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over a year ago
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It's totally different meeting as a couple, generally there's a lot more chat before the meet & you've got a partner with you should it not feel right on the night, we have left or said let's do coffee instead with couples we haven't clicked with in the flesh.
As a single you're more aware of the need for the mutual connection/attraction is there because there's nowhere to hide, I personally can't meet cold with a person on my own & a non pushy social in a neutral is vital to the process for me, I am beginning to embrace the back to mine if it feels right, but even that feels a bit much for me. |
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over a year ago
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I have done both in the past
As I rule I like to meet socially first, as you can never really tell if there will be a spark just by texting etc
But I can be spontaneous if I'm horny, and the guy is younger, fit and plays rugby, he can sometimes be excused the social part ha   |
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over a year ago
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From this site it would be plenty of messages and pics to make sure we all know what we are after then a social then if we're all happy then a play date.
In a club a little chat to see if the chemistry is right then play time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have done both in the past
As I rule I like to meet socially first, as you can never really tell if there will be a spark just by texting etc
But I can be spontaneous if I'm horny, and the guy is younger, fit and plays rugby, he can sometimes be excused the social part ha "
Well I used to play rugby if that's any use?
Well still looking for a first couple meet but so far no luck, been some interesting responses mind |
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over a year ago
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"So what's everyone's views on meets, does everyone like a social before hand or do you just want to get down to it haha"
Many moons ago when I started out it didn't bother me. Have the time I met people had what I wanted and didn't even know their name.
I learnt a lot from it and landed myself in a situation. Now I have a social if I was too meet alone or as a couple. |
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Definitely like to have a social first you get to know more about that person. Also you see how nice some people before they become your naughty fantasies.. thats my experience with it |
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