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over a year ago
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Just seen a huge rant on a profile about nig being able to accommodate as someone live with their parents - everyone's circumstance are different and their reasons to accommodate or not vary so why rant and ASSUME the worst.
I love with my parents I work away from home so rent my house out to save cash therefor can't Accomodate does that make me a bad person or a fake. I'm honest and up front about this and offer to pay for hotels if required and for those trusting enough to meet me we have a good time.
Swinging is about getting to know people making a connection for mutual benefit and fun and not about random fucking at your convenience - if that's what you want then I would suggest you look elsewhere |
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"Just seen a huge rant on a profile about nig being able to accommodate as someone live with their parents - everyone's circumstance are different and their reasons to accommodate or not vary so why rant and ASSUME the worst.
I love with my parents I work away from home so rent my house out to save cash therefor can't Accomodate does that make me a bad person or a fake. I'm honest and up front about this and offer to pay for hotels if required and for those trusting enough to meet me we have a good time.
Swinging is about getting to know people making a connection for mutual benefit and fun and not about random fucking at your convenience - if that's what you want then I would suggest you look elsewhere "
Swinging is about different things to different people
I only meet men who accom in their own homes
No interest in meeting men who live with their parents etc
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at this moment, after working away for nearly 5 years and other circumstances, i dont have a place of my own and not able to afford one until the circumstances are sorted so i cant accomodate. therefore at this time due to this I dont really put effort into play meets and just look to do the social side because i know due to things that happened people are wary and suspicious and dont care about if there are genuine reasons as to why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just seen a huge rant on a profile about nig being able to accommodate as someone live with their parents - everyone's circumstance are different and their reasons to accommodate or not vary so why rant and ASSUME the worst.
I love with my parents I work away from home so rent my house out to save cash therefor can't Accomodate does that make me a bad person or a fake. I'm honest and up front about this and offer to pay for hotels if required and for those trusting enough to meet me we have a good time.
Swinging is about getting to know people making a connection for mutual benefit and fun and not about random fucking at your convenience - if that's what you want then I would suggest you look elsewhere
Swinging is about different things to different people
I only meet men who accom in their own homes
No interest in meeting men who live with their parents etc
My choice "
I have no problem with choice I agepree its your own choice what I disagree with is where people judge and then rant about it on their profile.
It wasn't about me I hasten to add but I've seen it so much lately it annoys me. Just a polite not me is or me is required |
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I cant accom at the mo either due to living arrangements.but people assume your married or playin away.!! Had a reply to a message I sent a few months back that said go fck your wife instead.!! Im sure even tho my ex is still single she still wouldnt want to fck me lol.
so its not good to assume. |
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I can't accommodate
But that's because I have a family
I know everyone's living arrangements are different
Some are not single
Some house share
Some live with family
Some maybe homeless and just want to meet to have a bed for the night ha ha
As long as people are honest it shouldn't matter |
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I choose not to have ppl at my house as its my own safe place - I ve heard horror stories from other ladies about meets they ve had and then they just turned up unannounced . Rather keep safe and avoid hassle . So no I don't accommodate at all and I don't care if ppl assume things it's clearly my choice my business . |
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I know where you are coming from
I have had people turn up at 3am and also had a call from a neighbour to say someone was stood at top of my garden watching me in my house at night
I have accommodated since but only with people I know and feel I can trust |
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Agree with a lot that's been said above. We don't know a person's circumstances - it's wrong to assume the worst.
A person could have children so can't accommodate because their children are at home with a baby sitter; they could live in a shared house and have housemates that wouldn't understand; they could live with parents; as a lady above said it could be for personal safety...
Honest reasons are likely to outnumber dishonest ones.
Personally, I prefer my own home for first sex meet as I'm more comfortable here and less nervous so less likely to disappoint.  |
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