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The Cheek of some People!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys recently got asked to a Hotel meet by a couple so went along only to turn up and be asked to contribute £40-£60 toward hotel? Anyone else find this mad? Lol |
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Enquired about one of these 'parties' a couple of years back. Was told how much it was going to cost & politely declined. Chipping in for costs is one thing but £40-£60 is simply prostitution. Reported it to admin but they still advertise here week in week out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simples, just Google the price of the room at a well known comparison site 
Know contribution should really be more than £40 unless it's at the Hilton 
Always make sure you know what's up front before the meet, then you can decline politely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx |
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx"
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck!"
Then it probably is a fucking duck!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well when said couple finnish about 8pm because they are going out in cardiff. I'm sure they are thinking of the grateful donations to their lifestyle.
Sorry (hotel costs). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck!
Then it probably is a fucking duck!! "
A fucking duck ?
I've heard of luv a duck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck!
Then it probably is a fucking duck!!
A fucking duck ?
I've heard of luv a duck
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You ain't lived |
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"Hey guys recently got asked to a Hotel meet by a couple so went along only to turn up and be asked to contribute £40-£60 toward hotel? Anyone else find this mad? Lol "
. If you were to obtain some pleasure from the meeting I cannot see anything wrong in being asked to contibute towards the hotel costs . If they were to the bother of arranging a hotel room , common manners would suggest that the costs should be shared .
In fact a offer towards costs should have been made before being asked for one .
It seems a bit one sided if you expect someone to provide both the accommodation and the pleasure . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys recently got asked to a Hotel meet by a couple so went along only to turn up and be asked to contribute £40-£60 toward hotel? Anyone else find this mad? Lol . If you were to obtain some pleasure from the meeting I cannot see anything wrong in being asked to contibute towards the hotel costs . If they were to the bother of arranging a hotel room , common manners would suggest that the costs should be shared .
In fact a offer towards costs should have been made before being asked for one .
It seems a bit one sided if you expect someone to provide both the accommodation and the pleasure . "
I guess it depends on the cost of the room and how many guys are attending at a charge of £40 - £60 a pop
I think you will often find that certain couples (not mentioning anyone in particular) come of quite well at the end of it
Make of that what you will, of course
Everyone has different standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this certain couples where the women in the couple change frequently whilst the man remains the same and collects the contributions?
I'm guessing you wouldn't of been the only man to be invited either. |
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"Its more common than you might think on here xx
It borders on prostitution but thats only my opinion of course dare I say!! Running for the hills now! Xx
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck!"
That line sounds familiar
If the OP wasn't told about the 'contribution' that was expected for the room before hand, then that's not really fair. Since you're very likely to pay the 'fee'. After all if you've come out wearing your dancing shoes ... then you would really want to get jiggy before heading home 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You cannot see nothing wrong in charging every single guy and couple £40 each to have some fun? So a hotel room costs £200 for 1 night? Not in the village hotel Cardiff lol well the room we was in didn't that's for sure! Lol to me like everyone has commented above its border prostitution if you ask me and I for one won't be doing that again I may Aswel go to a brothel lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread. I wouldn't mind contributing to the true costvof sharing a hotel, but if they are inviting loads of men then that shouldn't be loads
It has made me look at some adverts with new eyes, I saw one today looking to meet a 'generous' older male. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You cannot see nothing wrong in charging every single guy and couple £40 each to have some fun? So a hotel room costs £200 for 1 night? Not in the village hotel Cardiff lol well the room we was in didn't that's for sure! Lol to me like everyone has commented above its border prostitution if you ask me and I for one won't be doing that again I may Aswel go to a brothel lol"
You were the one dull enough to pay it. Why on earth didnt you just say "no thanks" then leave, seens as you were so outraged, rather than pay it
I'm confused  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You cannot see nothing wrong in charging every single guy and couple £40 each to have some fun? So a hotel room costs £200 for 1 night? Not in the village hotel Cardiff lol well the room we was in didn't that's for sure! Lol to me like everyone has commented above its border prostitution if you ask me and I for one won't be doing that again I may Aswel go to a brothel lol
You were the one dull enough to pay it. Why on earth didnt you just say "no thanks" then leave, seens as you were so outraged, rather than pay it
I'm confused "
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Guys this is just plain prostitution end of. The hotel being used in Swansea is t
The Grand. Check out their prices. They advertise a roof top jacuzzi. It's the only hotel in Swansea with one. Doh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Miss P it wasn't until I walked in and he shut the door that he asked for the money, I felt embarrassed by it and felt I had to pay! I was furious coz none of it was mentioned prior to arranging but there we are lesson learnt I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Miss P it wasn't until I walked in and he shut the door that he asked for the money, I felt embarrassed by it and felt I had to pay! I was furious coz none of it was mentioned prior to arranging but there we are lesson learnt I suppose "
I would have told him where to go and opened the door and left |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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I've learnt lots of lessons since I've been on here.
