anyone. I am sure they all have a good reason. |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter. "
Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it
It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;
Single guy -
can't accomodate...well he must be married!!
Single woman -
Can't accomodate....its for her safety.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett "
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us |
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us "
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones  |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.
Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it
It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;
Single guy -
can't accomodate...well he must be married!!
Single woman -
Can't accomodate....its for her safety.
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The single ladies are looked at in the same light, I am sure. However, men in general would not complain about that publicly, they just get on with it. Women on the other hand need to vent, that's how they are dealing with the issues in life. We are different and there is the magic. |
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"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!
Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.
Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it
It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;
Single guy -
can't accomodate...well he must be married!!
Single woman -
Can't accomodate....its for her safety.
The single ladies are looked at in the same light, I am sure. However, men in general would not complain about that publicly, they just get on with it. Women on the other hand need to vent, that's how they are dealing with the issues in life. We are different and there is the magic."
Spot on !! There is the magic !! Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones "
Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol
So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad |
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones
Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol
So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad "
Sounds like he's a lucky man x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones
Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol
So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad
Sounds like he's a lucky man x "
Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services  are needed 7 days+nights a week |
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones
Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol
So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad
Sounds like he's a lucky man x
Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services are needed 7 days+nights a week "
Lol just tell himbetter to have it and deal with it than not have it at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.
Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.
Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..
I'm only a silohett
exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?
I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us
Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones
Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol
So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad
Sounds like he's a lucky man x
Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services are needed 7 days+nights a week
Lol just tell himbetter to have it and deal with it than not have it at all "
True tat I'll tell him now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).
2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.
3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.
4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.
5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance
6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.
7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!
This!!!
I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"
Hahahaha fucking bang on the money!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't take fab to seriously, not everyone will like you. Be true to yourself never take one for the team. Stay clear of drama and watch out for the bullies and know it all's. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on here a few months now and think I’m finally settling in!
I was wondering what lessons you have learnt since joining Fab. Whether from meets (good or bad experiences) or if you have learnt anything about your self or about other people? From chatting/web camming. Or anything else I may have missed out!"
It took me a few club visits to see how everything worked. I learned never to assume a lady sitting alone is there alone. Often, she is waiting for her arranged meet to arrive, or her partner is at the bar/having a smoke/ gone to the loo. I now have a rule in a club which is no alcohol for me and never to play with anyone that needs alcohol to play.
These are my personal rules. What others feel is OK is none of my business, unless it interferes with my enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot. |
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot. "
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!! "
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud! "
I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors |
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud!
I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors "
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms "
Hahaha do people get upset by this then? Lol....
I've learnt that fab is a funny old world... |
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"I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms
Hahaha do people get upset by this then? Lol....
I've learnt that fab is a funny old world..."
Some people do lol you can't please everyone xx |
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud! "
You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!! |
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud!
You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!! "
Lol I just read my profile and you are correct. I had 'can't travel' for so long and hadn't realised I ever changed it. So my apologies! |
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud!
You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!!
Lol I just read my profile and you are correct. I had 'can't travel' for so long and hadn't realised I ever changed it. So my apologies!"
No need to apologies!! I think in all fairness any topic in the forums can get quite heated quickly due to the fact that everything is in "text" and as we don't know each other it can be taken and read the wrong way..ive done it and I'm almost perfect much love Mrs no hard feelings xx |
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To ALWAYS have a one to one social prior to any play meet. Helps out the liars and narcissists.
To never give too much away regarding vanilla life, or it can be used against you. People are happier to hear lies than the truth.
Men are worse gossips and shit stirrers than women.
I'm kinkier than I first thought
Love licking pussy.. who would have thought?!
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"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.
Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.
Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!
Believe me I am no fraud!
I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors
Well you've met me "
I know but u say u cn travel x |
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I've learned to keep yourself to yourself
Trust your own instincts
This comes from experience
Of different things that has happened over the years
Which relate to far to many similarities of what others have wrote in this forum
LOL to many to mention
But all a learning curve |
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Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.
Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like |
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"Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.
Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like "
I know how is like mate. Same here. |
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"Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.
Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like "
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"I've also learnt not to ask about having an MMF in the forums  "
Hummmm, sorry about that, it's not normally me but when someone gives an insult like I got I tend to kick back. Not sure what happened after my reply as I went out and the thread was block when I got back. |
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