"Not getting much luck, what is a GOOD first message, I've tried nice and polite, invite for drink and chat, dirty, fantasy etc HELP!!!!!!
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What you want to do Mark is join four d*unken bastards once again at the Mary Dillwyn, but this time we should work as a team to write first messages, using our unique but d*unken insights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Start by reading there profiles that's what they are there for and it's polite because you've taken the time to read it."
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I know it's frustrating but keep on plugging away and try and socialise just be yourself not come across as someone who is trying too hard. Be yourself and as long as being yourself is not a dick, if it is you'll never get anything. Don't expect things to happen overnight.
Unfortunately there's no magic one fix for all. Everyone is different. But I don't know much, what I do know is "Hi, fancy a fuck" doesn't work well.
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"Start by reading there profiles that's what they are there for and it's polite because you've taken the time to read it.
Voice of experience
I know it's frustrating but keep on plugging away and try and socialise just be yourself not come across as someone who is trying too hard. Be yourself and as long as being yourself is not a dick, if it is you'll never get anything. Don't expect things to happen overnight.
Unfortunately there's no magic one fix for all. Everyone is different. But I don't know much, what I do know is "Hi, fancy a fuck" doesn't work well.
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He is rite just don't be a dick & pushy! And get to socials meet people so they no wot your like, you will be supprised how many meets you will get off the back of a good social... The proof is I my veris, Good luck!  |
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Say what you want some will get back to you some won't. Is mostly down to the pics. I never write anything special full on .. just a simple hi with pics works for me. Anyone after an essay is in dream world |
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I know how you feel, girls ask for every thing which you do, and then if they bother to read it and even put the effort in to a reply its like 3 words, I am polite also and make sure I read all the profile first, and make an effort to stand out, what makes me laugh is that its the same girls constantly on here and always saying there horny and being constantly let down, yet still ignore haha |
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Some of the most successful guys on here are active in the club/party and social scene and get known that way aka networking.
Once we receive a message from anyone, we'll read the profile first, and check to see the pics on offer. If the profile isn't worth looking and provides nothing to entice/entrigue then we'll delete the message without reading.
If you put no effort into your own profile, then you reap what you sow.
Effort + Attitude + Patience = Success
Basically like life in general. |
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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago
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"Some of the most successful guys on here are active in the club/party and social scene and get known that way aka networking.
Once we receive a message from anyone, we'll read the profile first, and check to see the pics on offer. If the profile isn't worth looking and provides nothing to entice/entrigue then we'll delete the message without reading.
If you put no effort into your own profile, then you reap what you sow.
Effort + Attitude + Patience = Success
Basically like life in general."
Definitely this  |
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By *ecklerMan
over a year ago
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For me I have 1 simple rule:
Be complimentary - tell the person/s what YOU like about them and why their profile attracted you......Then introduce yourself.......then always finish the message politely.
Remember too, if your struggling to write something complimentary and genuine then you probably shouldnt be messaging them at all.
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We have to say that the messages that get our attention are the ones where we are messaged as a couple and that include a face pic and a bit about the person messaging us |
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