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"When we was looking for single males we'd put a meet up which sort of worked but the best results came from when we looked ourselves, met some lovely fellas and had no problems. " Thank you | |||
"When we was looking for single males we'd put a meet up which sort of worked but the best results came from when we looked ourselves, met some lovely fellas and had no problems. Thank you "You're welcome and hopefully you'll find who your looking for. X | |||
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And (said many times before) using the socials can introduce you to many people  | |||
"This makes a refreshing change
You may find that the forums can act as a useful filter
And (said many times before) using the socials can introduce you to many people "Yes, we are going to give a social a try. I went to a Cardiff one years ago and enjoyed it | |||
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"How hard is it to find a decent single lad to play with.. Considering they're always moaning they can't get a meet, we're struggling to find one.. Any suggestions welcome "Hit the socials, and ignore the lists that seem to suggest that it will be standing room only due to the numbers of single guys who put their names down, most won't turn up, as the wife will not let them out! Its a good filter, those that do turn up are, for the most part, fairly human lol!  | |||
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"Only made it to one fab social but been to many on the fet scene and definitely the best way to get to meet the more serious members of the community. Plus I know I suck at sending that first pm. " Totally off topic, but your rope work is very pretty | |||
"Only made it to one fab social but been to many on the fet scene and definitely the best way to get to meet the more serious members of the community. Plus I know I suck at sending that first pm. Totally off topic, but your rope work is very pretty "Thank you. Always happy to practice a little more though.  | |||
"Only made it to one fab social but been to many on the fet scene and definitely the best way to get to meet the more serious members of the community. Plus I know I suck at sending that first pm. Totally off topic, but your rope work is very pretty
Thank you. Always happy to practice a little more though. "I'd love to watch a demonstration | |||
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"Tbh that is refreshing to here. Ive been trying to organise stuff with people but find in hard. In terms of socials I haven't got the asking price for clubs and then so many socials have a limit of single guys I can never seem to go to one. Being new to the site aswell and not having a personal verify doesn't help me either "The singles social is coming up in September mind where you need no veris x | |||
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"How hard is it to find a decent single lad to play with.. Considering they're always moaning they can't get a meet, we're struggling to find one.. Any suggestions welcome "Just outside your age range ???? xx | |||
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"This makes a refreshing change
You may find that the forums can act as a useful filter
And (said many times before) using the socials can introduce you to many people
Yes, we are going to give a social a try.
I went to a Cardiff one years ago and enjoyed it" | |||
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"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. " I've never been. I don't know enough about it all, I'm afraid  | |||
"Tbh that is refreshing to here. Ive been trying to organise stuff with people but find in hard. In terms of socials I haven't got the asking price for clubs and then so many socials have a limit of single guys I can never seem to go to one. Being new to the site aswell and not having a personal verify doesn't help me either "Singles social in Newport at the beginning of Sept. It's posted in the forum. No veris needed plus we try to couple up people to get into the club, for those who want to attend without paying full price as a single guy. | |||
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"How hard is it to find a decent single lad to play with.. Considering they're always moaning they can't get a meet, we're struggling to find one.. Any suggestions welcome "It's not easy either way apparently. I guess finding decent people is just generally tough. | |||
But I know from some of my friends on here that half the guys they speak to are all talk and nothing else. | |||
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"Lookingformore..... I'm having the same issue with ladies. Know One seems to reply... Or. I'm away working as per. You know I'd meet you two for a brew or some food. " We definitely need a catch up soo kei | |||
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"We certainly do yes... " Well lets sort something, we've been saying this for ages now | |||
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"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. " Haven't long come back from a fetish and kink social and I have to say, was one of the best things I have done so far.. No clicky people, none of the 'usual suspects', no drama and all were all to happy to approach me without staying in groups! Look forward to going to some more, and no one was obsessed with green ticks, all were genuine enough! - highly recommended!!  | |||
