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still here after a year
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been a year on this site no improvement yet. Hopes or high. Updated pics and profile. "
You say you have updated your profile, yet there is one sentence!?
Also you have two, pretty poor photos.
Suggestions - put in at least a fee paragraphs about yourself, what your likes, dislikes, experience, meet availability. Also put in some better photos!! Personally as a SF I don't want to see your pants and cock but that is just me! How about full body with no face or torso etc etc.
To me that profile looks like no effort has been made.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok i have to agree
Your profile is very poor
How can you expect people to make the effort if your not going to
I get that males join and come on threads and ask for advice but surely after a year you must have picked up a few tips
Just add a few photos
Don't have to be or cock
And add a little more info about you
Happy swinging |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
To be honest, you've had plenty of advice and comments in previous threads.
It still won't be easy if you do get a decent profile sorted out; it isn't for most blokes though. At least you'll be doing all you can then though and you'll give yourself a fighting chance.
People were being genuine when they said your profile needed work previously. Maybe have a look at ones from guys who are well established on here. It simply won't happen with a poor profile I'm afraid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women. "
Absolutely spot on. Men outnumber couples and females by 100's to 1 but the guys that get the success are the ones who make an effort with their profile text and pictures.
Most of the others come on the forum and complain about lack of meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is good. But a little to much info. That's what you might for is to find out mor about them. I think you took the fun out of it. "
That made me lol, I think they're the ones having fun because you certainly aren't x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some people have a nack for pointing our the obvious. Obviously I'm not ever going to be happy. So I'm just trying for second best. Or third. Or four. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is good. But a little to much info. That's what you might for is to find out mor about them. I think you took the fun out of it. "
Well thanks for your input we'll give it some thought , ok thought about it and I think we'll leave it as it is 
Most guys don't even read it anyway |
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"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women. "
I'm a minger mate but I made a effort with my profile and took on broad advice from others here. started going to the socials and it snowball from than on its the only way to achieve success here and show your genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.
I'm a minger mate but I made a effort with my profile and took on broad advice from others here. started going to the socials and it snowball from than on its the only way to achieve success here and show your genuine "
YOU, Mr Max Banging, couldn't be further from a minger if you tried, beautiful inside and out xxxxxxx  |
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"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.
I'm a minger mate but I made a effort with my profile and took on broad advice from others here. started going to the socials and it snowball from than on its the only way to achieve success here and show your genuine
YOU, Mr Max Banging, couldn't be further from a minger if you tried, beautiful inside and out xxxxxxx "
Awww I'm honored babe your rather beautiful yourself my friend xxx |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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I travel quite a lot in here whether it is to social events in south Wales or club meets away because if I relied in this area I would hardly meet anyone. I think with some motivation and application you would do much better on here than just moan about it in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat. |
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By *alleycplCouple
over a year ago
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"Ha ha have taken a look at other mens profiles. Not much different to mine. Just simple mathematics more men on here than women.
I'm a minger mate but I made a effort with my profile and took on broad advice from others here. started going to the socials and it snowball from than on its the only way to achieve success here and show your genuine "
you are a bit of a minger max lol THIS IS A JOKE HONEST YOUR A DECENT GUY EVEN IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF JELLY BEANS LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on the site almost a year mate.. and it's absolutely brilliant!!! Go to socials get verified show people you are who you say you are and can be trusted.. you need to start off by meeting other swingers and getting to be known in the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Duh that is why I am here. Like I said I don't like social events. I don't like crowds or crowded places like pubs, shops clubs or even outside events with lots of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Help required. "
You have been given advice and have chosen not to take it...
There is no more help anyone can give you to have success on this site.
Suggest you read the advise about your profile and pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The longer you wait the better it gets be patient lol  "
That's kinda rubbish advice, the more effort you put in to get yourself known the better!
The best written profiles that stand out also get you further - personally I look at profiles before replying/reading a message, a dull profile earns a message delete from me.
Sit back and you'll get nowhere.
Sit and moan - same result.
But even those well known on the scene don't get meets at the drop of a hat.
Two diaries and responsibilities don't always match.
Most seasoned on the scene only really meet quality over quantity too... Tending to look for specifics and connection over random mediocre sex for the sake of it.
This site isn't instafuck, if you thought it was you were highly wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So let's get this right...
You ask for advise and you're given plenty of it. Better profile. ..you criticise that of those that offer this. Attend socials ....they're not for you. Decent pics. ..you want to leave to the imagination.
You don't want advise you want a miracle tbh
As a previous sf all I can say is ha!!!!
You offered as bye....so guess what BYE
Nectar
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat. "
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !"
Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ???? "
Think she's banged her head on the headboard one too many times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try a day time social so it's not as packed!
You are quite local to me, I wouldn't meet you as you sound utterly bored with yourself so why would I feel any different? Jeeeez it's not rocket science is it? Get a social life of some sort!?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ???? "
he's hidden them tash
Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????
he's hidden them tash
Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX "
??? Never met him , he hasn't got the green tick mun..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your comments . I am not good in social events. I hate crowds of people. So socials would not be my thing. And before you ask I don't have a thing. Not interested in sport etc. Etc. I just work eat sleep repeat.
is there any hope of your not interested in anything!
. I mean what on earth would you talk about on a met plus
how would you be able to meet?
Yet your veri shows you already attended a party so you can't be that shy !Milly put ya glasses on mun, he isn't veried ????
he's hidden them tash
Because he had a Cpl saying he's been to your parties XXX ??? Never met him , he hasn't got the green tick mun....."
Lol I must be losing it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social life I don't need . I have ocd and agriphobia. So public places and crowds don't do it for me. Thanks for the advice. "
If agriphobia is anywhere near as life changing as agoraphobia I empathise with you, in fact I am now contemplating dispatching several of my favourite ladies in a chauffer driven limousine as I post, if I only had your address |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still here after 10 years , never met anyone, don't do socials, or parties ,, and my veris well people keep sending them as they think they've met me,, I'm way to shy for that ....."
Shy my fat ass..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not prepared to get out and meet people what do you think will happen
It's all about you
You get out of the site what you put into it
A little effort goes a long way |
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