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What to expect at chams
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By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
I've been tempted to go for a while now but don't actually know what to expect. I'm pretty shy in person and probably wouldn't be up for playing my first time there. Can anyone give me any advice on what to expect/wear and when the best times to go are?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.
Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).
Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.
Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).
Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise."
Plus maybe look at going to the singles social as they normally arrange a trip there afterwards. It will give you a chance to meet people before hand x |
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By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.
Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).
Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise."
Does it have to be underwear or a towel? I think this is what's stopping me from going. I'm not comfortable being undressed around a group of people  |
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By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?
Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long."
I'm more of a vest and shorts kind of girl haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?
Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long.
I'm more of a vest and shorts kind of girl haha. "
I'm sure whatever you feel comfortable in will suffice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Things like chemises', babydolls etc?
Re: Licks post.....there isn't a single social til February now so the OP may not want to wait that long."
Oh I forgot about that. I have worn a baby doll and I have seen some women wearing sexy dresses x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats wa puts me off
Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so
And not attending with any1 :/
Xx  "
Maybe you and the OP could meet up and go in together? Safety in numbers n all that lol |
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By *hick43Woman
over a year ago
outside cardiff |
"Thats wa puts me off
Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so
And not attending with any1 :/
Xx
Maybe you and the OP could meet up and go in together? Safety in
numbers n all that lol"
Is true tho social and if wanted to follow on to club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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#Cassie if you would like to meet up before hand and get to know me I will come along with you so it's not like you will feel alone. We can be friends in that respect. It will be my first time and I feel abit like you so it could be a good idea of your up for it? We go for a few drinks and then we will go in together. Message me if you like x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The effort to go to the darleston venue Is well worth the trip in our opinion "
I'd second this & find Darlaston much more single fem friendly, this is only my experience mind, but there is a better selection of action to be had in Darlaston X |
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"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.
Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).
Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise.
Plus maybe look at going to the singles social as they normally arrange a trip there afterwards. It will give you a chance to meet people before hand x"
next one is febuary |
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"Friday evenings.....the rest of the time its a gay sauna.
Sexy undies or a towel (the club will provide you with one).
Chams is a 'wet' club in that it offers a jacuzzi, sauna and steam room. Plenty of private lockable rooms, a dungeon, cinema, glory holes and much more. It can be daunting if attending as a single fem. No pressure to play and if guys can't take no for an answer report them to the staff. Oh and the staff are found in the bar area lol nice place to just socialise.
Does it have to be underwear or a towel? I think this is what's stopping me from going. I'm not comfortable being undressed around a group of people "
Ladies can wear what they like, the guys have to wear shorts or a towel, but I often leave my dress on, unless I'm playing,  |
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"Thats wa puts me off
Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so
And not attending with any1 :/
Xx "
No one judges you, each to their own, wear what you feel sexy in, not what may be sexy to others, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in. I'd rather die than wear a towel, personally, so I always wear specific sexy clubwear. Lots of good sites/shops around.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will actually find that because everyone is in underwear it does not feel uncomfortable or odd. You are all in the same boat and feels very relaxed. We have only been to wet clubs and actually feel apprehensive about clothed ones. Lol |
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By *hick43Woman
over a year ago
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"Thats wa puts me off
Goin and not knowing any1 and wearing something sexy which others may not think so
And not attending with any1 :/
Xx
No one judges you, each to their own, wear what you feel sexy in,
not what may be sexy to others, "
I do wear babydolls only in private as ov yet :/ xx |
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