"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. Haven't long come back from a fetish and kink social and I have to say, was one of the best things I have done so far.. No clicky people, none of the 'usual suspects', no drama and all were all to happy to approach me without staying in groups! Look forward to going to some more, and no one was obsessed with green ticks, all were genuine enough! - highly recommended!! "Here's a fact - I've only really been using this site for research purposes.. Ie, what the general attitude is of the users of one of the biggest swinging sites.. I concluded that by using other apps and sites, I was more successful.. The general attitude here, created by event organisers and some goers was - * Your profile is shit and isn't to our standard, so good luck in getting meets * You need to spend a stupid amount of time in the forums just to be recognised here (which is bollocks) * If you do not have a green tick, you are not genuine, so good luck * When new socials are created, the general response will be "good luck with that one", indicating that only their event is worth going to * If you do not fit in, prepare to be reported or have a negative response * Because this is the biggest swinging site, all others don't count.. As well as dozens more.. Including trying to influence others into their way of thinking, by saying things like "don't think you will get a meet", etc.. Also, if you monitor the forums enough, you will notice those dishing out their advice constantly contradict themselves regularly, but don't see it because they have their heads up their own arse.. Anyway, if you aren't having much success here, don't feel like there is no alternative.. THERE IS! - Just a simple Google search will bring up lots of sites and apps that offer swinging, fetish, kinks, etc...! - Anyway, I shall wait for the inevitable negative responses.. As usual.. | |||
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"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. I've never been. I don't know enough about it all, I'm afraid "No worries. Send me a pm and am happy to chat about it. Will be busy with kids for the next couple of weeks but after that more than happy to try and organise something. | |||
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"I'm a single male, decent I think. Fido don't it hard to get a break on here. Take a chance?" Guess you're into dogging? | |||
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"I'm a single male, decent I think. Fido don't it hard to get a break on here. Take a chance? Guess you're into dogging? " damn predictive text
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"2 weeks in...another troll? " Who? | |||
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"2 weeks in...another troll? Who? " The couple and their verification, both 2 weeks since they joined. Bit of a quincidence them joining the same time struggling to find a single guy isn't it? Come on....tut tut! | |||
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"2 weeks in...another troll? Who? The couple and their verification, both 2 weeks since they joined. Bit of a quincidence them joining the same time struggling to find a single guy isn't it? Come on....tut tut! " We have both been on here before as single people and now and as a couple.. There are lots of people I've met through socials who I'm pretty sure would verify me.. My old profile was sweetNsaucy and due to relationship I had 3 years off from fab.. | |||
"2 weeks in...another troll? Who? The couple and their verification, both 2 weeks since they joined. Bit of a quincidence them joining the same time struggling to find a single guy isn't it? Come on....tut tut! We have both been on here before as single people and now and as a couple.. There are lots of people I've met through socials who I'm pretty sure would verify me.. My old profile was sweetNsaucy and due to relationship I had 3 years off from fab.. " As for kez, I've known him 15 years, he's a friend of both me and my partner.. Why wouldn't he verify us? And vice versa?!!! | |||
"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. Haven't long come back from a fetish and kink social and I have to say, was one of the best things I have done so far.. No clicky people, none of the 'usual suspects', no drama and all were all to happy to approach me without staying in groups! Look forward to going to some more, and no one was obsessed with green ticks, all were genuine enough! - highly recommended!!
Here's a fact - I've only really been using this site for research purposes.. Ie, what the general attitude is of the users of one of the biggest swinging sites..
I concluded that by using other apps and sites, I was more successful.. The general attitude here, created by event organisers and some goers was -
* Your profile is shit and isn't to our standard, so good luck in getting meets
* You need to spend a stupid amount of time in the forums just to be recognised here (which is bollocks)
* If you do not have a green tick, you are not genuine, so good luck
* When new socials are created, the general response will be "good luck with that one", indicating that only their event is worth going to
* If you do not fit in, prepare to be reported or have a negative response
* Because this is the biggest swinging site, all others don't count..
As well as dozens more.. Including trying to influence others into their way of thinking, by saying things like "don't think you will get a meet", etc.. Also, if you monitor the forums enough, you will notice those dishing out their advice constantly contradict themselves regularly, but don't see it because they have their heads up their own arse..
