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"I find that very worrying , hence why i have never put a profile pic on mine , i have seen people out and i have just walked past in case they have family members about, you would think others would do the same " Its down mamma bear and l dont care how much crap l get from people on here. My pic wont go up again | |||
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"Smiling at someone by all means. But not walking up to them. Especially a female on her own? I thought the site was about discretion? My profile pic is down....no way will it go back up now. I dont care what people say" Re:profile photos,,,never put one on never will.I have always been aware of the pit falls.It obviously takes some people longer for the penny to drop and wise up...Good for you. | |||
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"If they're friends I speak. If it's people that are acquaintances I might say hello if they're on their own or as a couple and know both or just a smile. Mostly I let them make the first move of a gesture to see how they want to play it. If it's nothing this purely fine we all have out lives outside of this. If someone approached me like that he'd wish his sorry ass he hadn't that's for sure " i see you every day at the Nunnery and you scare me mother superior | |||
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"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??" I think this might be a different case. If you've been in contact for a while then you surely would know what the other looks likes. But still would approach with caution. A hello first see how the land lies. | |||
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"This is just my opinion if you don't want to be noticed then dont show your face unless its to someone you trust or a potential meet " | |||
"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ??" Yes l dont want to be approached unless your a real life friend. I didnt know this person at all | |||
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"If you were on your own and we had been chatting would you have minded ?? Yes l dont want to be approached unless your a real life friend. I didnt know this person at all" he must have seen you or how would he recognise your face and name | |||
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"If I ever bump into anyone I have met on here, then I find a glance is all that's needed in recognition. What happens on fab stays on fab, surely that is an unwritten rule." this also | |||
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"This is just my opinion if you don't want to be noticed then dont show your face unless its to someone you trust or a potential meet " The thing is if people want to show their faces on here they should be able to. That said, it doesn't mean that people can just approach you as total stangers if they recognise you away from the site. Kinky | |||
"If I ever bump into anyone I have met on here, then I find a glance is all that's needed in recognition. What happens on fab stays on fab, surely that is an unwritten rule." Agree | |||
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"ive had customers come in the shop and message me after saying scary stuff and wouldn't tell me who they were 1 guy had no pics on his profile so I didn't have a clue who or when he comes in the shop" Thats what happened in this case. I didnt know who he was. | |||
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"I've seen a few people when I'm out and about Sometimes I just carry on other times I smile depends who it is and whether I feel it's appropriate or not I'd hate someone coming up to me if I Wasn't friends with them " I am not and wasnt friends with them. Which is what made it crèepy. | |||
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"Where do you guys shop??? Not seen you in Asda or Waitrose ??" Possibly because we are not Caldicot | |||
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"I rarely acknowledge anyone from fab. I normally totally ignore someone if I "spot" someone. There's a few I'd smile at and give a nod of the head. And even fewer who I would make a point of chatting with. But if a random dared approach me I would hang them out to dry " | |||
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"Where do you guys shop??? Not seen you in Asda or Waitrose ?? Possibly because we are not Caldicot " can you guys pm me please. | |||
"Has anyone ever been approached whilst shopping in their supermarket? I have to say it happened to me today and l cannot say it was a nice experience at all. It terrified me...So some may say about pictures on profiles and l have recently put my picture up because of all the negative comments l got, but is this the consequence of it? A woman being approached in a supermarket? Opinions please " im pretty well known and meet people from all over i would never out anyone the most common place i see fellow fabbers is asdas on merther top always stop for brekki on way to brum i always smile some stop and say hi some just turn red espeshily the ones who cheet on there wives wich in my view is a no no i meet people outside of fab and fab never gets mentioned i have tea stops all over the uk with fabbers and kinksters and it works well your bound to meet people outside theres no problem unless you have done something wrong | |||
"I foolishly put a face picture on my profile. So he got it from that. I have learnt it wont happen again " ill be in singleton hospital canteen at 12 today if any of you see me there come and say hi you be supprised how many fabbers work there no fab talk though discreet is a must | |||
"Has anyone ever been approached whilst shopping in their supermarket? I have to say it happened to me today and l cannot say it was a nice experience at all. It terrified me...So some may say about pictures on profiles and l have recently put my picture up because of all the negative comments l got, but is this the consequence of it? A woman being approached in a supermarket? Opinions please " It is certainly unsettling for a woman to be approached by another person on Fab particularly if you do not know that person. Its also unsettling for men to be approached by people on the site you dont know, as happened to me a few years ago. I was with my daughter in Costa, the person used my then username. And spoke to me as if I knew them. It took a few terse remarks from me to get rid of them. I would never approach another fab member unless they initiated contact first. | |||
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"This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised. " Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site. | |||
"There was a thing a while back about tying a carrier bag on the front of your shopping trolley to spot fellow fabbers, not sure if it was just in Wales but I tried it with out the mrs knowing, she said y so many ppl smiling at me, wrong I know but was so funny, the reason I'm righting this is know spoke or approached her or us,DISCRETION ppl,she did beat the crap out of me when I told her out side asda lol " Didn't know that one . Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco | |||
"There was a thing a while back about tying a carrier bag on the front of your shopping trolley to spot fellow fabbers, not sure if it was just in Wales but I tried it with out the mrs knowing, she said y so many ppl smiling at me, wrong I know but was so funny, the reason I'm righting this is know spoke or approached her or us,DISCRETION ppl,she did beat the crap out of me when I told her out side asda lol Didn't know that one . Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco " Tesco surely would be for your up market swingers,,Poundland would be more appropriate for fabbers. | |||
