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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An attitude! Met a couple once who called over every couple they ever met! Almost made us give up swinging! What a turn off! "
what do you mean by "called over"?
Some people are just gossipers and can't help but talk about other people. Drives me insane!  |
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"An attitude! Met a couple once who called over every couple they ever met! Almost made us give up swinging! What a turn off! what do you mean by "called over"?
Some people are just gossipers and can't help but talk about other people. Drives me insane! "
sorry, made fun of I suppose would be the best way to put it. But it was four years ago and they have left the site. A learning curve to say the least! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An attitude! Met a couple once who called over every couple they ever met! Almost made us give up swinging! What a turn off! what do you mean by "called over"?
Some people are just gossipers and can't help but talk about other people. Drives me insane! sorry, made fun of I suppose would be the best way to put it. But it was four years ago and they have left the site. A learning curve to say the least! "
ahh yes I've met a few like that. Can't stand it! I've no idea why some people feel the need to talk about others. Discretion is completely lost with some.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Black or missing teeth  hahaha have you met many? I'm also a bit of a stickler for nice teeth  "
met this women ages ago, she looked nice but when smiled it was a whole new image  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, Peachy it would be:
Bad teeth
Shyness
They play golf, that's a real game stopper for me
Bragging about all their previous action
Shorter than they say |
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Bad breath, sticking her tongue down my throat, talking even more bollocks than me but when things should be getting more steamy (I'm not THAT bad), teethy blow jobs, getting all lovey duvvy when we clearly discussed it wouldn't be that way...the list goes on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bushy unkempt pubes.... I ain't going near that!!!
Horrible teeth...
People who say they don't smoke, who clearly do when you get close and can smell it...
Oh and liars.... "
blurgh! Pube forests are the worst! Sweaty bushy bits  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had a few guys that just don't talk and it's really awkward!
Must say Iv been pretty lucky with our meets so far though! Xx"
that's one of my bug bears! Especially at Chams, when they don't talk, but follow me around expecting and wanting to play!  |
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"Had a few guys that just don't talk and it's really awkward!
Must say Iv been pretty lucky with our meets so far though! Xx that's one of my bug bears! Especially at Chams, when they don't talk, but follow me around expecting and wanting to play! "
Ye exactly I hate long silences!! Awkward lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men with too big of an ego - instant put off
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Or the ones who only talk about themselves/talk over you That too, think they're God's gift haha"
lol self indulgent idiots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Liars has to be for me can't stand liars!!! Or people who say one thing and do another! "
Definitely people who say one thing and do another, this absolutely frustrates the hell out of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men with too big of an ego - instant put off
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Or the ones who only talk about themselves/talk over you That too, think they're God's gift haha lol self indulgent idiots "
plenty here in Swansea lol minus my self of course! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men with too big of an ego - instant put off
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Or the ones who only talk about themselves/talk over you That too, think they're God's gift haha lol self indulgent idiots plenty here in Swansea lol minus my self of course! "
haha there's plenty all over to be fair I think out of the last few guys I've met, I can tell you about 10 facts about each of them, they could probably tell you one about me- if that! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you meet someone, whats something that puts you off straight away?
One of mine is them being a fuss arse and more feminine than me!  "
Vain,arrogant,attention seekers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bushy unkempt pubes.... I ain't going near that!!!
Horrible teeth...
People who say they don't smoke, who clearly do when you get close and can smell it...
Oh and liars.... "
This also yuk x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol"
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol "
possibly because they know he's joking? |
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking? "
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick |
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For me the by far the worse thing is when you meet a couple and it becomes blatantly obvious that poor old wifey is there 'because hubby wants to see her with another bloke' I met a couple once for a social, he was very chatty she was almost mute. When I tried to involve her in the conversation by saying 'how did you guys get into the lifestyle' to which (no exaggeration here) she snarled 'HIM' lol so we said our goodbyes and within seconds (she was driving) he was texting saying how turned on she was lol. Frankly left me feeling very uneasy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking?
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick "
So we have an clique here that newbie's are not welcome to express their views lol thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking?
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick
So we have an clique here that newbie's are not welcome to express their views lol thanks "
you've been around for ages haven't you?
I'm sure I've seen your name pop up numerous times...
no clique, I think they all took his comments in jest (as it was meant), however you took offence, which is why he replied to you and not the rest... I don't see the problem? What's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking?
