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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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New event on a fortnightly basis at a large 4 bed property based in Pembrokeshire, genuine couples, single fems a couple of single males...any people interested ?
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Sounds like it has possibilities, love to know more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have messaged u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If interested, drop me a line, I can give u further information then |
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By *eadowMan
over a year ago
Swansea |
Definitely interested, please send details. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sent u a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interested xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would message u further info, but single men can't message you lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooopps sorry messaged you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely there are more people interested in a venue based in Pembrokeshire that is offering a fortnightly party for all you sexual deviant's. Come on people, let's get some more interested couples and single females  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put a date up & you're likely to get more interest, plus couple's & single females need to see that it's not going to just single guys X |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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Hope that you will have plenty of interest in this and has been mentioned not from just guys |
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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago
swansea |
We would be interested if there is room x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Messaged you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please note. This party will only ever have 2/3 males. The rest of the list will only be couples and single females. All verified and any pushy arrogant men will be asked to leave and not allowed to attend again. So don't be shy, give it a try |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you, dates will be upcoming soon, and thank u for advice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can't message you as single men are blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would be interested if there is room x"
Tried messaging you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have been interested but nowhere near enough single guys for me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have been interested but nowhere near enough single guys for me xx"
Slut & that's just the Mr  |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"I would have been interested but nowhere near enough single guys for me xx"
a greedy girl
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have been interested but nowhere near enough single guys for me xx
Slut & that's just the Mr "
xxc |
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I'm single male and very interested in somehow getting myself into the few you're letting in. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sent u a wink, message me if u want further information |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If this is definatly going on and the date is confirmed, i will definatly be up for coming. Always looking to go to sex parties etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to be on the guest list. What tests do I have to pass? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ignore cost. Some one suggested charges, just bring your own booze and protection. Party is FREE |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me down to stay, any females want to stay with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would be up for this if we see other couple's attending.X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really do what to come to this. I know the distance now. But do you have any dates in my you can send me please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interested if poss |
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Interesting if there were more cpls than singles x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There will be an equal amount of every one |
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October the 20th is my birthday. Important to age disgracefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've inboxed, I can't make the 6th but would be interested in a future event if in South Wales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interested |
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??"
Be better run a raffle I know the costs of food ect and the mess left I wish you success but Pembs swingers are here but when it comes to the crunch non existent most people will travel here as we found with Milford socials and Pembs socials good luck |
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??"
IT WOULD APPEAR THAT YOU ARE ALL FRIENDS AND THEREFORE NOT CHARGING IS TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE,BUT THE ORGANISER IS NOT IN THE SAME POSITION AND DEFINITELY HAS OVERHEADS,SO HIS CHARGE RETROSPECTIVELY REPRESENTS EXCELLENT VALUE  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??
IT WOULD APPEAR THAT YOU ARE ALL FRIENDS AND THEREFORE NOT CHARGING IS TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE,BUT THE ORGANISER IS NOT IN THE SAME POSITION AND DEFINITELY HAS OVERHEADS,SO HIS CHARGE RETROSPECTIVELY REPRESENTS EXCELLENT VALUE "
I've been to house parties that are open to everyone and not just friends. The organiser never charged entry but provided a full buffet and soft drinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost all the parties I attend have been held by strangers, you may think we're all friends because we chat here & are polite to one another, mostly lol but lots of us haven't even met X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??
IT WOULD APPEAR THAT YOU ARE ALL FRIENDS AND THEREFORE NOT CHARGING IS TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE,BUT THE ORGANISER IS NOT IN THE SAME POSITION AND DEFINITELY HAS OVERHEADS,SO HIS CHARGE RETROSPECTIVELY REPRESENTS EXCELLENT VALUE "
I've been holding party's for 13 years I have never charged people to attend, it's my choice to hold them and it's my choice to do a buffet And most people who attend are strangers ! |
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Maybe, after the initial party, the organiser will change his policy.
