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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a question. It seems to me that the consensus of opinion on this site, and many like it, favours the female in terms of desirability, importance, and primacy. I've not been on here for long, but already I've experienced being put to one side as a sort of failsafe in case the women can't find anyone better. This is compounded by the male prediliction for gushing and over the top comments in the verification sections of their dates, regardless of how good, or otherwise, the experience was. I believe this might be because they feel this will get them more dates. I have no problem with being courteous and attentive, but don't particularly like the idea of being seen as a somewhat fleshy dildo to be used in case of disappointment or a last minute let-down. I may not actually feel privileged if a woman agrees to meet me... surely she is only doing so because she wants to? Anyway. Said my piece. Let me know what you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swinging site and not lets date.com.As for the verifications yes we tend to find that they tend to be a bit confabalous, but thats just a way of expressing you're appreciation.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lifes way 2 serious 2 be taken seriously and its all bout the fun so where did the polotics come into it ffs  "
You're dead right guys it is supposed to be fun and not serious , take a look at the the post , it's so waffling and boring and looks like it could have been written by Mr Cameron himself , i was being sarcstic but maybe my sense of humour isn't in tune with yours lola |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swingers site for people of all walks of life who like a laugh and plenty of naughty fun. If your reading into it all too much or not getting what you want perhaps a dating site like plenty of fish or something like that would suit you if its dates your after? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our sentiments are as you all said, this is a swinging site and we do meet singles when we want but that is our choice, we are nothing special but genuine and up front so as for treating males as fleshy dildo's, it's insulting to everyone on here whether they be a cpl or single male or female, it's about freedom of choice and freedom to choose. We love the social side and also when in the mood to go wild and do what we want with no regrets or recriminations, lighten up enjoy the scene for what it is, if you want a date go elsewhere, if you want to be taken seriously go to a debating society if you want fun and uncomplicated fun do so but don't get too hung up on it...it's not real life it's all gravy innit!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be yourself and play the same games as everyone else does. Nothing wrong with having standards, but you need a modicum of cunning to get some meets (controversial view perhaps).
Keep it fun and don't get hung up about anyone stringing you along. It happens - move on and chalk it up to experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well got too say ive seen some crap on forums on here and its nice too see the standard of posts hasnt dropped they still crap who the fck cares ,its getting like a agony aunt page in the sun not a swinging site ffs ,lets hear about peoples fun times not individuals who just like a fcking moan |
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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
"well got too say ive seen some crap on forums on here and its nice too see the standard of posts hasnt dropped they still crap who the fck cares ,its getting like a agony aunt page in the sun not a swinging site ffs ,lets hear about peoples fun times not individuals who just like a fcking moan "
Ohh god paul stop moaning mun pmsllllll |
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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago
Here! |
Open yourself a fake cpl or single fem account, have a look at how many lazy no pictures, no profile,'fancy a fuck' messages u get, say no thank you, then see how much abuse and threats of violence u get.
Then rethink your comment buddy.
Just some real advice from experience, and friendly advice at that!  |
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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago
Here! |
"well got too say ive seen some crap on forums on here and its nice too see the standard of posts hasnt dropped they still crap who the fck cares ,its getting like a agony aunt page in the sun not a swinging site ffs ,lets hear about peoples fun times not individuals who just like a fcking moan "
HERE HERE!
I have had loads od great times on here. Thabk u all that have joined me, and thank you to all those who will in thw future lol  |
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