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Struggling to get a kick/buzz
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was feeling the same miss P
until recently I made the effort to meet a guy and
Was so glad I did restored my mojo
Again and feeling it much better now
Maybe go for someone you wouldn't normally go for
And make an effort to go hopefully things will get bk on track
Likewise to the social side and friends also xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thing is I don' really know what I want
I sometimes think i could do with regular but then again I have always loved my random one offs aswell
Aww Mill I am just one those people who is never happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ditto! Love the social stuff and clubs but finding couples is VERY hard work so I've definitely lost the buzz.
I think after being on here so long (9+ years) I've been there and done it all, so nothing on here really excites me these days  Only use forums these days! |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm "
How about a gangbang with a bunch of Scarlets supporters  |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
In all seriousness though, I think it's usually inextricably linked to general mood.
How are you feeling in general?
I know when I'm even the slightest bit down I could happily be a monk for the rest of my life. The minute I feel a bit positive and perky I'm like a 15 year old in a strip club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've lost the buzz and enjoyment I used to get on here too.
It's only the socials and friends I have here that keeps me on here I think.
Meeting isn't what it used to be - all too much drama and messing around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ditto for me, to the extent I've deleted my single profile & just doing the couple thing for now. Not because I have any desire to be exclusive or have a relationship merely because meeting 1:1 doesn't excite me anymore & getting to a place with someone who understands what I like, when & how takes more effort than I'm willing to invest. I get that with this person & that's as complicated as I can cope with for now. I think there comes a time for all of us when we need to take a break & rest the soul a bit. Still loving the clubs, the parties & the social events  |
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By *itenDaysCouple
over a year ago
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The site has great highs but terrible lows sometimes it gets so frustrating and you just think sod it all, but remember the good friends and the meets that make it worthwhile.
Take some time to remember why you joined and what you wanted to do and go and do a to do list and start it again.
Nitenday xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm
How about a gangbang with a bunch of Scarlets supporters "
They'd never handle me  |
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We've only been on here a year. When we first started, we were flat out to get meets. Now we couldn't really care less either way. If it happens, it happens.
A trip to Darlaston now and again is appealing. We won't leave the site though cos there are far too many cool people on here that we want to see again at socials and events. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm
How about a gangbang with a bunch of Scarlets supporters
They'd never handle me "
I suspect you're right  .
We'd be too busy moaning and ranting to make it special anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've only been on here a year. When we first started, we were flat out to get meets. Now we couldn't really care less either way. If it happens, it happens.
A trip to Darlaston now and again is appealing. We won't leave the site though cos there are far too many cool people on here that we want to see again at socials and events."
I need to do Xtasia again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've only been on here a year. When we first started, we were flat out to get meets. Now we couldn't really care less either way. If it happens, it happens.
A trip to Darlaston now and again is appealing. We won't leave the site though cos there are far too many cool people on here that we want to see again at socials and events.
I need to do Xtasia again "
think we all feeling the same miss.p ...boohoo all sad xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You asked me the other day where I had vanished to and all the replies above give my reasons. I enjoyed the socials but won't go on my jack jones and find I can't be arsed with meets lol xx"
I miss you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ditto! Love the social stuff and clubs but finding couples is VERY hard work so I've definitely lost the buzz.
I think after being on here so long (9+ years) I've been there and done it all, so nothing on here really excites me these days Only use forums these days!"
Snap we don't get the same buzz from here anymore. We simply keep our profile on here to attend socials and keep on touch with friends made on here x |
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"You asked me the other day where I had vanished to and all the replies above give my reasons. I enjoyed the socials but won't go on my jack jones and find I can't be arsed with meets lol xx
I miss you xx"
Aww that's sweet. I miss you too. U need to be careful tho everyone will see that soft squishy side you keep hidden lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You asked me the other day where I had vanished to and all the replies above give my reasons. I enjoyed the socials but won't go on my jack jones and find I can't be arsed with meets lol xx
I miss you xx
Aww that's sweet. I miss you too. U need to be careful tho everyone will see that soft squishy side you keep hidden lol xx"
Haha sush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked me the other day where I had vanished to and all the replies above give my reasons. I enjoyed the socials but won't go on my jack jones and find I can't be arsed with meets lol xx
I miss you xx
Aww that's sweet. I miss you too. U need to be careful tho everyone will see that soft squishy side you keep hidden lol xx
Haha sush "
We already know she's a bendy softy at heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've only been on here a year. When we first started, we were flat out to get meets. Now we couldn't really care less either way. If it happens, it happens.
A trip to Darlaston now and again is appealing. We won't leave the site though cos there are far too many cool people on here that we want to see again at socials and events.