Anyway, if you aren't having much success here, don't feel like there is no alternative.. THERE IS! - Just a simple Google search will bring up lots of sites and apps that offer swinging, fetish, kinks, etc...! - Anyway, I shall wait for the inevitable negative responses.. As usual.. "I've been around a long time & I can't agree with much of that tbh: Profiles are only commented upon if the op has put the thread up specifically seeking comment & yes, some people don't pull punches with their responses. You need to spend time in the forum, definitely not, we don't meet from the forum & on my single profile I actively avoid all of you. My experience has been pretty much the same speaking with friends, clubs, socials & parties seem to be the places people meet nowadays. We & others we know often meet newbies on the site, if I'm going to a club, party or social we always reach out to new people & I even have a little social aimed at those, like me who prefer a smaller environment, me green tick needed. New socials are generally well supported & organisers from the bigger ones will fully support & attend the new ones, they're always there to offer advice if asked. Both the new social run by wild oats & my Sunday lunch social had more than 20 attendees, I reckon that's really good going & many attendees were at their first ever social. Experience does bear out much of what you say & reads more like what you've personally experienced & that could say more about you than the site tbh | |||
"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. Haven't long come back from a fetish and kink social and I have to say, was one of the best things I have done so far.. No clicky people, none of the 'usual suspects', no drama and all were all to happy to approach me without staying in groups! Look forward to going to some more, and no one was obsessed with green ticks, all were genuine enough! - highly recommended!!
Here's a fact - I've only really been using this site for research purposes.. Ie, what the general attitude is of the users of one of the biggest swinging sites..
I concluded that by using other apps and sites, I was more successful.. The general attitude here, created by event organisers and some goers was -
* Your profile is shit and isn't to our standard, so good luck in getting meets
* You need to spend a stupid amount of time in the forums just to be recognised here (which is bollocks)
* If you do not have a green tick, you are not genuine, so good luck
* When new socials are created, the general response will be "good luck with that one", indicating that only their event is worth going to
* If you do not fit in, prepare to be reported or have a negative response
* Because this is the biggest swinging site, all others don't count..
As well as dozens more.. Including trying to influence others into their way of thinking, by saying things like "don't think you will get a meet", etc.. Also, if you monitor the forums enough, you will notice those dishing out their advice constantly contradict themselves regularly, but don't see it because they have their heads up their own arse..
Anyway, if you aren't having much success here, don't feel like there is no alternative.. THERE IS! - Just a simple Google search will bring up lots of sites and apps that offer swinging, fetish, kinks, etc...! - Anyway, I shall wait for the inevitable negative responses.. As usual..
I've been around a long time & I can't agree with much of that tbh:
Profiles are only commented upon if the op has put the thread up specifically seeking comment & yes, some people don't pull punches with their responses.
You need to spend time in the forum, definitely not, we don't meet from the forum & on my single profile I actively avoid all of you. My experience has been pretty much the same speaking with friends, clubs, socials & parties seem to be the places people meet nowadays.
We & others we know often meet newbies on the site, if I'm going to a club, party or social we always reach out to new people & I even have a little social aimed at those, like me who prefer a smaller environment, me green tick needed.
New socials are generally well supported & organisers from the bigger ones will fully support & attend the new ones, they're always there to offer advice if asked. Both the new social run by wild oats & my Sunday lunch social had more than 20 attendees, I reckon that's really good going & many attendees were at their first ever social.
Experience does bear out much of what you say & reads more like what you've personally experienced & that could say more about you than the site tbh
"Smaller socials sounds good to me, where do I sign???? | |||
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"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one "I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular | |||
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"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one
I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular "As if I would imply such a thing, I'm sure I've seen a pic of it at some point | |||
"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one
I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular
As if I would imply such a thing, I'm sure I've seen a pic of it at some point "Nope, you definitely haven't | |||
"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one
I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular
As if I would imply such a thing, I'm sure I've seen a pic of it at some point
Nope, you definitely haven't "Come on now Jack you're making me feel a Perve here, are you implying I've been thinking about the size of it hmmmmmm | |||
"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one
I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular
As if I would imply such a thing, I'm sure I've seen a pic of it at some point
Nope, you definitely haven't
Come on now Jack you're making me feel a Perve here, are you implying I've been thinking about the size of it hmmmmmm "I would never imply you were a perv.
We all know you are  | |||
"Look out for the any of the lunch socials & any put up by Wild Oats, I'm sorry if I've missed anyone else with a small one
I hope you're not implying I have a small one
Though my socials do prove fairly popular
As if I would imply such a thing, I'm sure I've seen a pic of it at some point
Nope, you definitely haven't
Come on now Jack you're making me feel a Perve here, are you implying I've been thinking about the size of it hmmmmmm
I would never imply you were a perv.
