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over a year ago
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Do people think things have changed as to how women are viewed if they have a lot of partners sexually ?
I personally think there are still a lot of men who see women as slags even on here.
Men can sleep with whoever they like and are just seen as studs.
I just wondered what others though. Men and women  |
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I totally agree, you just need to look at the increase in profiles which clearly state that they're not interested in those with lots of verifications & the amount of comments to threads in the past re veris. Lots of the comments seem to have a gender based bias against women. On my previous single profile I've been called a 'slag', 'easy', 'busy' etc several times in the past by couples & guys. I don't think this bias is going to change anytime soon tbh so it's up to us as individuals how we respond, personally I block & move on, judgemental people don't tend to be my kind of people tbh X |
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I totally disagree, never have i or other single males I've spoken too here have ever called someone a slag.Nor do we believe we are studs far from it. i like to think we're all swingers trying to enjoy this crazy world of fab. |
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Wrong to call a woman a slag for doing what the men are doing people are on here for sex right? So why call them something for finding what we are all looking for x |
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"Do people think things have changed as to how women are viewed if they have a lot of partners sexually ?
I personally think there are still a lot of men who see women as slags even on here.
Men can sleep with whoever they like and are just seen as studs.
I just wondered what others though. Men and women "
Generalising and reading a mixture of profiles I must say that there are overtones that would obviously make your posting 100% correct  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think the masses will change the view a woman who actively forefills her sexual needs with multiple partners is a slut/slag/whore and that's wrong.
We were all put on this earth to do one thing... breed/multiply and I think as humans we should be free to scratch any itch we have without stigma or being judged.
As a single guy that's clocked up 100s of sexual partners in his 31 years of lifetime I wouldn't say I'm a stud, I'd say I'm a slut if we were going by a book of rules - personally I just see myself as somebody who has taken his sexual desires and needs and acted upon them... but I'm not somebody who takes the first person to offer, I'm actually very fussy with sexual partners.
Guys on here who regard ladies as 'sluts' only land themselves with the type of lady I would regard a slut - and that's a lady who's happy to open her legs and be used for sex by a disrespectful and uneducated pig. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the masses will change the view a woman who actively forefills her sexual needs with multiple partners is a slut/slag/whore and that's wrong.
We were all put on this earth to do one thing... breed/multiply and I think as humans we should be free to scratch any itch we have without stigma or being judged.
As a single guy that's clocked up 100s of sexual partners in his 31 years of lifetime I wouldn't say I'm a stud, I'd say I'm a slut if we were going by a book of rules - personally I just see myself as somebody who has taken his sexual desires and needs and acted upon them... but I'm not somebody who takes the first person to offer, I'm actually very fussy with sexual partners.
Guys on here who regard ladies as 'sluts' only land themselves with the type of lady I would regard a slut - and that's a lady who's happy to open her legs and be used for sex by a disrespectful and uneducated pig. "
Accurate, quality and funny!lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the masses will change the view a woman who actively forefills her sexual needs with multiple partners is a slut/slag/whore and that's wrong.
We were all put on this earth to do one thing... breed/multiply and I think as humans we should be free to scratch any itch we have without stigma or being judged.
As a single guy that's clocked up 100s of sexual partners in his 31 years of lifetime I wouldn't say I'm a stud, I'd say I'm a slut if we were going by a book of rules - personally I just see myself as somebody who has taken his sexual desires and needs and acted upon them... but I'm not somebody who takes the first person to offer, I'm actually very fussy with sexual partners.
Guys on here who regard ladies as 'sluts' only land themselves with the type of lady I would regard a slut - and that's a lady who's happy to open her legs and be used for sex by a disrespectful and uneducated pig. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally disagree, never have i or other single males I've spoken too here have ever called someone a slag.Nor do we believe we are studs far from it. i like to think we're all swingers trying to enjoy this crazy world of fab. "
Well Max you havent read some of the posts Ive read in the Lounge and Swingers then.
I also remember 2 Welsh single guys bragging that they were infamous and the most successful guys on Fab.
They obviously didnt know what infamous actually means  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love women who want to do whatever they want sexually.I don't care if they have had sex with 10's or 100's of men.
Its all from a time when so called Men were Men. Its strange to me as us men have mothers so i find it insulting too when women are called slags.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the masses will change the view a woman who actively forefills her sexual needs with multiple partners is a slut/slag/whore and that's wrong.
We were all put on this earth to do one thing... breed/multiply and I think as humans we should be free to scratch any itch we have without stigma or being judged.
As a single guy that's clocked up 100s of sexual partners in his 31 years of lifetime I wouldn't say I'm a stud, I'd say I'm a slut if we were going by a book of rules - personally I just see myself as somebody who has taken his sexual desires and needs and acted upon them... but I'm not somebody who takes the first person to offer, I'm actually very fussy with sexual partners.
Guys on here who regard ladies as 'sluts' only land themselves with the type of lady I would regard a slut - and that's a lady who's happy to open her legs and be used for sex by a disrespectful and uneducated pig. "
love the way you put it
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And totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that is open by many keys is a shit lock.
