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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, looking for people's opinions on this one, and maybe those who may have had the same or similar experiences.
Just to set the scene... I'm a mum, my time is precious so to go on a meet I need to make arrangements.
I arrange a meet. The guy in question has seen my fab pics, face pics, more pics, videos etc etc... Been talking a while.
The meet time arrives, I'm waiting somewhere, he drives past. He then turns around and drives off. Only when I messaged him to see where he was ( so he may not of even said anything ) did he say That he did turn up just I was nothing at all like my pics.
So... Would you just drive off? Or would you stop and maybe be polite and just say? Go just for a social meet but nothing more?
Seriously fucked me off!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I can say is "what a prick"
Does he have veris from before ?
If not, perhaps he bottled it ?
Wasting somones time like that in my eyes says he has no morals about offending people and has no respect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is disgusting what he did
He could of just had a social
But I know a fem who did the exact same thing a few weeks back as she said the bloke was nothing like his pictures
Just hold your head up knowing what a complete knob he is if he can be so disrespectful anyway your probably better off having not met him
Block and move on Hun |
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Says more about him than you hunni. Gutless wonder! It wouldn't of hurt for him to of just stopped and had a quick chat, let you know you're not for him. Fair enough we can't be everyone's cup of tea but at least be bloody polite about it. Esp after he'd seen previous pics, vids etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have been throo this myself where I've met up with someone and really didn't think it was the same person :-/ regardless though I didn't shoot off I still went ahead with the meet and on the other hand I've also turned up to a meet, very recently and was told I looked different from my pics but in a better way! Lol pics shud never make someones mind up straight away as the camera can lie either for the good or the bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How rude, as already said this says more about him than you, spread his name amongst friends, block him & move on. Word of mouth is a powerful tool on here & what self respecting woman would want to meet an utter twat like this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lucky escape i say lovely...if that is what he is like then i'd not have wanted to get to know him any more!!
I've had a few meets with people i wouldn't play with, that also goes for guys who are physically attractive but literally zero chemistry, works both ways. Having said this, no it doesn't hurt to be polite and have a chat/drink and etiquette should dictate that you finish the job no matter what the outcome!!
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By *JJJJxMan
over a year ago
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As somebody else said above, in all likelihood he bottled it. There are a lot of fantasists on here, who love the idea of a meet: they go through the process, chatting, exchanging pics, but when it actually comes to it...
Don't stress on it, though it will have been a major piss off. There are gen people on the site, and you'll find them. Enjoy your swinging, with real swingers xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should pick up CG then fit girl jump in back Hahahaha
Can only dream lol
We make a good team me and fitchick do too! "
Yeah I'm definitely thinking would he the ultimate dream team   |
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By *kip123Man
over a year ago
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This is typical of a immature self centred guy. Ok, you may not look exactly like your photos, We all spruce ourselves up to a certain extent when taking them. ie, guys breath in, women sometimes push their breasts together etc etc. but, the content of your messages must have been very inviting for him to want to meet you. Thats where personality takes over from looks. Lucky escape for you that he did drive on by. Just block and laugh it off. Its his hard luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should pick up CG then fit girl jump in back Hahahaha
Can only dream lol
We make a good team me and fitchick do too!
Yeah I'm definitely thinking would he the ultimate dream team "
When you joining us for some fun then Griffo...come pop your chams cherry on 17th June? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, looking for people's opinions on this one, and maybe those who may have had the same or similar experiences.
Just to set the scene... I'm a mum, my time is precious so to go on a meet I need to make arrangements.
I arrange a meet. The guy in question has seen my fab pics, face pics, more pics, videos etc etc... Been talking a while.
The meet time arrives, I'm waiting somewhere, he drives past. He then turns around and drives off. Only when I messaged him to see where he was ( so he may not of even said anything ) did he say That he did turn up just I was nothing at all like my pics.
So... Would you just drive off? Or would you stop and maybe be polite and just say? Go just for a social meet but nothing more?
Seriously fucked me off!!!!"
He must be nuts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should pick up CG then fit girl jump in back Hahahaha
Can only dream lol
We make a good team me and fitchick do too!
Yeah I'm definitely thinking would he the ultimate dream team
When you joining us for some fun then Griffo...come pop your chams cherry on 17th June? "
Haha griffo
My MFF cherry does need popping  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, looking for people's opinions on this one, and maybe those who may have had the same or similar experiences.
Just to set the scene... I'm a mum, my time is precious so to go on a meet I need to make arrangements.
I arrange a meet. The guy in question has seen my fab pics, face pics, more pics, videos etc etc... Been talking a while.
The meet time arrives, I'm waiting somewhere, he drives past. He then turns around and drives off. Only when I messaged him to see where he was ( so he may not of even said anything ) did he say That he did turn up just I was nothing at all like my pics.
So... Would you just drive off? Or would you stop and maybe be polite and just say? Go just for a social meet but nothing more?
Seriously fucked me off!!!!"
He's rude and an idiot.
