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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this is a bit whingey and whiney but you're all getting sex and i ain't so i hate you all. Hahaha.
Just, sometimes it can feel like the other person in the relationship has given up on you or it can be a case of you just being an over thinking dick. Lol.
Just wondering if there's any tell tale signs that the relationship has died.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simple.
You argue about anything. Like when you have a smelly fart.
The same argument will come up when you love each other too but it will only last 5 seconds. Instead of 5 days."
She does seem to enjoy an argument.... Or to tell off. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She doesn't want to go out with you. She doesn't want to stay in with you either. She goes to bed at a different time. She encourages you to go away with your mates. She won't make future plans like holidays. She doesn't cuddle you on the sofa. She takes less care over your things. She kills your dog, then your parents. Maybe not the last two. Haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I knew, like Cher said it was in his kiss. There was nothing there just a kiss that could have been from a stranger. Not my husband of 13 years! No feeling, no passion.
10 years later on and I'm  "
Totally agree with this but mine was 24 years now 5 years and happy. Get out and set yourself free one chance at life grab it with both hands!!! |
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"She doesn't want to go out with you. She doesn't want to stay in with you either. She goes to bed at a different time. She encourages you to go away with your mates. She won't make future plans like holidays. She doesn't cuddle you on the sofa. She takes less care over your things. She kills your dog, then your parents. Maybe not the last two. Haha x"
Guess you're correct in the big scheme of things.
Still think my fart analogy has some meaning though 
And we love each other more than ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She doesn't want to go out with you. She doesn't want to stay in with you either. She goes to bed at a different time. She encourages you to go away with your mates. She won't make future plans like holidays. She doesn't cuddle you on the sofa. She takes less care over your things. She kills your dog, then your parents. Maybe not the last two. Haha x
Guess you're correct in the big scheme of things.
Still think my fart analogy has some meaning though
And we love each other more than ever"
I agree with the farting!! It's bad enough smelling your own, and when you really love someone you don't mind having to smell theirs..... but when they start having a go at you, well they obviously don't love you enough to endure it. Or is it just that my farts smell that bad?? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arguing is a good sign of still giving a shit. Once she stops giving a shit, then you should be worried.
Talking to her about this will show you still respect the relationship and her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its when I have no respect for the person Im in a relationship with due to things they have said, or not said and done. Ive found that kills all the love I had for them and there is no way back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do try to talk about it but she just thinks I'm trying to start an argument or bring her down. I like to think i give our relationship my all, I never miss an opportunity to tell her how much I love her and she gets a rose every Saturday morning. All the little things, ya know.
I just can't make sense without her input if she's given up or not. |
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By *andLCouple
over a year ago
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Petty arguments that they won't let go.
They're either testing you because they're unsure of you or detest you..in my experience..
Read games people play by Eric Burn, it's fascinating. |
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By *andLCouple
over a year ago
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Most arguments are over insecurities I find. Maybe there's a better way of reassuring her. Just some thoughts, I hope things work out for you sincerely as I know from experience it's not nice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dunno what to suggest really, i don't know her so don't know what's the best way to approach her.
She could have anything going on in her head that's bothering her really, might not be anything to do with you or the relationship even, but i do know that when you have a hunch something is wrong with your relationship you're usually right. (you in general, not you personally).
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dunno what to suggest really, i don't know her so don't know what's the best way to approach her.
She could have anything going on in her head that's bothering her really, might not be anything to do with you or the relationship even, but i do know that when you have a hunch something is wrong with your relationship you're usually right. (you in general, not you personally).
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Yeah, there's so much to consider. That's why I'm just seeing the general experience in similar situations. It's all a great help.  |
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