I'm only messing, don't get me wrong I like my women to be pure filth with no hang ups whatsoever, I don't care if they've been with 1 bloke or is on a mission to do 10% of the population, as long as she is happy, we show a little respect to each other and we both finish up happy, satisfied and smiling. Then all is good. |
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If you in a relationship your at it several times a week so where's the difference if it's a different person when you not if a you having it every night in a relation ship that don't make u a slag/stud where's the difference lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally think its disrespectful of any man to refer to a woman as a slag just because she chooses to live a certain life style,
further more to refer to someone on here as a slag is just narrow minded to me, as the whole point of FAB is to enjoy others and the joys of swinging.
If someone has a lot of verifications and that's not your thing instead of being judgemental just jog on and look elsewhere.
That's just my opinion for what it's worth. |
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There is a problem with site where a lot of people are not getting the point fab isn't just about the fucking swinging is all about the life style the socialising and meeting like minded people iv made many good friends on here to many are using sight as a way of fucking behind partners backs and desperate sados thinking they get a guaranteed fuck out of everyone on here the socials and the clubs are are too nights if you get anything out of them then it's a bonus lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a problem with site where a lot of people are not getting the point fab isn't just about the fucking swinging is all about the life style the socialising and meeting like minded people iv made many good friends on here to many are using sight as a way of fucking behind partners backs and desperate sados thinking they get a guaranteed fuck out of everyone on here the socials and the clubs are are too nights if you get anything out of them then it's a bonus lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally disagree, never have i or other single males I've spoken too here have ever called someone a slag.Nor do we believe we are studs far from it. i like to think we're all swingers trying to enjoy this crazy world of fab. "
Sorry to say but you're not in the majority on this site, nice, respectful people aren't that plentiful amongst the passing trade that moves through this site X |
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"I totally disagree, never have i or other single males I've spoken too here have ever called someone a slag.Nor do we believe we are studs far from it. i like to think we're all swingers trying to enjoy this crazy world of fab.
Sorry to say but you're not in the majority on this site, nice, respectful people aren't that plentiful amongst the passing trade that moves through this site X"
I am with Max on this one. At events, it is pretty rare to hear a single male using such terms towards the women on here when they are talking to other males. If it does happen, it's usually accompanied by any other guys present rolling their eyes at each other. I understand however, that in private messaging it's a different story. Which suggests something I think. |
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"Do people think things have changed as to how women are viewed if they have a lot of partners sexually ?
I personally think there are still a lot of men who see women as slags even on here.
Men can sleep with whoever they like and are just seen as studs.
I just wondered what others though. Men and women "
Personally I think these times are long gone. But maybe different types of people think differently to the types of people I knock about with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If only you single guy's could have a single fem account for a day lol, I think it might open your eyes a little to the caliber of some guy's on the site. Yep as a female you try to laugh these things off but inevitably it wears you down, you only have to look at your daily update feed to get a feel that these comments aren't just made to people like me or the op. Luckily, the nice people are why we're all still here, that & the friends we make & the naughty fun we have. I'm still in no hurry to create a single profile again  |
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"If only you single guy's could have a single fem account for a day lol, I think it might open your eyes a little to the caliber of some guy's on the site. Yep as a female you try to laugh these things off but inevitably it wears you down, you only have to look at your daily update feed to get a feel that these comments aren't just made to people like me or the op. Luckily, the nice people are why we're all still here, that & the friends we make & the naughty fun we have. I'm still in no hurry to create a single profile again "
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"If only you single guy's could have a single fem account for a day lol, I think it might open your eyes a little to the caliber of some guy's on the site. Yep as a female you try to laugh these things off but inevitably it wears you down, you only have to look at your daily update feed to get a feel that these comments aren't just made to people like me or the op. Luckily, the nice people are why we're all still here, that & the friends we make & the naughty fun we have. I'm still in no hurry to create a single profile again "
I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't "
What makes you think/say that? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry but I disagree with what your saying you have no proof.
I belive 98% of single guys have only had a single male profile.
The reasons for most of the poor attitudes of single males is that this is an online site and they are not talking face to face with the other person.
Keyboard warriors syndrome and inexperience in being able to socialise I suspect more than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts "
And your facts are from where exactly?
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts
And your facts are from where exactly?
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They are a compilation of my experiences and needless to say that of friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry but I disagree with what your saying you have no proof.
I belive 98% of single guys have only had a single male profile.
The reasons for most of the poor attitudes of single males is that this is an online site and they are not talking face to face with the other person.
Keyboard warriors syndrome and inexperience in being able to socialise I suspect more than anything."
I totally agree.AN Odbod, wierdo,socially inept person would have no chance in real life but behind a keyboard they are fucked (not literally)lol because they are on here living out their fantasy of being someone who can pull women . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts
And your facts are from where exactly?
They are a compilation of my experiences and needless to say that of friends.
Casanova "
I've often had messages saying I'm the fittest on fab... is that fact?
A friend says all men on fab are creeps - is that fact?
I've arranged a meet with a couple to arrive and it be a single guy alone - does that mean all couples are single guys?
One persons experince doesn't speak fact for the majority. |
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts
And your facts are from where exactly?