I need to do Xtasia again "
This, I think another club trip is needed soon to cheer us all up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Glad it's not just me "
Try somthing diff from the norm
Like MEEEE ha the banter be great and if you don't laff wi me then you never will bewshhhhhh ,stab in the dark yes but you never know you may gain more mojo ha ha X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's why I have left a few times
I find if I have a break for a while it's not so bad
But there will come a time when I think f it it's too much hassle and not what I want
But for now just enjoy it while you can x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I have left a few times
I find if I have a break for a while it's not so bad
But there will come a time when I think f it it's too much hassle and not what I want
But for now just enjoy it while you can x"
Dont leave again till ive met you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why I have left a few times
I find if I have a break for a while it's not so bad
But there will come a time when I think f it it's too much hassle and not what I want
But for now just enjoy it while you can x
Dont leave again till ive met you "
Ffs
Some people are soo demanding
But as you asked so nicely how can I say no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that slowly it dawns that sex is a very powerful driving force, but alas it's only a minute part of life and what can really make you happy.
Sure that quick thrill can seem fabulous but in the grand scheme of things we all need more deep and meaningful existence.
Take up a past time involving other and make the most of your strengths and develop. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should try something different from reg couple of people you meet and meet a few new ones to spice things up a little Get you back on top again miss p xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all seriousness though, I think it's usually inextricably linked to general mood.
How are you feeling in general?
I know when I'm even the slightest bit down I could happily be a monk for the rest of my life. The minute I feel a bit positive and perky I'm like a 15 year old in a strip club."
This, find out what is getting to you in the vanilla world first. Then get a mo Jo for your sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site "
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm"
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm"
The socials are the only reason I am staying on here at the moment dont think that will last long tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol "
A name change may be the way forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way forward "
What a great idea!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
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See Davefuckingcharming agrees |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is I don' really know what I want
I sometimes think i could do with regular but then again I have always loved my random one offs aswell
Aww Mill I am just one those people who is never happy"
Isnt that a womans perogative |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
See Davefuckingcharming agrees "
It's PrinceFuckingDave mun lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thing is I don' really know what I want
I sometimes think i could do with regular but then again I have always loved my random one offs aswell
Aww Mill I am just one those people who is never happy
Isnt that a womans perogative"
So it would seem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm "
have a little break from it all just a week or so pamper yourself, enjoy your family and friends then I am sure you will get the old excitement back xxxx tc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
See Davefuckingcharming agrees
It's PrinceFuckingDave mun lol "
Sold! Name change imminent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
See Davefuckingcharming agrees
It's PrinceFuckingDave mun lol
Sold! Name change imminent "
I'll change mine if you change yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
See Davefuckingcharming agrees
It's PrinceFuckingDave mun lol
Sold! Name change imminent
I'll change mine if you change yours "
Fucking crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel the same missp really thinking about giving up on this site
I am not giving up as I love the social side
But it's just not ticking my box atm
C'mon MissDave69 buck your ideas up lol
A name change may be the way
forward
What a great idea!
See Davefuckingcharming agrees
It's PrinceFuckingDave mun lol
Sold! Name change imminent
I'll change mine if you change yours "
. Deal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done
I feel like a trusted, reliable and decent citizen with an epic name
Hello fellow Dave. Isn't life much better now???
Sorry Dave from Skewen. Didn't notice you there. Now isn't that better??
Utterly joyful
Although I am not going to get any meets whatsoever for the next 7 days with this name "
I'm sure you will. Just get the Tits out xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done
I feel like a trusted, reliable and decent citizen with an epic name
Hello fellow Dave. Isn't life much better now???
Sorry Dave from Skewen. Didn't notice you there. Now isn't that better??
Utterly joyful
Although I am not going to get any meets whatsoever for the next 7 days with this name "
It's alright mun. Cucumbers are only 50p in Asda mun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Done
I feel like a trusted, reliable and decent citizen with an epic name
Hello fellow Dave. Isn't life much better now???
Sorry Dave from Skewen. Didn't notice you there. Now isn't that better??
Utterly joyful
Although I am not going to get any meets whatsoever for the next 7 days with this name
I'm sure you will. Just get the Tits out xx"
That's next Tuesday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done
I feel like a trusted, reliable and decent citizen with an epic name
Hello fellow Dave. Isn't life much better now???
Sorry Dave from Skewen. Didn't notice you there. Now isn't that better??
Utterly joyful
Although I am not going to get any meets whatsoever for the next 7 days with this name
I'm sure you will. Just get the Tits out xx
That's next Tuesday "
Didn't notice you adhering to Thursday name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just you Hun! Was having this same conversation with a fellow fab friend only yesterday. I've hidden my profile for now and not really meeting as I've totally lost the buzz for it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm loving my break off fab..me and Scott are exploring each other and enjoying us time... when we fancy some fun we'll hit a club or host a party and it will all be exciting again ..
Fab is addictive..and I come on once a day or every few days to browse forums..why.don't you have a little break? Coming back then is all exciting I promise xx |
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"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm "
I'll get your thrills back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Recently I am finding I am struggling to get the same excitement from Fab that I used to. I guess it's normal when you've been doing something so long for the novelty to wear off slightly. Even when I have days to myself with no kids and no work I can't really be arsed to meet. I still love the socials and love the friends I have made through the site so don't really want to leave. I have tried dating but I can't. Any advice guys on how I can get the old thrill back??
Feel like I'm flogging a dead horse atm
I'll get your thrills back "
I know you will handsome |
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