However you can appreciate his possible nervousness about spending an amount of money, and then no one turning up
Once you become a recognised organiser, then of course, you do get a certain amount of regulars and reliable people coming along  |
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Are you the same male who was going to organise monthly singing parties in the Tenby area a year ago and cancelled after people had book accommodation? |
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"Are you the same male who was going to organise monthly singing parties in the Tenby area a year ago and cancelled after people had book accommodation?"
Questions like that should be asked directly to the OP as your statement is derogatory and unfounded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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let us hope it isn't a lot of ppl lost money they had booked accommodation lol. xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we're hoping he's genuine & whilst we would pay £5 we just wonder what for X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you the same male who was going to organise monthly singing parties in the Tenby area a year ago and cancelled after people had book accommodation?
Questions like that should be asked directly to the OP as your statement is derogatory and unfounded "
As should judgemental statements like your one above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im sure its all good and it comes off and everyone enjoys. have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you the same male who was going to organise monthly singing parties in the Tenby area a year ago and cancelled after people had book accommodation?
Questions like that should be asked directly to the OP as your statement is derogatory and unfounded
I'm certainly am not. I am offering accommodation, this is my first attempt at parties, and comments like the one above will ruin my parties 
As should judgemental statements like your one above"
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"Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down "
Do you get a free raffle ticket with that?
We may be interested if you do |
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"Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down
Do you get a free raffle ticket with that?
We may be interested if you do "
Yes I will fund the raffle ticket even though I will not be attending and as much as the SHARKS who are swimming around and will not attend should look out for the same treatment in return |
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"Yup put us down "
I am obviously not the organiser but I must say good for you  |
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??
IT WOULD APPEAR THAT YOU ARE ALL FRIENDS AND THEREFORE NOT CHARGING IS TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE,BUT THE ORGANISER IS NOT IN THE SAME POSITION AND DEFINITELY HAS OVERHEADS,SO HIS CHARGE RETROSPECTIVELY REPRESENTS EXCELLENT VALUE "
All the parties we have been to have been "strangers" to us at first, friendships have developed after the initial meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down
Do you get a free raffle ticket with that?
We may be interested if you do
Yes I will fund the raffle ticket even though I will not be attending and as much as the SHARKS who are swimming around and will not attend should look out for the same treatment in return "
What the heck does that mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down
Do you get a free raffle ticket with that?
We may be interested if you do
Yes I will fund the raffle ticket even though I will not be attending and as much as the SHARKS who are swimming around and will not attend should look out for the same treatment in return
What the heck does that mean?"
Yeah I was confused too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all hold parties at our home, some play some social. We all provide soft drinks etc., and provide nibbles most guest bring some as well BUT would never charge them an admission fee which is really what your doing isn't it.??
IT WOULD APPEAR THAT YOU ARE ALL FRIENDS AND THEREFORE NOT CHARGING IS TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE,BUT THE ORGANISER IS NOT IN THE SAME POSITION AND DEFINITELY HAS OVERHEADS,SO HIS CHARGE RETROSPECTIVELY REPRESENTS EXCELLENT VALUE "
Excuse me what rubbish. Every time I host a get together and have one in a few weeks I don't know some that I have invited (albeit only a social get together) everyone brings a bottle and helps out with nibbles, Im not gonna charge them for soft drinks or the use of my home am I, so no WE DONT CHARGE AND SOME ARE UNKNOWN TO US WHEN WE HOST. |
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"Party update : 1st party date is as follows, Friday 20th October. To be held in Johnston, Pembrokeshire. Please bring own alcohol, soft drinks will be provided, along with nibbles and condoms too. Accommodation can be provided too for a couple of people if required. A small fee of £5 per person is being asked, just to cover my own expense's. So that's the info, get your names down
Do you get a free raffle ticket with that?
We may be interested if you do
Yes I will fund the raffle ticket even though I will not be attending and as much as the SHARKS who are swimming around and will not attend should look out for the same treatment in return "
Sharks?
