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over a year ago
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Ok so we have a fantasy we need help with.
Mrs is quite shy but curious to play with a lady.
Looking for a hot lady 21-30.
Scenario being that you start my giving Mrs a naked massage while Mr watches. If Mrs feels comfortable you can start to play with her pussy and if she's really comfortable she can play with yours.
We need someone relaxed prepared to put the time in and arouse her with the naked massage.
Mr will not be involved only watching.
If this sounds like something you would like to be involved with or help out with drop us a message xxx PS no guys lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmm I think thats called the holy grail"
I think the fact that it is not really about mutual fun for both parties is where they will struggle as they want all the attention on the Mrs as a show for the Mr and can't see many single bi fems being fussed with that.
I may be wrong though  |
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Most ladies who meet couples do so because they, to put it crudely, want cock too!
Also, lots of ladies who meet ladies for 1- on - 1 play aren't keen on providing a "floorshow" for a guy.
Many ladies who meet ladies to play are also not interested in "teaching" bi play.
So, put all that together, and you might struggle to find what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most ladies who meet couples do so because they, to put it crudely, want cock too!
Also, lots of ladies who meet ladies for 1- on - 1 play aren't keen on providing a "floorshow" for a guy.
Many ladies who meet ladies to play are also not interested in "teaching" bi play.
So, put all that together, and you might struggle to find what you want."
This
Not great that there really won't be anything in it for the person you are hoping for!! It's all about pleasing your Mrs and being pleasing on the eye for you. Each to their own and some women might get off on that but I think they will be few and far between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us old fat birds always get overlooked 
OMG!
I really got confused then, mis-read what you put, and wondered what cooking a roast for too long had to do with it lol!  "
I'm not even half-baked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the responses guys.
Luck would have it tho that we've had a few messages!
Positive mental attitude people!
Xx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the responses guys.
Luck would have it tho that we've had a few messages!
Positive mental attitude people!
Xx
Congratulations. Hope you have lots of fun. "
Well yet to arrange anything.
What do they say "don't count your chickens" lol.
But yeah hopefully lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could also look for couples who are happy for the girls to play whilst the guys watch..
Wouldn't restrict yourselves to just a single fem - unless there is an ulterior motive. |
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"Thanks for all the responses guys.
Luck would have it tho that we've had a few messages!
Positive mental attitude people!
Xx
Congratulations. Hope you have lots of fun.
Well yet to arrange anything.
What do they say "don't count your chickens" lol.
But yeah hopefully lol x"
Hope it goes well, just remember to check them out thoroughly, chat to them on the phone if you need to prove they are real.  |
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over a year ago
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"No offense but if I was a bi fem I'd feel pretty like a performing seal in that situation... all parties should get something out of it "
No offence taken. Mrs isn't comfortable without me there- quite shy as I said in original post.
Each to their own aye. Turns out some like to perform by all accounts.
That's the great thing about the human race- we are all different xx |
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"You could also look for couples who are happy for the girls to play whilst the guys watch..
Wouldn't restrict yourselves to just a single fem - unless there is an ulterior motive."
Like that idea and as it happens some of the people who have contacted us have been couples suggesting exactly that scenario!
Winner winner chicken dinner! Xx |
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over a year ago
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"How can it be girl on girl if you are there , if she wants to play with another fem let her meet one on her own for some one on one fem fun "
Yeah she's not comfortable with one on one as I said. But thanks for the idea x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for all the responses guys.
Luck would have it tho that we've had a few messages!
Positive mental attitude people!
Xx
Congratulations. Hope you have lots of fun.
Well yet to arrange anything.
What do they say "don't count your chickens" lol.
But yeah hopefully lol x
Hope it goes well, just remember to check them out thoroughly, chat to them on the phone if you need to prove they are real. "
Thx guys- will do.
Never be too careful can you xxx |
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"No offense but if I was a bi fem I'd feel pretty like a performing seal in that situation... all parties should get something out of it
No offence taken. Mrs isn't comfortable without me there- quite shy as I said in original post.
