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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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It can be very hit and miss with the numbers of people there and what the atmosphere will be like on any given night. Go with an open mind I'd say...
On my first visit to chams in Newport is bumped into someone I knew in vanilla life. The only awkward part really was seeing each other in very little clothing lol... I have since attended parties and events with this person... |
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious"
it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy. "
Naw schucks...thanks for the compliment lovely (and for the advice, but mostly the compliment) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.
Naw schucks...thanks for the compliment lovely (and for the advice, but mostly the compliment)"
you're welcome homey  |
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over a year ago
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Can be hit and miss
Can't really say I've witnessed bitching and gossiping there so don't let that put you off
On the whole everyone is friendly and welcoming
Give it a try xxx |
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy. "
Some of the people who attend aren't members of Fab so it's almost impossible to predict numbers. Sometimes a quiet night is good for finding your way about, chatting to others & getting your personality across to make links. I agree with Miss Mav you'll be popular  |
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You sound like a nice guy and from the ladies replys nice to look at---so my opinion is keep the money you would waste and have a great night out in Cardiff lol same result better atmosphere and certainly a better choice--it's ok to go as a couple but other than that pretty same old same old--goodluck to ya bud  |
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.
Some of the people who attend aren't members of Fab so it's almost impossible to predict numbers. Sometimes a quiet night is good for finding your way about, chatting to others & getting your personality across to make links. I agree with Miss Mav you'll be popular "
I've had the pleasure of his company so I know that he will do well
Thankfully he will see the irony here |
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.
Some of the people who attend aren't members of Fab so it's almost impossible to predict numbers. Sometimes a quiet night is good for finding your way about, chatting to others & getting your personality across to make links. I agree with Miss Mav you'll be popular I've had the pleasure of his company so I know that he will do well
Thankfully he will see the irony here "
Intelligence & a sense of humour as well as looks eh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.
Some of the people who attend aren't members of Fab so it's almost impossible to predict numbers. Sometimes a quiet night is good for finding your way about, chatting to others & getting your personality across to make links. I agree with Miss Mav you'll be popular I've had the pleasure of his company so I know that he will do well
Thankfully he will see the irony here "
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"Is it worth it?
Never been. Bit nervous re discretion etc but enormously curious it can be brilliant. But at times seems to be the love nest for people to gossip and spread rumours.
You will be popular there
Keep an eye out on the forums for nights when there's lots of interest, but equally keep in mind that a lot of users don't use the forums and/or don't post they are going.
Pay day weekend is always busy.
Some of the people who attend aren't members of Fab so it's almost impossible to predict numbers. Sometimes a quiet night is good for finding your way about, chatting to others & getting your personality across to make links. I agree with Miss Mav you'll be popular I've had the pleasure of his company so I know that he will do well
Thankfully he will see the irony here
Lost on me "
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"What is it like for a single male? Much action? X "
There is no such thing as a sure thing
Plenty of action going on, but whether you'll be getting any depends on you
Be respectful, talk to people and take it easy |
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If you go with the mind set of just seeking action you're setting yourself up to fail, there may be no action on the night, but if you present yourself well, you're friendly, chatty & approachable you might get some of that action further down the line X |
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I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
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There's nothing to be nervous about it's a very social thing.
You can be a guest the first night to try it out and not pay as much.
Go with the intention of just social then you won't be disappointed
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
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The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes |
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
There's nothing to be nervous about it's a very social thing.
You can be a guest the first night to try it out and not pay as much.
Go with the intention of just social then you won't be disappointed
Mrs"
I'm not normaly nervous, It's mainly as it's all new to me.
I didn't realise you could do that it's good to know I may do it at first to see how it goes thanks |
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes "
I understand it may be an idea to do that, I've been told socials are my first step.
Lol true people look different naked thanks mate |
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes
I understand it may be an idea to do that, I've been told socials are my first step.
Lol true people look different naked thanks mate "
Sorry to put a downer on things but you will need veris to go to the bigger evening socials, however there are quite a few daytime ones around . |
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes
I understand it may be an idea to do that, I've been told socials are my first step.
Lol true people look different naked thanks mate "
The single social is a good place to start you get to go in as a group so you're not totally alone, plus it'll be with people you've chatted with in the pub first X |
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes
I understand it may be an idea to do that, I've been told socials are my first step.
Lol true people look different naked thanks mate
Sorry to put a downer on things but you will need veris to go to the bigger evening socials, however there are quite a few daytime ones around ."
I guessed so, I will have a lot more free time come September so I'm hoping to get more verifies. Thank you
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"I'm the same, I'm new to all this. I really fancy going but I am nervous and not sure what to do. Am I better going to socials first or doesn't it matter?
The advantage of going to a social first is that you might get to meet people in a more informal setting, and build up a "social network"
Mind you, you might not recognise them in a club, without their clothes
I understand it may be an idea to do that, I've been told socials are my first step.
Lol true people look different naked thanks mate
The single social is a good place to start you get to go in as a group so you're not totally alone, plus it'll be with people you've chatted with in the pub first X"
Oh right that's one I will look to maybe try and do first to help get some verifies, plus obviously meeting people would be beneficial. Thank you |
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"If you go with the mind set of just seeking action you're setting yourself up to fail, there may be no action on the night, but if you present yourself well, you're friendly, chatty & approachable you might get some of that action further down the line X"
This... you pay to attend the club never ever expect to play its not a right like some people think. Socialise don't follow people around and be respectful you then may get a invite. |
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