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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As of the past few years I have found that I have no interest in anything. That includes cars. Sport. Sex . Anything. I just seem to work eat sleep repeat. Can anyone help. I've been working 7 days a week now for almost 2 years. That does include Xmas day Aswell. I just can't be asked to have an interest. |
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"As of the past few years I have found that I have no interest in anything. That includes cars. Sport. Sex . Anything. I just seem to work eat sleep repeat. Can anyone help. I've been working 7 days a week now for almost 2 years. That does include Xmas day Aswell. I just can't be asked to have an interest. "
loosing interest in everything is not uncommon and if your working everyday it's no wonder your feeling disinterested with everything. My advise to you is to make an appointment with your doctor and discuss it with it him.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I need help full advice. Doctors are no help. They just dish out pills. And say take time off work. If I gave a weekend off I'm climbing the walls. So I go into work anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't help people that can't help themselves.
Whine whine whine. Throw some money about maybe the masses will flick at you feet and give you a putty fuck!
Hit the green arrow people "
See you had good sleep gorgeous Lmao x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I couldn't get a pitty fuck if I got run over buy an ambulance. Been down docks in cardiff and newport and got turned away. No matter how much money I've got. |
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Oh boo hoo.
Without sounding like a total heartless bitch but moaning on here don't get you anywhere but further down people's lists or even block lists.
People offered their advice and you didn't like it so hey ho 
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You put a similar Thread up last time you were on, if you truly wanted your situation to change you would go & see the gp, take some of the advice & try to change things, the fact you're not makes us all care less because you don't & this seems more of a pity thread then. It's a shame because I.know of people here who are genuinely struggling & doing all they can to change things X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You put a similar Thread up last time you were on, if you truly wanted your situation to change you would go & see the gp, take some of the advice & try to change things, the fact you're not makes us all care less because you don't & this seems more of a pity thread then. It's a shame because I.know of people here who are genuinely struggling & doing all they can to change things X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He got what he wanted...people to reply...how sad  "
He may come across as attention seeking in these threads but he's entitled to a supportive response like any other, it becomes a little negative when he clearly isn't accepting of advice that doesn't involve sexual activity. If we hadn't responded some person would have been quick to point out that we hadn't & start moaning about the inequity involved. Can't win in the forum to be fair, at least it's conversational X |
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By *rBeardMan
over a year ago
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"I couldn't get a pitty fuck if I got run over buy an ambulance. Been down docks in cardiff and newport and got turned away. No matter how much money I've got. "
How did you manage to get the time off work?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take time off work
Go to a social event and start getting to talk to likeminded people face to face
That would help I'm sure to
Mingle with folk outside work
And get off the defensive wagon
By doing what's obviously making you unhappy
It's time to change things
And your never gonna be interested in anything if all you do is work
Fgs get a life
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"He got what he wanted...people to reply...how sad
He may come across as attention seeking in these threads but he's entitled to a supportive response like any other, it becomes a little negative when he clearly isn't accepting of advice that doesn't involve sexual activity. If we hadn't responded some person would have been quick to point out that we hadn't & start moaning about the inequity involved. Can't win in the forum to be fair, at least it's conversational X"
I agree but I think he started the thread for attention otherwise he would have accepted and engaged in the positivity that he's been handed, instead it seams that all he has done is blocked people he didn't like the response from. I do agree with you though |
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"I couldn't get a pitty fuck if I got run over buy an ambulance. Been down docks in cardiff and newport and got turned away. No matter how much money I've got. "
Are you trying to tell me you tried to hire the services of a "working girl" and they turned you down?
What a crock of shit lol!
I'm afraid I was feeling sorry for you up until this point, now I realise you are just an attention-seeking whiner.
Get a grip, give your head a wobble and sort yourself out, take time off and force yourself to step outside your comfort zone, do an evening class, join a gym, or take a new hobby... something that forces you to interact with others, maybe some of their "joie de vivre" will rub off on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't get a pitty fuck if I got run over buy an ambulance. Been down docks in cardiff and newport and got turned away. No matter how much money I've got.
