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over a year ago
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Saves the abuse/questions etc that many women get in response to a "no thanks" reply.
A lot find it easier and a lot less hassle to just instantly block and I don't blame them  |
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"Saves the abuse/questions etc that many women get in response to a "no thanks" reply.
A lot find it easier and a lot less hassle to just instantly block and I don't blame them "
I guess , it just not everyone will abuse , just take it on chin an move on . I been knocked back but always polite an say ok thanks for replying and happy fabbing |
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"And If you block just makes it easier when they try again in a months time because you know you could have changed your mind pmsl x
Mrs"
Certainly saves a lot of wasted time. Sounds like the voice of experience Mrs? 
And that's me also blocked ... Haha |
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"And If you block just makes it easier when they try again in a months time because you know you could have changed your mind pmsl x
Mrs
Certainly saves a lot of wasted time. Sounds like the voice of experience Mrs?
And that's me also blocked ... Haha"
Haha block list as long as my arm  |
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"And If you block just makes it easier when they try again in a months time because you know you could have changed your mind pmsl x
Mrs
Certainly saves a lot of wasted time. Sounds like the voice of experience Mrs?
And that's me also blocked ... Haha
Haha block list as long as my arm "
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"And If you block just makes it easier when they try again in a months time because you know you could have changed your mind pmsl x
Mrs
Certainly saves a lot of wasted time. Sounds like the voice of experience Mrs?
And that's me also blocked ... Haha
Haha block list as long as my arm "
Haha. Well that's fab for you, aye |
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"It is terribly rude. I'd be miffed if someone did that to me.
There's no need to be an arsehole. Basic manners cost nothing. "
Yeah...
Sure...
I'm not sure you'd be saying that if you've had some of the replies we've had when we've done the "polite thing"... I could quote from memory, but a lot of it follows the same vein, they were keen to meet, then suddenly they wouldn't fuck us with a bargepole (and that's the politest version!)  |
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"It is terribly rude. I'd be miffed if someone did that to me.
There's no need to be an arsehole. Basic manners cost nothing.
Yeah...
Sure...
I'm not sure you'd be saying that if you've had some of the replies we've had when we've done the "polite thing"... I could quote from memory, but a lot of it follows the same vein, they were keen to meet, then suddenly they wouldn't fuck us with a bargepole (and that's the politest version!) "
Thats not on is it , as just mentioned manbers cost nowt |
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"It is terribly rude. I'd be miffed if someone did that to me.
There's no need to be an arsehole. Basic manners cost nothing.
Yeah...
Sure...
I'm not sure you'd be saying that if you've had some of the replies we've had when we've done the "polite thing"... I could quote from memory, but a lot of it follows the same vein, they were keen to meet, then suddenly they wouldn't fuck us with a bargepole (and that's the politest version!)
Thats not on is it , as just mentioned manbers cost nowt"
That's true, and it's mostly single guys, which is a shame, because a few spoil it for the majority. |
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We think we all start on here as polite human beings . We try to respond to every message even to say :" no thank you "
Then you get into endless message strings
Then you get crass crude and illiterate initial messages
Then you get endless why won't you meet strings
Then you get the : your ugly as fuck and I didn't really want to meet you fat cunts anyway . Hope you all get cancer and die messages in response to your No thank you
Add this to 50 plus messages a day on average
And pretty soon your girl / couple / FF couple / triple is hitting the delete and block button instead of saying : No thanks and wondering if Fab is really a good thing to be involved in.
Sad but true
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Oh and we forgot the fact that 95 percent of messages are also from people who have clearly NOT read your profile at all and are the utter antithesis of what you clearly state that you wish to meet !
After endless messages where people can't respect your wishes, time and courtesy wears thin
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"And in the time between those two posts we have had ten messages off single straight men which we state we don't want to meet . How are you supposed to message each one 3 times "
All so very true & the reason the usual norms re politeness don't apply here much of the time. In real life, in a bar for example we wouldn't accept some of the requests or comments that fall through our inboxes every moment of the day, why should we accept them & be "polite" on here. It's our profile & we deem the rules & how it should run X |
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"And in the time between those two posts we have had ten messages off single straight men which we state we don't want to meet . How are you supposed to message each one 3 times
All so very true & the reason the usual norms re politeness don't apply here much of the time. In real life, in a bar for example we wouldn't accept some of the requests or comments that fall through our inboxes every moment of the day, why should we accept them & be "polite" on here. It's our profile & we deem the rules & how it should run X"
That's very true ! Many messages would result in the police being called or the door staff intervening if they were made in a normal face to face social setting . Don't get us wrong , we would like to respond to all messages and be utterly polite but it is just impossible . Delete and block becomes a mere self defence mechanism , |
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If we put a meet up and people have clearly read what we're looking for then we reply even if it's a no thanks.. never really had any abuse.
If we get the usual hi message when our profile clearly states we're not looking then we just ignore. |
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Totally agree with this post. Why don't guys read before messaging.
"Oh and we forgot the fact that 95 percent of messages are also from people who have clearly NOT read your profile at all and are the utter antithesis of what you clearly state that you wish to meet !
After endless messages where people can't respect your wishes, time and courtesy wears thin
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