Block and move on you have nothing to be concerned about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, looking for people's opinions on this one, and maybe those who may have had the same or similar experiences.
Just to set the scene... I'm a mum, my time is precious so to go on a meet I need to make arrangements.
I arrange a meet. The guy in question has seen my fab pics, face pics, more pics, videos etc etc... Been talking a while.
The meet time arrives, I'm waiting somewhere, he drives past. He then turns around and drives off. Only when I messaged him to see where he was ( so he may not of even said anything ) did he say That he did turn up just I was nothing at all like my pics.
So... Would you just drive off? Or would you stop and maybe be polite and just say? Go just for a social meet but nothing more?
Seriously fucked me off!!!!"
You are stunning I can only think he was intimidated by your sexy looks and bottled it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely his loss and not worth your time or worry or stress over it.
Yes even if when you meet sometimes yku go they look better in thier pics you are both there you have both made the effort. Always go for a coffee / chat then see how you both feel when you knw each other better.... |
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Total knob!
Of course you meet, say hello, have a chat a coffee (or tea) even if you don't like the look the personality may be a winner & you've made a new friend
What an idiot clearly very insecure
don't let him get you down, chin up and move on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me a little while back. Was off the cuff do was only a brief few messages but the person who turned up was either a different person to the pic or the pic was taken some time ago. Fortunately I had not gotten out of the car. I drove off and then messaged him to say why. No way should you feel obliged to give someone your time if they have got you there under false pretences. It's rude and stupid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In relation to pics.... I find pics can be deceptive of size. I look a lot slimmer in my pics than in person hence why I make my dress size and the fact that I'm a chubster clear on my profile so if men have an issue with it it's clear from the outset. I dunno if this may have been an issue maybe?? As a lot of females look smaller in their pics than in person due to the angles the pics are taken at. Not that I am saying you're a chunk or anything. Fuck anyone got a shovel for me to keep digging
Just trying to see it from a man's perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think weve all probably had meets where we havent clicked with the other person or they havent clicked with us.
You just have to be honest and polite and say sorry not for me.
What he did was gutless but from all the comments Clit Girl has had in this post I dont think shell be short of guys who want to meet her.
I do agree with MissP too though.
Ive looked at peoples profiles and pics and when Ive meet them think they dont look much like there pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about it OP, put a positive spin on it you now know what time wasters are like and he clearly doesn't deserve your time or effort stressing about it.
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I have to admire his brutal honesty. id much rather be told the truth than have people blow smoke up my arse for a quick fuck.
However in saying that, there are ways of doing and saying things. But, ultimately it would have been the same result... No play.
I wouldn't want to socialise with someone for the sake of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I always arrange to meet socially with no expectations, if both agree that things should move on that's great but I wouldn't have driven away.
A drink and a chat then if he didn't want things to go further he could at least tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have expected him to stop and express his concerns that the pictures did not match with what was on the site. I would not expect him to just drive off, you should name and shame him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this in the past. Got there early. Waited. Stood on the kerb like we agreed in the spot we agreed. Even waved. Didn't stop.
My own fault for trying to hook up with a bus driver. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this in the past. Got there early. Waited. Stood on the kerb like we agreed in the spot we agreed. Even waved. Didn't stop.
My own fault for trying to hook up with a bus driver. "
& he's back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this in the past. Got there early. Waited. Stood on the kerb like we agreed in the spot we agreed. Even waved. Didn't stop.
My own fault for trying to hook up with a bus driver.
& he's back "
Hiya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had this in the past. Got there early. Waited. Stood on the kerb like we agreed in the spot we agreed. Even waved. Didn't stop.
My own fault for trying to hook up with a bus driver.
& he's back
Hiya! "
Nice to read you back x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly he's a complete idiot
Secondly does he think he's better than you or "pulls better" (to put it in lad terms)
And wtf...if you arranged a meet with me i'd be there early eagerly/nervously waiting for you, not you waiting for me
His loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He must be mad!! Well he is mad and disrespectful... He obviously knew what you looked like through the pics and videos. So either he's crazy in the head or he shit out!!
His loss anyways. X |
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Sorry to hear you have been let down by a fuckwit.
I'm willing to bet the guy was married or has a partner/girlfriend. His bottle went once he saw you.
As someone who has held greedy girl nights on and off for about ten years, it is my conservative guess that around 80% of the "single" guys on here, aren't infact single at all.The amount of times I have been let down by idiots because their aforementioned wife/girlfriend/partner won't let them out for the occasion is phenomenal!
My advice would be to go along to a social and meet guys face to face. Plenty of genuine guys attend these events and I'm sure there will be several who catch your eye |
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"Most on here don't look like there pics when you put Fragments of pictures when someone sees the whole thing it's not what they imagined"
We agree. Quite often shocked when we meet people in "real life" at how they differ from what you imagine them to look like. Pictures can be very misleading.
In saying that, specifying dress size wouldn't be much better, as it varies so much in terms of how a woman carries it.
Ruby X |
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