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By *ay rick OP Man
over a year ago
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As a single male who understands the ratio of men to women here just wondering which preferred?--I have a dislike when send nothing but nice message then not even a no thanks as that's no drama to me at all--I know the answers maybe can't reply to all soooo isn't it easier to wink then ladies can look through a profile see if if interest at all?--curious to know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always use the wink button as a way of gauging interest & as a single female I was more likely to say thanks for the wink than I was to reply to a message X |
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By *ay rick OP Man
over a year ago
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That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x"
I totally agree, I've always seen it as a nice n polite non pushy way, if the wink isn't reciprocated you know there's no interest & you haven't bogged down their inbox. We're well aware that some people hate winks but you can't please everyone X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always use the wink button as a way of gauging interest & as a single female I was more likely to say thanks for the wink than I was to reply to a message X"
Same here hun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's easier to receive a wink as a single male because you generally don't get much traffic ....
But women and couples probably get so many they look at them less than messages  "
I look at them as much as messages tbh
Because I think it's less hassle than answering a message
As some guys can't take no thank you
So if you don't wink bk id take that as a no go?? |
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"It's easier to receive a wink as a single male because you generally don't get much traffic ....
But women and couples probably get so many they look at them less than messages
I look at them as much as messages tbh
Because I think it's less hassle than answering a message
As some guys can't take no thank you
So if you don't wink bk id take that as a no go??"
A wink is as good as a nod, but a message is better
A wink with no message is just a bit lazy
As many have said about messages, a bit of effort and imagination goes a long way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree wink should be sent and if you get one back then send newsage if you message first they prolly never read as cpl and f get inondated with them. |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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"That's good to know from exp couple---recently with all the moaning of us single guys AND the ladies n couples here that say get hundreds of messages I just think that a wink would atleast let them take a read maybe wink back if a hint of an interest x
I totally agree, I've always seen it as a nice n polite non pushy way, if the wink isn't reciprocated you know there's no interest & you haven't bogged down their inbox. We're well aware that some people hate winks but you can't please everyone X"
I look at winks and if interested wink back. As you've all said it's kind of a less intrusive way to show interest. I also wink on occasion to show interest too  |
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I have sent messages and no response. .. just say no thanks don't hurt, just manners .. ok just say fook off then lol at least you know where you stand .... so I'm gonna save my messages and wink instead .. thanks guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have sent messages and no response. .. just say no thanks don't hurt, just manners .. ok just say fook off then lol at least you know where you stand .... so I'm gonna save my messages and wink instead .. thanks guys "
I think a no response is the answer, the rules are clear about that. We have no expectation of a response to the messages we send but it's nice to get the yes we're interested, when? One's  |
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By *ay rick OP Man
over a year ago
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I've been trying the wink for the past week and FairPlay most seem to be polite enough to respond either way---before I always messaged and always nicely and respectfully--takes time and really frustrating when not even a no thamx!!!---before the wagon gets full with a delete meens no interest then surely a wink would be easier on both parties and shows respect both ways |
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never ever have done. 
So definitely a message x 