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick
So we have an clique here that newbie's are not welcome to express their views lol thanks you've been around for ages haven't you?
I'm sure I've seen your name pop up numerous times...
no clique, I think they all took his comments in jest (as it was meant), however you took offence, which is why he replied to you and not the rest... I don't see the problem? What's the problem? "
Problem is other people said things about his original comment however i seem to be the only one jumped on is that because I'm not in the clique? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking?
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick
So we have an clique here that newbie's are not welcome to express their views lol thanks you've been around for ages haven't you?
I'm sure I've seen your name pop up numerous times...
no clique, I think they all took his comments in jest (as it was meant), however you took offence, which is why he replied to you and not the rest... I don't see the problem? What's the problem?
Problem is other people said things about his original comment however i seem to be the only one jumped on is that because I'm not in the clique? "
no it's because those people know he has bright ginger hair and is taking the piss. Only you have taken offence, which is why he apologised to you...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right then ladies, this is how I see it from my point of view. He made a joke others who know him/what he's like from clubs/the socials took the joke as it was intended(banter). Maybe he thought you were truly offended and that's why he replied directly to you sweetchick. It's not about being new to forums or a clique. No need for arguments or anything lol. I understand both sides of the story by the way haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gingers they're all a bunch of Kent's??????
Shocking
It's a joke i'm ginger as feck lol
Noticed you didn't quote and reply to anyone else's comments about your first message lol possibly because they know he's joking?
Cheer's maverick... most the peeps in the forum's i have met at one point, so they know i'm taking the piss sorry if my comment offended you sweetchick
So we have an clique here that newbie's are not welcome to express their views lol thanks you've been around for ages haven't you?
I'm sure I've seen your name pop up numerous times...
no clique, I think they all took his comments in jest (as it was meant), however you took offence, which is why he replied to you and not the rest... I don't see the problem? What's the problem?
Problem is other people said things about his original comment however i seem to be the only one jumped on is that because I'm not in the clique? no it's because those people know he has bright ginger hair and is taking the piss. Only you have taken offence, which is why he apologised to you......"
Then why the need for you to jump in? .... I said i was shocked and I'm entitled to my opinion considering i was unaware he's ginger.... Hence why i commented about the clique because I'm sure he's able to message me himself he doesn't need his hand held lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is getting silly let it all go now people, my comment was meant as a piss take of myself sorry to all it offended "
There was no need for others to get involved..... I'm purely sticking up for myself as i don't deserve to be jumped on for saying my opinion..... Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well so far I've ticked all the boxes for complete turn offs at some time or another
So why have I got so many friends here ?
Maybe when you actually do get to be around what you think you don't like, you find there are also good things that balance out the turn off's.
So don't make quick assumptions based on preferences and give people a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mega pissed people in swingers clubs.... they not only are a nuisance but they leave themselves and their people they play with very vulnerable.
PLEASE NOTE I SAID MEGA PISSED.... "
This.^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I certainly wouldn't kiss anyone with teeth like a bag of spanners would you ? 
Ummm.... That would be a huge no... Or missing some... nooooooo haha maybe everyone should be made to add a teeth pic to their profile lol"
We should start a fab petition . I always get jittery when someone sends me a serious face pic... I wonder what's lurking behind those lips.. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I certainly wouldn't kiss anyone with teeth like a bag of spanners would you ?
Ummm.... That would be a huge no... Or missing some... nooooooo haha maybe everyone should be made to add a teeth pic to their profile lol
We should start a fab petition . I always get jittery when someone sends me a serious face pic... I wonder what's lurking behind those lips.. . i totally agree lmfao "
You a pass the teeth test |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I certainly wouldn't kiss anyone with teeth like a bag of spanners would you ?
Ummm.... That would be a huge no... Or missing some... nooooooo haha maybe everyone should be made to add a teeth pic to their profile lol
We should start a fab petition . I always get jittery when someone sends me a serious face pic... I wonder what's lurking behind those lips.. . i totally agree lmfao
You a pass the teeth test "
Thank god for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the usernames on here "
Amen to that! Don't think some men think the names through properly before hand even if they are meant as a joke lol
Gash slasher was just one of many that ended up blocked. |
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