We all know you are "Hmmmm I try my best | |||
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"Id rate myself as a decent guy ...And my veris back it up ... BUT !!! I can't go to the local social as there is a couple going who are known trouble makers who have upset several people on the site, and even threatened me because I turned down a play with them ... Sometimes its not the single guys on here that are the a-holes - its the couples ... Anyway - there are or used to be (Im a returner from overseas working) LOTS of nice folk on here - lets hope they discover the fun of SWANZ :o)" We too have had this problem after turning down a couple to play!! Sad really isn't it! Don't take anything too serious in this scene, it's all for fun | |||
"How hard is it to find a decent single lad to play with.. Considering they're always moaning they can't get a meet, we're struggling to find one.. Any suggestions welcome
Hit the socials, and ignore the lists that seem to suggest that it will be standing room only due to the numbers of single guys who put their
names down, most won't turn up, as the wife will not let them out!
Its a good filter, those that do turn up are, for the most part, fairly human lol! "Haha so true, you can mostly spot an attached man cause they tend not to message after 7pm. And they change from can accommodate to. Can we get a room this time. I'm not saying all. Just most | |||
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"Do you attend any of the fetish community events? I get to one or two when I can. Always have rope on me at those. Get funny looms if I bring it to normal socials. Haven't long come back from a fetish and kink social and I have to say, was one of the best things I have done so far.. No clicky people, none of the 'usual suspects', no drama and all were all to happy to approach me without staying in groups! Look forward to going to some more, and no one was obsessed with green ticks, all were genuine enough! - highly recommended!!
Here's a fact - I've only really been using this site for research purposes.. Ie, what the general attitude is of the users of one of the biggest swinging sites..
I concluded that by using other apps and sites, I was more successful.. The general attitude here, created by event organisers and some goers was -
* Your profile is shit and isn't to our standard, so good luck in getting meets
* You need to spend a stupid amount of time in the forums just to be recognised here (which is bollocks)
* If you do not have a green tick, you are not genuine, so good luck
* When new socials are created, the general response will be "good luck with that one", indicating that only their event is worth going to
* If you do not fit in, prepare to be reported or have a negative response
* Because this is the biggest swinging site, all others don't count..
As well as dozens more.. Including trying to influence others into their way of thinking, by saying things like "don't think you will get a meet", etc.. Also, if you monitor the forums enough, you will notice those dishing out their advice constantly contradict themselves regularly, but don't see it because they have their heads up their own arse..
Anyway, if you aren't having much success here, don't feel like there is no alternative.. THERE IS! - Just a simple Google search will bring up lots of sites and apps that offer swinging, fetish, kinks, etc...! - Anyway, I shall wait for the inevitable negative responses.. As usual.. "I think you are generalising way too much, and the only negativity here is generated by you. "Your profile is shit..." Some profiles are, and some forum posters don't sugar coat how they put it over, but there is also a lot of advice given that gets ignored or attacked. "You need to spend..." Nope, the forums are only used by a very small minority of fabbers, advice is usually to hit the socials if you want to get known. "...green tick.." applies more to fems and cpls, lets face it, who's going to fake being a single male? "When new socials are created..." some newbies seem to think that they can short-circuit the meet process by throwing together a short notice, ill-thought out social, and those with more miles under their belts tend to spot something that isn't going to fly and point it out. "If you don't fit in...." Some sensitive souls take opinions that don't mesh with their views as an attack on them, and react badly... its a forum, don't post if you cant take the shadow as well as the sunshine. "...inevitable negative responses.." there is one common denominator when that happens. | |||
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"You have to wait until they're walking down a badly lit Victorian passageway, then leap on them from a great height. Then if the couple inject the single male with a narcotic serum through through their fangs, they can drag the single male back to their lair. "This was plan B.... Great minds think alike | |||
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"Why do you think i learnt rope? Good play partners are hard to find so once you finally get to meeting don't want them escaping "
I like your thinking!!! | |||
"Why do you thinkni learnt rope? Good play partners are hard to find so once you finally get to meeting don't want them escaping "It's knot what they were expecting... | |||
