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By *stwo300Couple
over a year ago
Newport |
" Do any couples meet separately? It's something we have considered because it's difficult to get time together to play. Any one else do this ?"
We don't, as it's a shared experience for us. Although I understand shifts, kids & life, like many things it's either a shared interest or a selfish interest & right now we are prepared to wait & share the experience. That said & done our "model" isn't the only way of doing it. We find conversation & communication to be key to happiness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Do any couples meet separately? It's something we have considered because it's difficult to get time together to play. Any one else do this ?"
We do this for exactly the same reason you do. You should go for it. If your ready too. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have played alone & Ch3wy still does if I arrange something for him or he gets a tempting offer. I very rarely meet alone nowadays & only with 2 other guys occasionally, I find that nowadays I prefer 1:1 meets with women I get the best quality cock fun already 
You do need to try things for yourselves though & until you do you'll never know. When I was here with my ex husband we played separately & it always seemed to cause problems, he could meet everyday but I had to jump lots of hoops to meet alone, wasn't worth the bother sometimes X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Do any couples meet separately? It's something we have considered because it's difficult to get time together to play. Any one else do this ?"
We have done and it caused many issues. Women can meet a lot easier than men. For me swinging is about enjoying the experience as a couple.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have had a meet where I ,the husband turned up late to find the Mrs already in action and then joined in the fun which was great. Also have permission to meet a lady on my own should I want to. But these people we have met many times. It is difficult to arrange meets we can do together, so separately might be the way forward? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet separate as long as the other is happy with who they are meeting.
Everything is discussed and nothing happens unless both of us agree."
This is us nowadays, we both work such long hours & they rarely seem to work out right that we tend to meet alone more often than we used to. Our preference is still meeting together but because our time is so limited we tend to prioritise our 1:1 X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've arranged a meet for just the good lady. She met someone we both liked and trusted having met him twice before. My anxiety was at its maximum when we realised she was out of mobile signal but it all went well in the end. Obviously prefer to play together but this may be an option again in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about what you both feel comfy with, there's no set formula & what's comfy today might not be tomorrow. So long as it's fun for both of you, you're doing it right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've started meeting separately with people we have met together or have been speaking to for a while and feel comfortable with. Its difficult for us to meet as a couple due to family life so this is a lot easier lol |
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I think from a single guy/lady point of view it's a good thing that couples are trusting each other to swing alone .... me if I in a couple profile swinging i would be very nervous about my girlfriend swinging alone, but it's all about trust, and knowing that they are safe at all times  |
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By *taffswenchCouple
over a year ago
South Wales/South West England |
Although inexperienced. Our dynamic will be along those lines. Wench likes stories. Preferably pics and a video of me doing my thing.
But I wouldn't feel the same about her unless I was present. |
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We got in to swinging for both of us... together.
We love to see each other enjoying our fun, and we love playing together.
If we cant meet as a couple for whatever reason, then we don't meet.
We plan ahead, and make sure we can both be there.  |
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We started with the attitude that it would be a together thing.
But things have evolved. We've played alone at parties and Mrs play alone occasionally but only at clubs in safe environment.
We have no hang ups about it as it works both ways
Trust and jealousy have big part to play if you don't want it to mess your relationship up though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've had one meet with a long term friend where I was delayed and turned up late. That was the trigger to evaluate the scenario to meet separately. As plenty of the above have said, it's a joint experience and it still is for us. But at some point we decided a solo meet wad the way forward and the Mrs moved on this. The homecoming was immense and intense. Not going down that route every day but has worked ok as a first step. Still happily married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only play together we have both been to chams seperate but neither of us played we go in this together it’s something we enjoy doing together, no interested in meeting without my man and him vice versa, each to there own though xx |
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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago
CARDIFF |
"We got in to swinging for both of us... together.
We love to see each other enjoying our fun, and we love playing together.
If we cant meet as a couple for whatever reason, then we don't meet.
We plan ahead, and make sure we can both be there. "
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By *issvvCouple
over a year ago
pontyclun |
I know it's an old post but we've only met separately so far, recently we've started thinking about either another female joining us or finding the right couple but after talking to a few people at socials we're considered quite odd for doing it this way haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's an old post but we've only met separately so far, recently we've started thinking about either another female joining us or finding the right couple but after talking to a few people at socials we're considered quite odd for doing it this way haha. "
It’s each to there own to be honest, we don’t meet alone never have have, for us it’s all about watching each other, so I wouldn’t want to be away from L but it’s each persons preference, no right or wrong way of doing things xx prinny xx |
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We been doing this many yrs now and play as a cpl that is more fun for us, we have freinds that rushed into every thing and even going solo all was fine as both agreed but then she started meeting in the day with out him knowing, hence they got close and our freinds broke up, and the guy she lefy him for left her, all this gor a bit of fun is it worth it, i think not ,so although hsrd try to enjoy together x |
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We do. We play together or seperate. Tbh tho finding meets that believe this is a real thing we want to do and not just lee playing away is quite interesting. .
I (sarah) love the anxious/horny/knot in my tummy feeling knowing hes having fun and im home frustrated...thats until he gets back and tells me all about it while i have my way
Know the feelings mutal the opposite way around for lee too.
Works for us.
We prefer exeriences together...but this is fun too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have varied the way we play since we have been on the scene.
We have just come back from a break and are looking at trying something new.
For us there isn't a right or wrong way, variety is the spice of life as they say. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have varied the way we play since we have been on the scene.
We have just come back from a break and are looking at trying something new.
For us there isn't a right or wrong way, variety is the spice of life as they say. x"
Just to add.
OP we hope you both enjoyed the experience. X |
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"We have varied the way we play since we have been on the scene.
We have just come back from a break and are looking at trying something new.
For us there isn't a right or wrong way, variety is the spice of life as they say. x"
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By *issvvCouple
over a year ago
pontyclun |
Thanks for the input. We have quite a few couples messaging us but we want the right one for both of us to start off (slightly fussy buggers  ) with so we always ask about a social first. Unfortunately a lot of people aren't happy with that but with me working shifts it's awkward to find the right time too. Never know though, off to the Newport social again this month so see what happens! |
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"Thanks for the input. We have quite a few couples messaging us but we want the right one for both of us to start off (slightly fussy buggers ) with so we always ask about a social first. Unfortunately a lot of people aren't happy with that but with me working shifts it's awkward to find the right time too. Never know though, off to the Newport social again this month so see what happens!"
Nothing wrong in being fussy, we r very fussy, the newport social is good gor meeting like wise ppl, and if ppl dont wont to meet for a social, thats there loss lol, have fun xx |
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By *issvvCouple
over a year ago
pontyclun |
"Nothing wrong in being fussy, we r very fussy, the newport social is good gor meeting like wise ppl, and if ppl dont wont to meet for a social, thats there loss lol, have fun xx"
We've been to the Newport one a few times it's always a great laugh and get talking to more people each time. Yeah we're not worried if people throw a hissy fit about it, just here to have fun! |
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