I've been called some things lol
Maybe you could give him some advise on how to organising a good social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live to attend but unavailable on the 20th. Keep us posted with any other dates.
£5 to cover cost of renting a house is ok with us, cheaper than hotel rooms lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, final update : the party is on the 20th of October in Johnson, there's no fee, it starts @ 8 pm bring your own drinks and condoms, soft drinks and nibbles provided. I will require a confirmation by one week prior of whom will be attending so a list can be posted on here for every one to see.
Stop using this forum to post negative comments please, I'm here to provide venue for fun which sadly is lacking in the Pembrokeshire area. Thank you all |
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Just a heads up, some people don't like their names being made public on a list for parties etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a heads up, some people don't like their names being made public on a list for parties etc."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a heads up, some people don't like their names being made public on a list for parties etc.
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Here here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Noted, I'll just say how many of each will be attending |
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By *ow DDWoman
over a year ago
just up your street |
If I am welcome could I attend? x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I am welcome could I attend? x"
You my lovely, are certainly welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noted, I'll just say how many of each will be attending "
Perfect X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is fine to charge a fiver and great he is trying to organise it regularly,all can get know everyone, it costs more than that to get to a social, this way you do have a good chance to have fun, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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3 single fems confirmed, 2 couples confirmed and 1 single male so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 single fems confirmed, 2 couples confirmed and 1 single male so far "
Tell me more about this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do we know if we are on the list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do we know if we are on the list"
I'll pm u |
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Is there room for a single guy? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single guy qoata is full now, couples and 1/2 female's still open |
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Ok a lot of talk about money not the fun of meeting sexy ppl, this guy is tryin to set some thing up for who ever wants to go, he is getting knocked back from all angles, he is offering his own home for fun every other week, of course he has overheads light heating some sort of bar to make sure its all safe and food and who do u think is going to clean up in the morning while we r all in bed, he's got to wash every thing clean hoover pic up condoms some ppl do just through them if some one has moved the bin and all this before he can sit and enjoy a nice clean home, but this all sounds cool, how many of u have been to Decs in burnham on sea did u argue the cost, i feel not neither did we its the same set up, give this guy some credit who knows if it works for him it could be a new club in the future x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the camp that happy to pay but you're missing the point, several people here hold regular parties, the attendees include strangers, food is provided, accommodation is offered & none of us are expected to clean up after. No one charges for this because it's a private party in someone's home, that's all people are querying & I'm not getting a feel people are saying not to do it or wishing it to fail X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OMG, the party is free, if it works and people keep attending, it will of benefit for everyone as there is no venues within the Pembrokeshire area |
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"I'm in the camp that happy to pay but you're missing the point, several people here hold regular parties, the attendees include strangers, food is provided, accommodation is offered & none of us are expected to clean up after. No one charges for this because it's a private party in someone's home, that's all people are querying & I'm not getting a feel people are saying not to do it or wishing it to fail X"
I understand what u r saying but know one can do this every other week lol and most of u r freinds with a few strangers yes thats a lot of fun, fuck im out of here pmsl and hope it does all go well for him god knows we need more clubs or places to go for nights of sexy fun in wales lol, i've chatted to a lot of u over the year and feel im gonna get my nuts chewed off when we bump into some of u probably in Chams lol |
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So many negatives.this deserves to succeed and unfortunately the negatively is from members that will not attend,just let the organiser get on with what he is doing instead of trashing something that is definitely needed in.Pembrokeshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG, the party is free, if it works and people keep attending, it will of benefit for everyone as there is no venues within the Pembrokeshire area "
Well I'll be there with or without Ch3wy X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't see why anyone does not want to pay a fiver,you can't expect the guy to fund it, I will gladly pay and man the door for you Liam and send them to you to welcome them |
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"So many negatives.this deserves to succeed and unfortunately the negatively is from members that will not attend,just let the organiser get on with what he is doing instead of trashing something that is definitely needed in.Pembrokeshire "
Well said snd so very true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Forgot mention... Hot tub too |
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Now u mention the hot tub pmsl x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now u mention the hot tub pmsl x "
Totally forgot tbh lol x |
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Have you any thoughts on start and finish dates? |
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"I would have been interested but nowhere near enough single guys for me xx
Slut & that's just the Mr
xxc"
I love a slut lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Come to the decision that Pembrokeshire is too closed minded. So why should I bother trying to arrange a party ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We might be interested if allowed to come ?x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally understand why the OP wanted to charge a fee. I have held many parties and they are stressing to put together, you have all the mail asking to come, you cater the food etc and then over half don't turn up.Also the cleaning etc afterwards, but i never charge as i love meeting new people and the social side of swinging. Good luck OP.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come to the decision that Pembrokeshire is too closed minded. So why should I bother trying to arrange a party ???"