How did you manage to get the time off work?? "
Buckled 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So attention seeking lack of intrest and negative engagement on a post you created all sound like a classical case of depression....if your single and live on your own then you need to get out more not to work but into social circles and not just look at your fab friends for advice..you don't want the docs I get that I didn't want them either and your answer isn't in alcohol or drugs....I got out there did city breaks weekends away etc I was on my own but did things I wanted to do started a new hobby when I started helping myself so help started appearing from other places......mates who I hadn't heard of or seen for a while started getting in touch again...if you are in a rut the only way out of it is yourself your next stop otherwise is mental illness and then not even work will be your friend d |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So attention seeking lack of intrest and negative engagement on a post you created all sound like a classical case of depression....if your single and live on your own then you need to get out more not to work but into social circles and not just look at your fab friends for advice..you don't want the docs I get that I didn't want them either and your answer isn't in alcohol or drugs....I got out there did city breaks weekends away etc I was on my own but did things I wanted to do started a new hobby when I started helping myself so help started appearing from other places......mates who I hadn't heard of or seen for a while started getting in touch again...if you are in a rut the only way out of it is yourself your next stop otherwise is mental illness and then not even work will be your friend d"
Thing is people offered him genuine, helpful advice and he basically told them to fuck off.
I have every sympathy with anyone suffering with depression/anxiety as I have been there myself but why ask for advice then respond like a cunt?, Don't get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need help full advice. Doctors are no help. They just dish out pills. And say take time off work. If I gave a weekend off I'm climbing the walls. So I go into work anyway. "
Ok....go to the gym
Seriously
It's turned my life around
After going through months of hell thanks to some cunt I met off here it is the one thing (along with my kids) that keeps me from hurling myself off the nearest bridge
Even if it's for the odd hour a few times a week
Believe me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So attention seeking lack of intrest and negative engagement on a post you created all sound like a classical case of depression....if your single and live on your own then you need to get out more not to work but into social circles and not just look at your fab friends for advice..you don't want the docs I get that I didn't want them either and your answer isn't in alcohol or drugs....I got out there did city breaks weekends away etc I was on my own but did things I wanted to do started a new hobby when I started helping myself so help started appearing from other places......mates who I hadn't heard of or seen for a while started getting in touch again...if you are in a rut the only way out of it is yourself your next stop otherwise is mental illness and then not even work will be your friend d"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn't get a pitty fuck if I got run over buy an ambulance. Been down docks in cardiff and newport and got turned away. No matter how much money I've got.
Are you trying to tell me you tried to hire the services of a "working girl" and they turned you down?
What a crock of shit lol!
I'm afraid I was feeling sorry for you up until this point, now I realise you are just an attention-seeking whiner.
Get a grip, give your head a wobble and sort yourself out, take time off and force yourself to step outside your comfort zone, do an evening class, join a gym, or take a new hobby... something that forces you to interact with others, maybe some of their "joie de vivre" will rub off on you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need help full advice. Doctors are no help. They just dish out pills. And say take time off work. If I gave a weekend off I'm climbing the walls. So I go into work anyway.