They are a compilation of my experiences and needless to say that of friends.
Casanova
I've often had messages saying I'm the fittest on fab... is that fact?
A friend says all men on fab are creeps - is that fact?
I've arranged a meet with a couple to arrive and it be a single guy alone - does that mean all couples are single guys?
One persons experince doesn't speak fact for the majority."
So you don't have another profile in any format |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry but I disagree with what your saying you have no proof.
I belive 98% of single guys have only had a single male profile.
The reasons for most of the poor attitudes of single males is that this is an online site and they are not talking face to face with the other person.
Keyboard warriors syndrome and inexperience in being able to socialise I suspect more than anything."
So very true & not just this case on this site x |
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts "
Fab can has over 20,000+ members on site. You gained these facts from all of them  |
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts
Fab can has over 20,000+ members on site. You gained these facts from all of them "
You know that would be impossible but have a look at historic postings on firstly the Forums secondly read members rant's about having had their time wasted by single males claiming to be couples and then there are the entries that say no longer a member which I believe are predominantly posted by males claiming to be something else |
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I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers  |
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"I would guess that a large percentage of single guys have held both female and couples accounts and before someone asks honest I haven't
What makes you think/say that?
Facts
Fab can has over 20,000+ members on site. You gained these facts from all of them You know that would be impossible but have a look at historic postings on firstly the Forums secondly read members rant's about having had their time wasted by single males claiming to be couples and then there are the entries that say no longer a member which I believe are predominantly posted by males claiming to be something else "
This thread isn't about fake profiles! |
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"Sorry but I disagree with what your saying you have no proof.
I belive 98% of single guys have only had a single male profile.
The reasons for most of the poor attitudes of single males is that this is an online site and they are not talking face to face with the other person.
Keyboard warriors syndrome and inexperience in being able to socialise I suspect more than anything.
I totally agree.AN Odbod, wierdo,socially inept person would have no chance in real life but behind a keyboard they are fucked (not literally)lol because they are on here living out their fantasy of being someone who can pull women ."
totally agree with this. And vice versa. |
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers "
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females. |
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females."
I'm ashamed to say I agree. Although in my experience there's usually a man in the middle stirring with glee. maybe they enjoy women fighting over them? |
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females. I'm ashamed to say I agree. Although in my experience there's usually a man in the middle stirring with glee. maybe they enjoy women fighting over them? "
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females. I'm ashamed to say I agree. Although in my experience there's usually a man in the middle stirring with glee. maybe they enjoy women fighting over them?
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well I can honestly say they not fighting over me lol |
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Max I agree with your comments about women being bitchy. Ive never been called any names by guys on here and the few times I have been call stuff its been by a woman or UNLOS.
My original question was asked because of some of the forum threads Ive read and status updates.
Luckily I have some very close friends on here and also a very thick skin so I dont really care what the masses think about me. I have and always will stand up for myself and others if I think they have been done a disservice.
Lastlyb Ive never fought over a guy and there is no way I am starting now |
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"Max I agree with your comments about women being bitchy. Ive never been called any names by guys on here and the few times I have been call stuff its been by a woman or UNLOS.
My original question was asked because of some of the forum threads Ive read and status updates.
Luckily I have some very close friends on here and also a very thick skin so I dont really care what the masses think about me. I have and always will stand up for myself and others if I think they have been done a disservice.
Lastlyb Ive never fought over a guy and there is no way I am starting now "
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"Max I agree with your comments about women being bitchy. Ive never been called any names by guys on here and the few times I have been call stuff its been by a woman or UNLOS.
My original question was asked because of some of the forum threads Ive read and status updates.
Luckily I have some very close friends on here and also a very thick skin so I dont really care what the masses think about me. I have and always will stand up for myself and others if I think they have been done a disservice.
Lastlyb Ive never fought over a guy and there is no way I am starting now "
nor me!!! I walk away every time! However I've learned the hard way, that whether I walk or not, the other women seem to think I've done something else  which can only be attributed to the guy which we have in common. More fool us! |
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females. I'm ashamed to say I agree. Although in my experience there's usually a man in the middle stirring with glee. maybe they enjoy women fighting over them?
well I can honestly say they not fighting over me lol"
would Tigger style do? "Put em up" |
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"I don't think women have the opinion that lots of sexual partners makes a man a "stud". I find that a masculine viewpoint if any.
I don't think it's the amount which people find unsavoury, but rather the attitude that some of these men and women have. Some strange sort of pride and self righteousness. That doesn't make them a stud or a slag. It makes them wankers
Nail on head it's all about attitude in the end.
And to be honest the most bitchy and disrespectful comments I've heard on my time on fab has been females talking about other females. I'm ashamed to say I agree. Although in my experience there's usually a man in the middle stirring with glee. maybe they enjoy women fighting over them?
well I can honestly say they not fighting over me lol would Tigger style do? "Put em up" "
Let's roll lol |
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I think the language use of slag has changed over time, what is often used to describe a woman who sleeps about is now fitting nor both men and woman I reckon.
You ain't a stud if you shag a lot yours also a slag - one fit for all & gender equality all the way haha! |
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