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Am I doing something wrong ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been on here a while now and whilst I fully admit I'm quite fussy and I'm definitely not a hunk I can't seem to attract many women ,
So can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong , I'm always polite when I message , never send messages like 'wanna fuck' etc but I extremely rarely even get as much as a no thanks , they just delete
Any help here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having just had a peek at your profile, I hope that you don't mind me offering some advice.
First of all lose the photo with your tongue out. It may be fun, but not attractive in the slightest.
From what I can see you have a fairly decent body, so ahow it off - a couple of pics in boxers or pants maybe good to show it off!
Finally your profile needs more information on what you want/like.... humour is good, but not everyone will 'get' it and sometimes it's a bit odd or strange!
Above all, this is your opportunity to sell yourself - remember that. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having just had a peek at your profile, I hope that you don't mind me offering some advice.
First of all lose the photo with your tongue out. It may be fun, but not attractive in the slightest.
From what I can see you have a fairly decent body, so ahow it off - a couple of pics in boxers or pants maybe good to show it off!
Finally your profile needs more information on what you want/like.... humour is good, but not everyone will 'get' it and sometimes it's a bit odd or strange!
Above all, this is your opportunity to sell yourself - remember that. Good luck "
Thanks for the critique, very helpful  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text
It's offputting
Good luck"
Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.
Thanks for the constructive criticism though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text
It's offputting
Good luck
Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.
Thanks for the constructive criticism though "
I am not crticising your humour
I can see what you're trying to do but I don't think it is coming across in the way you want it to if you get me
Humour is very dificult to portray in written words
In person your humour is probably awesome but it doesn't come across well on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)
Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade 
Mrs"
Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)
Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade
Mrs
Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x"
Mrs F is a lushy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)
Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade
Mrs
Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x
Mrs F is a lushy xx"
Yes can see ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text
It's offputting
Good luck
Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.
Thanks for the constructive criticism though
I am not crticising your humour
I can see what you're trying to do but I don't think it is coming across in the way you want it to if you get me
Humour is very dificult to portray in written words
In person your humour is probably awesome but it doesn't come across well on your profile"
I didn't think you was criticising me , I was genuine when I said thank you for the input |
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"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)
Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade
Mrs
Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x
Mrs F is a lushy xx"
Cheers p
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've been on here a while now and whilst I fully admit I'm quite fussy and I'm definitely not a hunk I can't seem to attract many women ,
So can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong , I'm always polite when I message , never send messages like 'wanna fuck' etc but I extremely rarely even get as much as a no thanks , they just delete
Any help here ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN"
He was polite in all his responses?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN
He was polite in all his responses?? "
At no point did I indicate he was rude, just his dismissive attitude after seeking advice is enough to make a person yawn. I was merely thinking why bother asking. Why the fuck am I explaining yet again & you're not even the op  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN
He was polite in all his responses??
At no point did I indicate he was rude, just his dismissive attitude after seeking advice is enough to make a person yawn. I was merely thinking why bother asking. Why the fuck am I explaining yet again & you're not even the op "
I wasn't trying to sound dismissive , I took your advice and the advice of others , and whilst I took up some people's advice I didn't want to change certain things as I think they're apart of who I am |
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