Each to their own aye. Turns out some like to perform by all accounts.
That's the great thing about the human race- we are all different xx"
When I was meeting alone. I would meet first time bi fems alone. Just the two of us meet for a drink and take things from there. I wouldnt be comfortable being watched and if I was meeting a couple I wouldn't be wanting just to play with the fem as there would be nothing in it for me. I do hope you find what your looking for x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do it all the time - but we are two girls and a guy who know each other - and we are outside your age to !
Would NOT want to perform like a caged monkey with some shy girl as her bloke watched wanking like a monkey in another cage to be honest
We'd just meet as two girls with another girl ! |
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I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
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"No offense but if I was a bi fem I'd feel pretty like a performing seal in that situation... all parties should get something out of it
No offence taken. Mrs isn't comfortable without me there- quite shy as I said in original post.
Each to their own aye. Turns out some like to perform by all accounts.
That's the great thing about the human race- we are all different xx
When I was meeting alone. I would meet first time bi fems alone. Just the two of us meet for a drink and take things from there. I wouldnt be comfortable being watched and if I was meeting a couple I wouldn't be wanting just to play with the fem as there would be nothing in it for me. I do hope you find what your looking for x"
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
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That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation. |
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"You are new here, people here are established and are only trying to help you, I'm sure "
Sorry but it's fairly clear when people are trying to be helpful or just plain rude x |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation."
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx"
Fair enough, have fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the majority of the posts here, I'd never expect a girl to meet us without having any involvement with my partner it's only fair  not saying there aren't women who would be up for it! But very hard to come by..
Good luck though!
Lady xxx |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx"
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
"
Real shame! Most people have been so lovely! There's always a few in all walks of life.
Thanks for the heads up though.
In all honesty this will probably be our last forum post lol x |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
Real shame! Most people have been so lovely! There's always a few in all walks of life.
Thanks for the heads up though.
In all honesty this will probably be our last forum post lol x"
I wouldn't be put off just because you've had a few posts on a thread that didn't go your way, if that's all it takes to upset you then don't ever go in the chatrooms lol!  |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
Real shame! Most people have been so lovely! There's always a few in all walks of life.
Thanks for the heads up though.
In all honesty this will probably be our last forum post lol x
I wouldn't be put off just because you've had a few posts on a thread that didn't go your way, if that's all it takes to upset you then don't ever go in the chatrooms lol! "
We aren't upset lol.
We would just rather spend our time and efforts in nice people x |
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
Real shame! Most people have been so lovely! There's always a few in all walks of life.
Thanks for the heads up though.
In all honesty this will probably be our last forum post lol x
I wouldn't be put off just because you've had a few posts on a thread that didn't go your way, if that's all it takes to upset you then don't ever go in the chatrooms lol!
We aren't upset lol.
We would just rather spend our time and efforts in nice people x"
And that's exactly how it should go, but this, just like real life, isn't perfect, so you have to expect the odd bump in the road.
You asked a question, and people answered, they were honest with you from what they had experienced.
Sometimes its difficult to gauge what people are trying to communicate from the written word, some things get lost when you can see the person and read their body language.
It's great you have had a positive outcome, hopefully it will go well and you will be around for ages, perhaps you will be putting comments on newbies threads telling them how it is lol!
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"I tell you what some people are very negative on here. If it's not for you- move on- why be derogatory?
My mum used to tell me if you haven't got anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
This is our fantasy- we are entitled to it- please respect that. We have had responses from several very nice people now who share this with us- so despite your narrow mindedness there are others out there who are interested.
So in summary- if you don't like it then sod off lol xxxx
That is, whether you like it or not, de riguer for forums. People start threads, and sometimes receive unfavourable feedback, which is to be expected when there are no restrictions on who can post.
Threads can often develop a life of their own, and (rightly or wrongly) getting the hump about various responses will only inflame the situation.
Maybe so. Just don't see why people feel the need to put their two penneth worth in. We are not forcing our opinion on anyone.
