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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chill will be the first best bet.
You've been on a week and you're in a pool of a ludicrous amount of men vs women.
Public pics (tasteful).
Catchy profile text.
And getting yourself known via socials will set you off in good steed.
Being a moaning man won't get you anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not moaning at all but had a few different profiles over the past 18 months and had great meets as part of a couple but since being single guy all I've attracted is fakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chill will be the first best bet.
You've been on a week and you're in a pool of a ludicrous amount of men vs women.
Public pics (tasteful).
Catchy profile text.
And getting yourself known via socials will set you off in good steed.
Being a moaning man won't get you anywhere. "
Completely agree with this, remember as much as we'd all like to be having fun all the time, there's life away from the internet. Patience is a very rewarding virtue often. Good luck and hope you have fun soon |
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"Honestly please stop with these posts you ask this question every other week. Then delete your profile, start a new one and ask the same a couple of weeks later "
You need to grow your profile. Basically until you go to a social or a club you have more chance of winning the lottery than getting a meet. You have to work at it by advertising yourself in socials and in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming & going, posting random needy threads, approaching people with shit messages any or all of those will put people off you & unfortunately people here have long memories & you've done all those things & more. Maybe chill & take your time & be realistic might help because at the moment people think you're a bit of a joke, you post for socials & Chams & before the event you're gone X |
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Change your bio too, its very negative.
Think of it as your shop window, you have to sell yourself, inject a bit of humour, by all means mention that you have been here before but don't come across as negative and whiney "timewasters... not much luck" etc. |
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