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Does anyone find it hard to get people to reply
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone help or give advice. Been on hee a while now and only met one person. But 9 times of 10 the first time i message someone they just delete it straight away. And all my messages dont contain fancy a fuck as it can be disrecpectfull.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No trouble this end.
Usually get a reply 
Lmao i was looking for tips and advice"
Only message those looking for you as a match.
Don't be a creep.
Include a face pic.
Most of all be realistic and remember you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea.
Point out a couple of things about their profile or pictures to show you've not just copy and pasted a message.
Remember whatever you compliment them on they've likely heard a thousand times and that'll likely be the reason why they DON'T REPLY.
Find a way to stand out, be unique and just remember you're one of so many single guys looking for the same thing every day and couples and single females really can call the shots and likely just look for what suits them at that time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No trouble this end.
Usually get a reply
Lmao i was looking for tips and advice
Only message those looking for you as a match.
Don't be a creep.
Include a face pic.
Most of all be realistic and remember you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea.
Point out a couple of things about their profile or pictures to show you've not just copy and pasted a message.
Remember whatever you compliment them on they've likely heard a thousand times and that'll likely be the reason why they DON'T REPLY.
Find a way to stand out, be unique and just remember you're one of so many single guys looking for the same thing every day and couples and single females really can call the shots and likely just look for what suits them at that time.
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Cheers mate i do nornaly do that so point taken anyway.
I guess i will just have to keep trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No trouble this end.
Usually get a reply
Lmao i was looking for tips and advice
Only message those looking for you as a match.
Don't be a creep.
Include a face pic.
Most of all be realistic and remember you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea.
Point out a couple of things about their profile or pictures to show you've not just copy and pasted a message.
Remember whatever you compliment them on they've likely heard a thousand times and that'll likely be the reason why they DON'T REPLY.
Find a way to stand out, be unique and just remember you're one of so many single guys looking for the same thing every day and couples and single females really can call the shots and likely just look for what suits them at that time.
Cheers mate i do nornaly do that so point taken anyway.
I guess i will just have to keep trying "
And try turning up when you ask if you can attend partys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone help or give advice. Been on hee a while now and only met one person. But 9 times of 10 the first time i message someone they just delete it straight away. And all my messages dont contain fancy a fuck as it can be disrecpectfull. "
We replied to your message even if it was to say no thanks |
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to "
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately "
That's how we use the block button, prevents any confusion x |
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately "
I do this, I block everyone within my home town area as I don't want to meet anyone within a certain radius of my home, and if I view a profile which is not suited to me, I block it. It's a filter system as said above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately "
We had an abusive message from an apparent couple saying we were another fake profile and we were a man not a couple and that we were time wasters and when we went to reply asking why they were saying that they had blocked us and we had never spoken to them before they messaged us i even named them in status' 3 times because admin kept removing them and they still never replied |
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately
We had an abusive message from an apparent couple saying we were another fake profile and we were a man not a couple and that we were time wasters and when we went to reply asking why they were saying that they had blocked us and we had never spoken to them before they messaged us i even named them in status' 3 times because admin kept removing them and they still never replied "
Admin removed cause you're not supposed to name and shame.
Report and move on. This site is full of "interesting" people. That's the polite version |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately
We had an abusive message from an apparent couple saying we were another fake profile and we were a man not a couple and that we were time wasters and when we went to reply asking why they were saying that they had blocked us and we had never spoken to them before they messaged us i even named them in status' 3 times because admin kept removing them and they still never replied "
People message then block all the time, usually after you say : No thanks in response to a meet request after they reply calling you names and then block so you can't reply. welcome to Fab ! We ourselves block everyone who lives near us, don't want to meet anyone we went to junior school with ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People get far too hung up on why they've been blocked. Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences.
As the saying goes build a bridge and get over it  "
It doesnt bother us if were blocked thats fine but what cheesed us off was the abusive message from a user callin us fakes and time wasters when they had never spoken to us. We have pics as a couple we have veris from other users and also photo verified so how can we be fake  |
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"People get far too hung up on why they've been blocked. Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences.
As the saying goes build a bridge and get over it
It doesnt bother us if were blocked thats fine but what cheesed us off was the abusive message from a user callin us fakes and time wasters when they had never spoken to us. We have pics as a couple we have veris from other users and also photo verified so how can we be fake "
That is fab life for you unfortunately. You can still report from a message even if they've blocked you.
Like I said further up there are some "interesting" people on here and you get used to the colourful messages that comes with this site.
Just ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People get far too hung up on why they've been blocked. Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences.
As the saying goes build a bridge and get over it
It doesnt bother us if were blocked thats fine but what cheesed us off was the abusive message from a user callin us fakes and time wasters when they had never spoken to us. We have pics as a couple we have veris from other users and also photo verified so how can we be fake
That is fab life for you unfortunately. You can still report from a message even if they've blocked you.
Like I said further up there are some "interesting" people on here and you get used to the colourful messages that comes with this site.
Just ignore. "
Will do we are starting to see things from a different point of view regarding other users now |
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"People get far too hung up on why they've been blocked. Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences.
As the saying goes build a bridge and get over it
It doesnt bother us if were blocked thats fine but what cheesed us off was the abusive message from a user callin us fakes and time wasters when they had never spoken to us. We have pics as a couple we have veris from other users and also photo verified so how can we be fake
That is fab life for you unfortunately. You can still report from a message even if they've blocked you.
Like I said further up there are some "interesting" people on here and you get used to the colourful messages that comes with this site.
Just ignore.
Will do we are starting to see things from a different point of view regarding other users now "
You'll soon start to see the funny side to the fact people will actually waste their time to be abusive. Says more about them than you. There are plenty of nice people on this site that out number the bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People get far too hung up on why they've been blocked. Not everyone can be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences.
As the saying goes build a bridge and get over it
It doesnt bother us if were blocked thats fine but what cheesed us off was the abusive message from a user callin us fakes and time wasters when they had never spoken to us. We have pics as a couple we have veris from other users and also photo verified so how can we be fake
That is fab life for you unfortunately. You can still report from a message even if they've blocked you.
Like I said further up there are some "interesting" people on here and you get used to the colourful messages that comes with this site.
Just ignore.
Will do we are starting to see things from a different point of view regarding other users now
You'll soon start to see the funny side to the fact people will actually waste their time to be abusive. Says more about them than you. There are plenty of nice people on this site that out number the bad "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, no problems here
Lack of photos is your problem. Women want to see what is on offer, no matter how anonymous. Doesn't have to be a face pic. "
Thanks point taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the same as being blocked by users that you havent even spoken to
Some people use the block button as a filter system. If they know they wouldn't be interested in play with that person they block. Saves wasted messages and backs being put up when it's a no thank you're not my type, as some don't handle rejection well unfortunately "
I tend to do this, just saves time and some people don't meet black guys which is fine but we're obviously never going to meet so block. Nothing personal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, no problems here
Lack of photos is your problem. Women want to see what is on offer, no matter how anonymous. Doesn't have to be a face pic. "
I only hide my pics coz of people copying them. But point taken thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, no problems here
Lack of photos is your problem. Women want to see what is on offer, no matter how anonymous. Doesn't have to be a face pic.
I only hide my pics coz of people copying them. But point taken
thank you "
Didn't know that was a thing. But if someone is willing to use my pic. I think I'd be more upset if they were getting more replies than I was. |
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