I said I'd attend but I didn't hear back mate |
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"OMG, the party is free, if it works and people keep attending, it will of benefit for everyone as there is no venues within the Pembrokeshire area "
there are venues and a club also. Social venues but Pembs people are fickle shame it's just the Bdsm set that use them. If you need any support let me know if you want a bit of kink thrown in organise one at mine. Also I can vouch that you are a genuine person and wish you all the success
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"Come to the decision that Pembrokeshire is too closed minded. So why should I bother trying to arrange a party ???"
Because it's needed and it does work not for Pembs people but people will travel let's meet up for a chat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im sure I invited u lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come to the decision that Pembrokeshire is too closed minded. So why should I bother trying to arrange a party ???"
What!!!! Again. We made arrangements. Thanks mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not saying its cancelled by any means, just want to know who's coming |
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Hope it goes well and the first of more to come. Organising more than two people to anything is never easy, let alone this kind of event. It’s easy to get bogged down with negative responses, so go ahead and see how the first one works out, making any changes for the next one and so on for future parties. It’s always a learning curve and the dynamics depend on those attending as much as the ambient surroundings provided by the host.
Speaking of which, based on previous parties at other friends over the years, the host is usually the one rushing around, making sure everyone is comfortable and having a good time. Unless someone else is roped in to help (figuratively roped in), the host doesn’t always get the most ‘action’ until later on. A deadline for answering the door usually helps overcome this, or someone else is in charge of late arrivals.
Good luck and hope there’s a time I might be able to help in any way.
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over a year ago
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"Not saying its cancelled by any means, just want to know who's coming"
That's certainly not how your post reads & others have taken it the same way, I think you've shot yourself in the foot on this one & for someone who's been looking forward we're no longer ininterested because it's become too tenuous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
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Im part of a couple can you send me details please x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im part of a couple can you send me details please x"
Cant reply, I'm outside ur age range |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
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Thanks for the input, got a feeling its gonna be a total flop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
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Their parties are great fun too |
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
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That is the best advice that you are going to get on this site and it's probably a good idea to post a new entry including all of the details should you decide to continue |
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
Thanks for the input, got a feeling its gonna be a total flop "
Chin up, be positive and don't send out mixed messages |
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It's too late to stop it now, we're all coming round to yours anyway. We're bringing cake. You just have to make damn sure you've got tasty vol-au-vents or there'll be trouble !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's too late to stop it now, we're all coming round to yours anyway. We're bringing cake. You just have to make damn sure you've got tasty vol-au-vents or there'll be trouble !!! "
Pmsl. What about the cheese and pineapple on a stick ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
Thanks for the input, got a feeling its gonna be a total flop
Chin up, be positive and don't send out mixed messages "
I have had more excitement & giggles reading the comments than meets on here lol
Their goldfish will have flu haha
Sad but very true. Loads of time wasters on here.
Good luck tho to the organiser hope it goes well & you have a great night x |
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"It's too late to stop it now, we're all coming round to yours anyway. We're bringing cake. You just have to make damn sure you've got tasty vol-au-vents or there'll be trouble !!!