Not everyone is what they say they are.
Not everyone is as honest and upfront as I am.
And not everyone does what they say they will (as in turn up for meets or arrange meets even though they practically beg you to meet them)
But hey ho......you live and learn.
Take it on the chin OP..... lesson learnt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys this is just plain prostitution end of. The hotel being used in Swansea is t
The Grand. Check out their prices. They advertise a roof top jacuzzi. It's the only hotel in Swansea with one. Doh!"
The only one I see with a roof top jacuzzi at the grand is the penthouse suite, £295 per night. It makes £40 a more reasonable cost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm same as missp would have turned around and left after prob saying some choice words.
Anybody who pays £40-£50 towards room contribution is either naive, desperate or just plain dull.
Considering these couples do it on a regular basis I wonder if they declare earnings from room to tax man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 parties sharing a room and agreeably splitting the cost is a totally different thing to a couple booking a room and charging multiple men 50 quid to fuck the mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 parties sharing a room and agreeably splitting the cost is a totally different thing to a couple booking a room and charging multiple men 50 quid to fuck the mrs. "
I agree I don't mind paying for a room on a meet but that's a joke right? |
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"I'm same as missp would have turned around and left after prob saying some choice words.
Anybody who pays £40-£50 towards room contribution is either naive, desperate or just plain dull.
Considering these couples do it on a regular basis I wonder if they declare earnings from room to tax man "
of course they don't lets hope Hmrc catch up with them soon lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is VERY definitely for a couple - or a single guy - to make it clear that, if a commercial venue is being use to overcome individuals inability to accommodate, then the cost of the evening is shared. We don't think many would have an issue with that.
However, this as well as other swinging sites does act as "feeders" for professional couples and those we've seen on here simply "gloss over" what they are really doing.
We would ALWAYS caution any solo male thinking of taking up an "invite" to attend a couple for a gang-bang, cream-pie, bukake, etc. etc. style of session to ask TWO things first. Will there be cameras and will they be required to pay an "attendance fee".
Sadly so many desperate solo guys think only with their dicks. |
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"It is VERY definitely for a couple - or a single guy - to make it clear that, if a commercial venue is being use to overcome individuals inability to accommodate, then the cost of the evening is shared. We don't think many would have an issue with that.
However, this as well as other swinging sites does act as "feeders" for professional couples and those we've seen on here simply "gloss over" what they are really doing.
We would ALWAYS caution any solo male thinking of taking up an "invite" to attend a couple for a gang-bang, cream-pie, bukake, etc. etc. style of session to ask TWO things first. Will there be cameras and will they be required to pay an "attendance fee".
Sadly so many desperate solo guys think only with their dicks. "
It really disappoints me that fab admin does nothing to ban these couples and single girls who are basically using this site to advertise services
its not swinging in my book they are quick enough to give out forum bans for silly reasons but allow this... sort it out admin |
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"Miss P it wasn't until I walked in and he shut the door that he asked for the money, I felt embarrassed by it and felt I had to pay! I was furious coz none of it was mentioned prior to arranging but there we are lesson learnt I suppose "
I've had this happen to me, they tend to get a but upset when you say no thanks & leave.
Funny thing they have asked me back again. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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". . . ask TWO things first. Will there be cameras and will they be required to pay an "attendance fee".
Sadly so many desperate solo guys think only with their dicks.