As I said if we aren't for you- great- move on.
What does being negative and rude achieve?
Anyway we have a little meet set up with a very lovely lady soooooo the post has achieved what we wanted. Xxx
You'll find a lot of it in the Welsh forum.
It can be rather clicky, and people do jump on threads to criticise even if it has nothing to do with them as you say.
Swinging is supposed to be friendly and non judgmental but the welsh forums in particular are far from that.. you'll see it all the time if you stay long enough.
What ever you do, dont set up a party (say under 35's) asking in the forums to apply - you'll get chastised!
Real shame! Most people have been so lovely! There's always a few in all walks of life.
Thanks for the heads up though.
In all honesty this will probably be our last forum post lol x
I wouldn't be put off just because you've had a few posts on a thread that didn't go your way, if that's all it takes to upset you then don't ever go in the chatrooms lol!
We aren't upset lol.
We would just rather spend our time and efforts in nice people x
And that's exactly how it should go, but this, just like real life, isn't perfect, so you have to expect the odd bump in the road.
You asked a question, and people answered, they were honest with you from what they had experienced.
Sometimes its difficult to gauge what people are trying to communicate from the written word, some things get lost when you can see the person and read their body language.
It's great you have had a positive outcome, hopefully it will go well and you will be around for ages, perhaps you will be putting comments on newbies threads telling them how it is lol!
You also got "
Well kind of agree- the question was;
"If this sounds like something you would like to be involved with or help out with drop us a message".
The question was not "here is our fantasy- please tell us why this is very unlikely to happen and why we are total tools for expecting it". Lol.
But hey- all is well that ends well.
Oh and thx for the lol x |
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Ok until a female turns up I wouldn't bank on this happening
But also I would ignore the patronising comments from some people who have nothing better to do with their time |
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"Ok until a female turns up I wouldn't bank on this happening
But also I would ignore the patronising comments from some people who have nothing better to do with their time "
Haha we never count our chickens lol, and thx lol x |
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"Ok until a female turns up I wouldn't bank on this happening
But also I would ignore the patronising comments from some people who have nothing better to do with their time
Haha we never count our chickens lol, and thx lol x"
Your welcome
It's nice to be nice to people
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"Ok until a female turns up I wouldn't bank on this happening
But also I would ignore the patronising comments from some people who have nothing better to do with their time
Haha we never count our chickens lol, and thx lol x
Your welcome
It's nice to be nice to people
Even if they are new "
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This is a scenario I've done in the past & would do again, I often stay on the sidelines out of choice & I'm sure there are other women like me out there who enjoy helping others fulfil a fantasy & get off on that quite happily. Luckily we're all different & a site like this should reflect that diversity X |
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"This is a scenario I've done in the past & would do again, I often stay on the sidelines out of choice & I'm sure there are other women like me out there who enjoy helping others fulfil a fantasy & get off on that quite happily. Luckily we're all different & a site like this should reflect that diversity X"
Well said! X |
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"This is a scenario I've done in the past & would do again, I often stay on the sidelines out of choice & I'm sure there are other women like me out there who enjoy helping others fulfil a fantasy & get off on that quite happily. Luckily we're all different & a site like this should reflect that diversity X"
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"This is a scenario I've done in the past & would do again, I often stay on the sidelines out of choice & I'm sure there are other women like me out there who enjoy helping others fulfil a fantasy & get off on that quite happily. Luckily we're all different & a site like this should reflect that diversity X
Do you have a passport and can travel ?"
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I've always found on here if your polite in messages you send to anyone you get a polite response back ,even if its a sorry not interested,I think sending a message saying we want this or can I fuck you wouldn't go very far ,be honest would you do the same in a pub when you met someone,best of luck with your quest |
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"I've always found on here if your polite in messages you send to anyone you get a polite response back ,even if its a sorry not interested,I think sending a message saying we want this or can I fuck you wouldn't go very far ,be honest would you do the same in a pub when you met someone,best of luck with your quest "
Think you have completely missed the point dude.
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