Pmsl. What about the cheese and pineapple on a stick ? "
Absolutely. No one can possibly swing without cheese and pineapple on a stick first. |
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I’m very interested if I am lucky enough to be invited x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
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Love your parties, proper fun & musical accompaniment too, can't go wrong |
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By *eswillMan
over a year ago
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"hi there op / we have held more than 30 parties .
just keep to the date and do it.
Dont worry about the numbers as most of The people will not turn up.
Their goldfish will have flu or something .
They will have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profiles mostly lol.
A few of our friends also have held parties the general rule is invite 50 to get about 20/25 and if people ask who is going tell them to take a jump.
Remember the party is yours and not a public service!
Its a learning curve and you will soon know who to invite and who not too.
We love holding them but have learned not to spend the whole week and the first part of the night trying to get people to confirm they are coming.
Love your parties, proper fun & musical accompaniment too, can't go wrong "
You like the way Buck plays the trumpet. |
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over a year ago
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He's got a certain flair for it Les |
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By *mokid2Man
over a year ago
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Sounds interesting. Never been to such a party before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go ahead with it.
we always enjoy parties and its a great way to meet people on here.
maybe ask if they can bring a few nibbles,that will leave you some money to have a hog roast.
and will mean 2 lots of spitroasting can occur in one place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"go ahead with it.
we always enjoy parties and its a great way to meet people on here.
maybe ask if they can bring a few nibbles,that will leave you some money to have a hog roast.
and will mean 2 lots of spitroasting can occur in one place "
Defo going ahead, as long as I get enough couples and single fems lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"go ahead with it.
we always enjoy parties and its a great way to meet people on here.
maybe ask if they can bring a few nibbles,that will leave you some money to have a hog roast.
and will mean 2 lots of spitroasting can occur in one place
Defo going ahead, as long as I get enough couples and single fems lol "
No single men now? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"go ahead with it.
we always enjoy parties and its a great way to meet people on here.
maybe ask if they can bring a few nibbles,that will leave you some money to have a hog roast.
and will mean 2 lots of spitroasting can occur in one place
Defo going ahead, as long as I get enough couples and single fems lol No single men now?"
Yes, single men too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said half way up thread . We might be interested if we allowed to come lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As said half way up thread . We might be interested if we allowed to come lol "
Who in their right mind would refuse u guys ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As said half way up thread . We might be interested if we allowed to come lol
Who in their right mind would refuse u guys ?? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lets get some names down then. Party is definitely going ahead. On the 20th October in Johnston. Those whom confirm will be given address 2 days prior, plenty of parking, bonus part, there's a pub, 2 doors down to loosen them nerves lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to have an invite, love a good party, have a quick read of my veris. Hope to see you all soon |
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By *ryptoMan
over a year ago
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Interested if space allows ; ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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jonstone or a name like that was a venue for a party about a year ago.
It was canceled last min when loads arranged sitters etc
please don't tell me you are the same person.
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"jonstone or a name like that was a venue for a party about a year ago.
It was canceled last min when loads arranged sitters etc
please don't tell me you are the same person.
If your not sure why bother to post a negative comment
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Small village. Saying 2 doors from a pub makes it easy to find party. 2 pubs. 2 hotel/pub. One social club. Easy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"jonstone or a name like that was a venue for a party about a year ago.
It was canceled last min when loads arranged sitters etc
please don't tell me you are the same person.
I'm not that person. I can guarantee that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can we get something straight...im not the person who cancelled a party in the same area. I'm just trying my damn hardest to organise a party venue where everyone can have some fun. But I keep getting agro from all sides.
If u aren't up for coming, please don't leave any negative input as it will put people off attending.
Thank you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Irs not hard just have the party and stck to it .
Dont decide if its going ahead or not because people have already said yes.
People meed to be confident that its going to happen . Your on /off thing aint good .
Btw it was deffo someone from jonstone who lived close to a pub last year. Maybe your neighbour |
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"Irs not hard just have the party and stck to it .