Ok....go to the gym
Seriously
It's turned my life around
After going through months of hell thanks to some cunt I met off here it is the one thing (along with my kids) that keeps me from hurling myself off the nearest bridge
Even if it's for the odd hour a few times a week
Believe me "
Good to see you've overcome whatever has happened to you and come back stronger for the experience |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fuck the gym. I'm fit. I have no interest in sport. And the gym seems like sport to me. I don't like crowds or places with a lot of people in them. So that's off the menu. If I see loads on a shop or pub I don't even go in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like swinging probably isn't the best for you then if your not good around people  "
He's got a dogging meet up
Think it's best we don't feed the troll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you doing ask the work to avoid something else? Face things, work for a reason not as an excuse. Hobbies don't have to cost, they just have to interest . You're not actually disinterested in sex or you wouldn't be on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an interested is sex slightly . It just the fact that I don't get any. That not interesting me. And as for dogging. That's impossible. "
Best thing is delete your profile and come back when YOU WANT to swing. Until then leave |
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"I'm an interested is sex slightly . It just the fact that I don't get any. That not interesting me. And as for dogging. That's impossible. "
With how depressing you sound, I'm not surprised you're not getting any. Sex is supposed to be fun, you really can laugh ya way into bed ya know! |
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"I need to know the reason why I am not interested in anything. "
From what you say I'd hazard a guess that it's stress doing it to you. It can do weird things which you don't even notice, such as making you bad tempered and aggressive towards people. Ultimately, it can cause a nervous breakdown or even kill you.
Pills are not a good idea. Whether or not it's what you want to hear, you really do have to slow down and take some time to de-stress. |
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By *nice44Man
over a year ago
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"As of the past few years I have found that I have no interest in anything. That includes cars. Sport. Sex . Anything. I just seem to work eat sleep repeat. Can anyone help. I've been working 7 days a week now for almost 2 years. That does include Xmas day Aswell. I just can't be asked to have an interest. "
Get 1 to 1 councilling it has worked for me i was like you a workaholic
There is more to life than work your here for a short time find out what you really want out of life and go for it
When you die theyll say "he was a good worker"
Not "he was a great bloke who enjoyed life to the full!!"
So what do you want to be remembered for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an interested is sex slightly . It just the fact that I don't get any. That not interesting me. And as for dogging. That's impossible.
With how depressing you sound, I'm not surprised you're not getting any. Sex is supposed to be fun, you really can laugh ya way into bed ya know! "
I agree with shorty. I've always found that you can laugh a woman into bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to take some time off and just chill out , if you're really working 7 days a week , 365 that's really bad , either book time off or find a different job where to can be more flexible with your hours , I wouldn't even plan on doing anything for the first few days of your time off either just sit and relax , don't bother making plans , try to do some things on the spur on the moment , add some spontaneity to your life
Just my advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to take some time off and just chill out , if you're really working 7 days a week , 365 that's really bad , either book time off or find a different job where to can be more flexible with your hours , I wouldn't even plan on doing anything for the first few days of your time off either just sit and relax , don't bother making plans , try to do some things on the spur on the moment , add some spontaneity to your life
Just my advice "
He's had all sorts of sensible advice, sometimes we just have to accept that some people don't want help or can't be helped. He's like clockwork mind, the sun shines & he posts again so he's got some interest in this thread X |
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"You need to take some time off and just chill out , if you're really working 7 days a week , 365 that's really bad , either book time off or find a different job where to can be more flexible with your hours , I wouldn't even plan on doing anything for the first few days of your time off either just sit and relax , don't bother making plans , try to do some things on the spur on the moment , add some spontaneity to your life
Just my advice
He's had all sorts of sensible advice, sometimes we just have to accept that some people don't want help or can't be helped. He's like clockwork mind, the sun shines & he posts again so he's got some interest in this thread X"
I can't quite belief we are still posting. Hers one .....smile
...get a life...it's for living...not moaning... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to take some time off and just chill out , if you're really working 7 days a week , 365 that's really bad , either book time off or find a different job where to can be more flexible with your hours , I wouldn't even plan on doing anything for the first few days of your time off either just sit and relax , don't bother making plans , try to do some things on the spur on the moment , add some spontaneity to your life
Just my advice
He's had all sorts of sensible advice, sometimes we just have to accept that some people don't want help or can't be helped. He's like clockwork mind, the sun shines & he posts again so he's got some interest in this thread X
I can't quite belief we are still posting. Hers one .....smile
...get a life...it's for living...not moaning... "
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