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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just us or do other couples get fed up of messaging other couples they just read the message and never reply whats wrong with a polite no thanks also when you state on your profile NO single men and you check your winks a messages and their is about 50 responses from single men aaaaaggggghhhhhh |
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"No reply is a clear sign of no interest
Noone is obliged to reply to anyone they don't want to and it isn't rude
Says so in the site faqs
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don't take fab personally plus we can't be everyone's cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're very rude then, if you don't interest us or your profile indicates you're not what we're looking for we'll ignore the message & block you, that prevents any confusion either way. For some reason people cite this as being bad mannered/rude, I find the sense of entitlement some people feel to be bad mannered/rude X |
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"We're very rude then, if you don't interest us or your profile indicates you're not what we're looking for we'll ignore the message & block you, that prevents any confusion either way. For some reason people cite this as being bad mannered/rude, I find the sense of entitlement some people feel to be bad mannered/rude X"
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"My favourite at the little short fat ones Fifty Plus that seems to be full of them self the most"
Aww someone's had a few knock backs... really no need to be a Kent now is it. Maybe it's your attitude that's preventing you from being successful here, maybe step back and have a word with yourself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will admit if I can see it hasn't even been read then I'll maybe send it again later on. If it's been read & not replied though that's as clear a no as it gets
Not ideal but it's a fact of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will admit if I can see it hasn't even been read then I'll maybe send it again later on. If it's been read & not replied though that's as clear a no as it gets
Not ideal but it's a fact of life "
Someone who msgs again when not even read first mail would come across as needy, impatient and stalkerish...... not qualities I find attractive in a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it's actually if ur what they're actually looking for. I've come across plenty of profiles which I've read all of their text and realised I'm not what they want or need so don't bother messaging at all. Saves time and effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it rude and laziness are most women are just too full of themselves to even reply"
Yeah but as i found out, when you ask someone to read your profile because it is all there and gets a message with fing and blinding in it, it puts you off  . I even replied to you too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it rude and laziness are most women are just too full of themselves to even reply
I'd like to see you try and reply to scores of msgs a day  "
Sadly this is the reality for single women on here I think!
I'm
Not full of myself, I just delete if they don't interest me I don't have time |
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"Sometimes it's actually if ur what they're actually looking for. I've come across plenty of profiles which I've read all of their text and realised I'm not what they want or need so don't bother messaging at all. Saves time and effort. "
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