Dont decide if its going ahead or not because people have already said yes.
People meed to be confident that its going to happen . Your on /off thing aint good .
Btw it was deffo someone from jonstone who lived close to a pub last year. Maybe your neighbour "
Jonstone that is a new one on me and everyone in South Pembrokeshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So theres no place that sounds like jonstone? |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Irs not hard just have the party and stck to it .
Dont decide if its going ahead or not because people have already said yes.
People meed to be confident that its going to happen . Your on /off thing aint good .
Btw it was deffo someone from jonstone who lived close to a pub last year. Maybe your neighbour
Jonstone that is a new one on me and everyone in South Pembrokeshire "
how pathetic !
So johnston is a totally different sounding name ?
Ffs lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Omg....stop this please...im new to JOHNSTON, I'm originally from Birmingham. Never hosted a naughty party, just seen it was lacking venues around here
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By *eacockCouple
over a year ago
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I cant believe people are moaning about £5 when the poor bloke is giving up his house and putting on refreshments and jonnies.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not charging lol...totally free, just bring your own booze and protection...feel free to bring nibbles, soft drinks are provided |
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Can I just say I've met the op when he lived my end of country. He is genuine. He did not live in that area when the previous thread offering a party and was not a single guy back then either was a couple!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I just say I've met the op when he lived my end of country. He is genuine. He did not live in that area when the previous thread offering a party and was not a single guy back then either was a couple!!"
Thanks darling.x, c you tomorrow ?? |
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"Can I just say I've met the op when he lived my end of country. He is genuine. He did not live in that area when the previous thread offering a party and was not a single guy back then either was a couple!!
Thanks darling.x, c you tomorrow ?? "
Welcome hunni. Getting a little silly now. See you tomorrow x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all, any Space for someone completly new?? Xx :* |
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We would like to come plz, let us know |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"We would like to come plz, let us know"
a very sociable couple and a nice commendation from a good genuine woman on here, at least he is having a go in not the best area on here
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By *pl4u300Couple
over a year ago
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We would be interested if there is any couples going x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interested x"
Cant message u info...blocked all men lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would be interested if there is any couples going x"
There will be couples attending too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would like to come plz, let us know"
U r welcome to attend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would like to come plz, let us know"
U are welcome to come, but I can't message u as all men are blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey all could I have some more info on these parties would love to be involved if able just let me know x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey all could I have some more info on these parties would love to be involved if able just let me know x"
U would be welcome to attend Bud |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put our names down was lovely to meet you last night we are coming for some naughty fun xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Put our names down was lovely to meet you last night we are coming for some naughty fun xxxx"
Awesome...looking forward to getting down and dirty lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was heartening to see that you were real last night, can I put myself down again but I might come with Ch3wy &/or xmiss naughtyx if that's ok X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds amazing please put me down for an invite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was heartening to see that you were real last night, can I put myself down again but I might come with Ch3wy &/or xmiss naughtyx if that's ok X"
I know u must of been feeling a little weary, I am definitely genuine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was heartening to see that you were real last night, can I put myself down again but I might come with Ch3wy &/or xmiss naughtyx if that's ok X"
I cant mesage u as I'm blocked...whoops lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was heartening to see that you were real last night, can I put myself down again but I might come with Ch3wy &/or xmiss naughtyx if that's ok X
I cant mesage u as I'm blocked...whoops lol"
All men are but I can let individuals through x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It was heartening to see that you were real last night, can I put myself down again but I might come with Ch3wy &/or xmiss naughtyx if that's ok X
I cant mesage u as I'm blocked...whoops lol
Have messaged you;)
All men are but I can let individuals through x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep adding them names peeps we can verify that this guy is genuine |
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Regrettably I'll have to withdraw my name - the 20th is my birthday and I'd thought I was doing nothing special, but it turns out friends and family have plans for me (which probably don't involve sex ) so apologies and have a lovely time. |
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