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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You won't get anywhere with a profile or attitude like that, women aren't usually attracted to whinging men. You need to rewrite your profile making it more positive & you need to drag up & play to your strengths. No one here will take pity on you X |
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over a year ago
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"Thanks for All you mesages and input. They are duly noted. As for socials I'm not good with crowds or people. So they would not work with me. "
The day socials aren't that busy thou
Maybe 20-30 people
And you can sit and get to know people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"20 to 30 people. Shit. That's a load. I would not be a happy bunny. I like 3 or 4 people. Lol. Looks like social not my thing. "
It looks like you dont even want to try. Why ask for help if you cannot help yourself or take on board what others are telling you!! |
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over a year ago
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Because he's yet another single guy who joined thinking that regular sex with multiple partners would fall into his lap just because he's here. No effort on the profile etc = no effort in the bedroom in my experience x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dear Deirdre, I've been seeing a rather fabulous mirror recently it make me look amazing whilst making my love handles slimming then out of the blue it cracked and left in pieces. What should I do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people (mainly men)
Are quite why when they first meet new people
But if your not even willing to try and get out there to meet new people then your never going to have much luck on here Hun |
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"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."
Maybe this site isn't the best place for you to be looking at the moment. There's not a lot of sympathy on here unfortunately and it may do your confidence more harm than good. Hope you find what your looking for my friend |
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"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."
Ok I completely sympathise with you
But your letting them control your life
You need to get it under control otherwise how are you going to actually meet anyone
If anyone was thinking about meeting you and read this that would be thinking how do I know he will even turn up |
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"Thanks. But I don't get out I suffer from anxiety and ocd. So when I see lots of people I get stressed and go home."
I've suffered from anxiety and depression since the birth of my 2nd child 9 years ago (not that you would think it from my exterior) and I know full well that the things that make you feel better are always the hardest to make yourself do.
Locking yourself away on your own is the easiest option but it makes you feel even more shit
I have bad days and lapses but I have a fairly good, medication free grip on it now and it doesn't control me anymore. You have my empathy fully but you have to help yourself  |
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Exactly this
I suffer with anxiety myself and it's the little things like sleeping or going out that effect me at times
But you have to force yourself to do it
It's the only way things will get better |
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