It really disappoints me that fab admin does nothing to ban these couples and single girls who are basically using this site to advertise services
its not swinging in my book they are quick enough to give out forum bans for silly reasons but allow this... sort it out admin "
Many who trade off of this site but seek "volunteers" from male members here will be professional enough not to break the rules. There is NOTHING wrong with that BUT they should - must - make it clear what they are looking for privately BEFORE any meeting. Then it's a case of "buyer beware".
We have seen though, from time to time, several couples profiles on here where the wording, conditions if you will, in their profile clearly shows they seek financial reward. They're either very hardened in attitude or simply naive but, wherever examples are found, they should be reported to Admin. |
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"I'm same as missp would have turned around and left after prob saying some choice words.
Anybody who pays £40-£50 towards room contribution is either naive, desperate or just plain dull.
Considering these couples do it on a regular basis I wonder if they declare earnings from room to tax man
of course they don't lets hope Hmrc catch up with them soon lol"
I would've asked for a VAT receipt, so I could claim it back on expenses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys recently got asked to a Hotel meet by a couple so went along only to turn up and be asked to contribute £40-£60 toward hotel? Anyone else find this mad? Lol "
think i know the couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
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Suppose there is a point to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
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If they go to a brothel they are guaranteed some fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well a lot of clubs have working girls in them these days
I'm sure a lot of people would object to our lifestyle choices
Different strokes for different folks and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
Suppose there is a point to that!"
If they know in advance then fair enough
But to spring a "charge" on someone on arrival is a little unfair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
Suppose there is a point to that!
If they know in advance then fair enough
But to spring a "charge" on someone on arrival is a little unfair "
They don't have to stay
All they have to say is they don't have cash on them
And I guarantee that people who say it was just sprung on them when they got there
Also felt obligated to get a hardon and fuck lol
Come on now we are all adults
No one is forced to do anything they don't want to do including paying for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own and whatever makes
People happy as long as they are informed before hand what's the problem
Guys pay £40+ to get in clubs with the hope of getting some action
At least if they go to the hotels they are guaranteed some fun
Suppose there is a point to that!
If they know in advance then fair enough
But to spring a "charge" on someone on arrival is a little unfair
They don't have to stay
All they have to say is they don't have cash on them
And I guarantee that people who say it was just sprung on them when they got there
Also felt obligated to get a hardon and fuck lol
Come on now we are all adults
No one is forced to do anything they don't want to do including paying for sex "
I don't think anyone has mentioned being forced into anything
Just think that it is the adult thing to do that if you intend charging someone for sex that they know about it before they are invited around
That way everyone can make an informed choice 
As long as everyone is upfront and honest then all parties know where they stand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone who i have met who has attended these hotel meets has been informed beforehand that there Is a charge
If people don't agree with it then fine don't go
But it's not our place to judge what other people do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The o.p wasn't informed until after he arrived
I think that is the point most people are referring to
But he went on regardless so that was his own choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was asked to contribute £40-60
Well to start with the op doesn't even seem sure how much he paid
He was embarrassed so paid up
But he then could have left if he felt that outraged by it
But I'm sure that's not what happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was asked to contribute £40-60
Well to start with the op doesn't even seem sure how much he paid
He was embarrassed so paid up
But he then could have left if he felt that outraged by it
But I'm sure that's not what happened "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The o.p wasn't informed until after he arrived
I think that is the point most people are referring to
But he went on regardless so that was his own choice "
Exactly that, transparency should have been in place, even if he had said NO then he would have wasted his time and costs getting there on a false promise. |
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"The o.p wasn't informed until after he arrived
I think that is the point most people are referring to
But he went on regardless so that was his own choice
Exactly that, transparency should have been in place, even if he had said NO then he would have wasted his time and costs getting there on a false promise."
Transparency is good yes but are we forgetting this is a swingers site and not ad******k i know of working girls who also swing but it still doesn't mean they should use this site to advertise Imho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I would happily pay half or full price for the room if I was to meet a genuine couple who invited me to a meet etc but this couple weren't even together he just sat there on his laptop whilst everyone had fun with the woman! To me that is not what swinging is all about hence why I found it a bloody cheek! Like stated lesson learnt lol |
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