"This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised. Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site." I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females. | |||
"This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised. Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site.I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females." I suppose u r right there, there r some unsavoury ppl on here and I have chatseen with them and do tend to put them in there place still Twats though | |||
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"This thread is absolute proof as to how shifty and devious not only some people,but fab can be,,,,,,As for being recognised in public,well if you frequent clubs and socials knowing these tactless types do exist and mingle in the crowd ,,,,What goes around,,,,comes around......I for one am not at all surprised. Sorry mate have to disagree with u there, because u go to clubs and socials some one is allowed to approach u in public I think not,some ppl treat this like Facebook, have a few beers get on here try fuck a bird, Twats, then they recognise some one they have seen , personally I think this site should be for cpls only,correct me if I'm wrong but isn't this a swingers site.I merely pointed out that the tactless types who will irresponsibly approach someone in public do frequent the socials and clubs....so like it or not unfortunately it goes with the territory....Totally agree it is not a swingers site as such, hence the seedy elements it invites....So many so called 'grownups' here show show much immaturity and naivety which of course the unsavory types thrive upon.......I personally do not frequent clubs or the socials nor do I intend to.My profile plus friendly banter in the chat rooms does attract like minded females. I suppose u r right there, there r some unsavoury ppl on here and I have chatseen with them and do tend to put them in there place still Twats though" I agree wholeheartedly though I tend not to go down the four letter word route.One of the reasons I would not attend a social for example is that a number of this type would be present and I'm sure their company would sooner rather than later bore the pants off me....wow...maybe that is their tactic ? | |||
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"There was a thing a while back about tying a carrier bag on the front of your shopping trolley to spot fellow fabbers, not sure if it was just in Wales but I tried it with out the mrs knowing, she said y so many ppl smiling at me, wrong I know but was so funny, the reason I'm righting this is know spoke or approached her or us,DISCRETION ppl,she did beat the crap out of me when I told her out side asda lol Didn't know that one . Will defo be looking out now though .. hmm what do I need at Tesco Tesco surely would be for your up market swingers,,Poundland would be more appropriate for fabbers. " oh my god poundland!!! I've recently discovered the joys of that shop!!!! 5 Crunchie bars for £1!!!!! | |||
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"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! " in what way? | |||
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"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! in what way? " Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it! | |||
"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! in what way? Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it!" well done i thought the same | |||
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"Sorry I got excited when I saw "poundland" and didn't read the rest of the nonsense! " Easily done when thinking of bargain chocolate | |||
"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! in what way? Not you Mav. Some of the comments above about socials and clubs. Tesco and poundland. No need for it!" | |||
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"I wouldn't like to be approached by anybody who I don't regard a proper friend off here anywhere in public. My vanilla life is one thing - my fab life is something totally different so unless you're included in my vanilla life stick to what most hold on this site and that's discretion. A nod or hello is fine, but I ain't wanting to talk and compare notes of sex or meets when I'm out buying milk or such. " fancy coming shopping | |||
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"Ugh! - I've had it before on a previous account, foolishly put a face pic up on my profile (along with cock pics), then about 3 days later when I walked around town, had people whistling me and beeping car horns at me.. Part of the reason why I deleted my account and left it so long to rejoin.. " Exactly my point about the need for much discretion and less naivety..if it's of any interest to you I knew a guy who was actually blackmailed.Count yourself lucky therefore that it is now behind you and you have learned a valuable lesson....I hope others learn from your embarrassing experience. | |||
"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! " Actualy u r probably right me included was just pointing out about the young lady who started this thread, some comments r a bit over the top, lol x | |||
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"I was approached in my local Asda car park by a guy we'd played with. I made out I didn't know him, so embarrassing as my 12 year old daughter was sat in the car, luckily she never heard " Where is common sense and DISCRETION its awful!! | |||
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"It's comments by certain people in this thread that make life on this site so entertaining. Could you get your heads any further up your own arses! Actualy u r probably right me included was just pointing out about the young lady who started this thread, some comments r a bit over the top, lol x" The first part of you first comment I totally agreed with you. It was to couple part I didn't. Not all couples want to meet other couples some just want to bring a female or a male in as extra. Where else would they find that but on fab as there aren't a great deal that go to clubs and socials alone, well females anyway lol. Mostly though my comment was directed the post where someone shops or what the attend x | |||
"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden." | |||
"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden. " I'm gonna steal that saying for work | |||
"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden." Love it | |||
"Unfortunately common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden." Yes indeed one of my favorite quotes,,,pretty sure it is not Oscar Wilde,,,most probably way back in time probably anonymous. | |||
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"Ugh! - I've had it before on a previous account, foolishly put a face pic up on my profile (along with cock pics), then about 3 days later when I walked around town, had people whistling me and beeping car horns at me.. Part of the reason why I deleted my account and left it so long to rejoin.. Exactly my point about the need for much discretion and less naivety..if it's of any interest to you I knew a guy who was actually blackmailed.Count yourself lucky therefore that it is now behind you and you have learned a valuable lesson....I hope others learn from your embarrassing experience." Hopefully! - it's a sad fact though that some like the attention, they feel wanted then and think they're some sort of "celeb".. It's the same with some forum posters.. They love the attention and it makes them feel special.. | |||