"why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us""
Some Single mean (not me) feel its an affront to their sexual prowess at being rejected. And yes they haven't got a scooby doo what swinging is about.
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It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement  |
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"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement "
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"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement "
This, single women too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guys, women, couples it doesn't matter, if they're the type to take things to heart there's no easy way to say no to them, some people just have a sense of entitlement & are astounded that you dared to say no. This is when we find the delete & block buttons come into their own, the delete says quite clearly we're not interested & the block prevents any future confusion. We have no problem being told or being deleted or blocked, they don't know us so how can it be personal?  |
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"It's not only single men who get arsey. I have had quite a few couples get huffy because I have politely turned them down, as if they have some kind of entitlement "
I'm continually huffed about your let down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've been turned down once or twice and have had to turn down other people on occasion. People, this is normal !! Not everyone is attracted to everyone just because we have a shared interest in swinging. Weigh anchor , catch the tide and move on ! |
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By *0sKidMan
over a year ago
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"why cant people accept rejection? we are never nasty just because we say " we are sorry but not for us""
I would most definitely rather a polite no, than being blanked.. Not all guys are like that. The anomyity of the Internet brings out the nasty in some. |
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