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By *eral Sex OP Man
over a year ago
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Good thought and I'd wondered about that, but if you have sent a verification and they've not put it up, you wouldn't want them to feel you were badgering them. I wondered if there was a list of the verifications you've sent anywhere, as there with messages, but I guess not. Thank you though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not an easy one tbh people use their cross in very different ways, when I had my last single profile I would swap & change according to what I was looking for at that time, show the single fem ones when looking for fem fun, couple ones if looking for couples & social ones when I wasn't looking to fuck. So many people nowadays don't even show their veris because others are so judgemental or jealous, makes no sense to me on an adult swinging site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put in on the evaluation form hehe
Good question though. I quite often forget to write them after social events  so I don't mind a gentle reminder.
I also don't display all of my verifications, I pick and chose and only show the ones that portray what I want to at any given time. I also tend not to show the ones which attract the hareem of bullshit, which does happen sadly! lol  |
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A puzzler 
Some people are reluctant to verify nowadays, as said above.
Some don't like to have repeat verifications either.
I think you've just got to suck it up, and treat it as an unanswered message 
Some people also take a couple of days to recover after a busy social
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put in on the evaluation form hehe
Good question though. I quite often forget to write them after social events so I don't mind a gentle reminder.
I also don't display all of my verifications, I pick and chose and only show the ones that portray what I want to at any given time. I also tend not to show the ones which attract the hareem of bullshit, which does happen sadly! lol "
I'm also terrible at doing veris after socials mainly because I forget user names I probably need less of a gentle reminder and more of a bollocking. |
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"Keep a diary 
Or use the Private Notes on a person's profile 
That's the way, another much under used tool on our profiles "
Better than a little black book
Just hotlist everyone and write it all down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep a diary
Or use the Private Notes on a person's profile
That's the way, another much under used tool on our profiles "
I should start using that feature! Weed out the cretins and remember why |
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it?  "
If you're a site supporter you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it?
If you're a site supporter you can "
Yep site supporters can. I try not to get hung up on who's fabbed me though. I assume they like the image rather than me. |
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By *eral Sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it?
If you're a site supporter you can
Yep site supporters can. I try not to get hung up on who's fabbed me though. I assume they like the image rather than me. "
I'm way more shallow ! I just want to bask in approval and roll around shouting about it.
I am a site supporter I think, so how do I do it? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it? "
In my single profiles I've always turned that function off, makes me cringe tbh. But Ch3wy likes it so we keep it here X |
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it?
If you're a site supporter you can
Yep site supporters can. I try not to get hung up on who's fabbed me though. I assume they like the image rather than me.
I'm way more shallow ! I just want to bask in approval and roll around shouting about it.
I am a site supporter I think, so how do I do it? X"
you are indeed!
Click on the image in your public gallery (via your profile). Then it will come up with how many times it's been fabbed and next to that it gives a link to see by who.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whooa. Thank you Miss M. Much appreciated. I enjoy these forum chats, y'know."
it also shows in the "Updates"section, all of your pictures and who's fabbed them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be handy to have a tool ...
Never really used the notes section... hmm ..
Some ppl choose not to display for various reasons ... I've had a few ppl ask why I haven't displayed theirs ... many reasons .. sometimes it causes bitching mainly territorial girls lol but my main reason atm is because I'm only looking to meet black gents. .I then get men saying "but you've met so and so " so easier not to display ...
Good point though op. .if it were to have a reminder ..I forget where my head is let alone who I've veried x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would be handy to have a tool ...
Never really used the notes section... hmm ..
Some ppl choose not to display for various reasons ... I've had a few ppl ask why I haven't displayed theirs ... many reasons .. sometimes it causes bitching mainly territorial girls lol but my main reason atm is because I'm only looking to meet black gents. .I then get men saying "but you've met so and so " so easier not to display ...
Good point though op. .if it were to have a reminder ..I forget where my head is let alone who I've veried x"
Agree about the territorial thing
I have had nasty messages off possesive women in the past who seem to lack understanding of the nature of the site so I don't show mine anymore
Not worth the nonsense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would be handy to have a tool ...
Never really used the notes section... hmm ..
Some ppl choose not to display for various reasons ... I've had a few ppl ask why I haven't displayed theirs ... many reasons .. sometimes it causes bitching mainly territorial girls lol but my main reason atm is because I'm only looking to meet black gents. .I then get men saying "but you've met so and so " so easier not to display ...
Good point though op. .if it were to have a reminder ..I forget where my head is let alone who I've veried x
Agree about the territorial thing
I have had nasty messages off possesive women in the past who seem to lack understanding of the nature of the site so I don't show mine anymore
Not worth the nonsense "
No it isn't ..... had a few guys tell me a madam has said things like "sorry if have loved to have met you but you've met T4T" or can see you've met T4T... (insert gossip here)
No time for it ... so only displaying the guys further a field London etc that I know wont get my toiled in catty bitchy behaviour
Let's be honest veries are mostly B.S anyway .. same clichés in most lol xx
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Meh.... we just display them all (even the bad one), anyone who judges us probably wouldn't have been much fun anyway.
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... I bet no-one has found the bad one, you had to be there to get it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh.... we just display them all (even the bad one), anyone who judges us probably wouldn't have been much fun anyway.
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... I bet no-one has found the bad one, you had to be there to get it! "
Oh do tell the story ! X |
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"Meh.... we just display them all (even the bad one), anyone who judges us probably wouldn't have been much fun anyway.
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... I bet no-one has found the bad one, you had to be there to get it!
Oh do tell the story ! X"
I don't think I can without giving away too much and embarressing someone.
If we bump into each other, ask me then, I can never resist a gorgeous pair.......of eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep I think that's a really underused feature, making our own notes as we go. I do wish we could find out who fabbed our photos too.
its all about sating curiosity isn't it?
If you're a site supporter you can
Yep site supporters can. I try not to get hung up on who's fabbed me though. I assume they like the image rather than me. "
When I had males blocked every now and then I'd have 20 odd fabs where some guy had fabbed all of my public photos to get my attention I guess.
Now I just block as I go. |
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